ThinkingKitten -> RE: I fucked up my LSAT. I am going to cry. (12/21/2007 5:46:32 PM)
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ORIGINAL: kitttty It would be abnormal here, but we are both from Asian countries, where sometimes people do refuse to get married over scores. My father is going to be downright ashamed of me. Dear kitttty: I was going to keep my mouth shut until I saw this post from you. If there's one thing that I remember from my time at University, it was seeing students from Asian backgrounds yawning their heads off on the last bus home, because they didn't go dare go home before then, and are only going now because the library is closing (I overheard them complaining about it - so it's not supposition on my part). They've been getting the push from their parents who have high expectations and want them to be doctors, or lawyers or whatever, because their parents "never had those opportunities, and are now sacrificing everything so their kids can get ahead" (regardless of what their kids want). Later on, you meet these graduates, and it is obvious they are miserable, and only going through the motions of being a doctor or whatever. Zero passion and interest. Please don't be one of those, and do future legal clients a disservice by trying to represent them, or give legal counsel to anyone when you're not in that profession of your own volition, and really don't care. Don't be one of those living their parent's lives, not their own. When it comes to your Dom, I'd say the same thing. Live YOUR life in his service, not HIS life in his service. Be proud of what you've done so far. A good LSAT is not a particularly good measure of intelligence - it just means you can answer those kinds of questions well. And if your Dom thinks it is, then he's not nearly as intelligent as he'd like to think he is. If you seriously think you can do better, and YOU want to try again then give it a go. Don't be fooled by irrational external pressures. Good luck.
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