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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 3:29:30 PM   
Shawn1066


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I had a slave wear lingerie while we were on long trips, and I'd do her at rest-stops, and make her expose herself at drive-threws.'


If you ever come through my drive-thru.  I will call the cops on you.  Aside from my Owner, I will not be a tool for somebody else's amusement.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 4:02:09 PM   
Sirsinini


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Regardless of her idea of humiliation, ANY new ideas would be appreciated!!!


I really have to respect what you said about the "public" factor and her bing part of that persona.
 
I was thinking about how some sub/slaves respond to anal, any type of anal play, the other day as I was driving home from a camshow with Sir on the "other" site which folk here on CM seem to abhore.
 
We get many more viewers when there is anal play, esp when its just not him f**kin my ass.  I was thinking that it must be humiliating for other gals to literally eat out a man ass.... he never had it done until I "went there" with instructions to do as I willed.  He cant seem to get enough and I do not find it humiliating just serving his new found need and desire.  I need to please him.
 
So I will suggest 2 things from this response...
1. cam show on some site...  NOT showing her face.... having her do what does not come natural for her  (example:  its humiliating for me "to do" myself in front of Sir let alone cam)
2. take her hand and gently lead her into total anal play
 
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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 4:09:55 PM   
Sirsinini


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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

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I had a slave wear lingerie while we were on long trips, and I'd do her at rest-stops, and make her expose herself at drive-threws.'


If you ever come through my drive-thru.  I will call the cops on you.  Aside from my Owner, I will not be a tool for somebody else's amusement.


Stong ethical and moral feelings as well as judgments on other's actions Shawn.
Its not exactly public, its semi public.
 
You might need to eat your words if your owner ever has you be a
"tool for somebody else's amusement."  That wound include a "lifestyle" get together or play at a "dungeon."   Or what about the amusement your "fellow" submissive might find when your owner uses you in front of "him."

Just my thots on judging.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 6:49:50 PM   
BikerDomRealTime


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......4. Take her to a beauty salon; have her sit silently with hands folded, while you chat with the stylist about how her hair should be cut, whether it needs color, and so forth. Ignore the odd looks from the other customers, and make it clear to the stylist that you are selecting this for her. Then have it styled per your whim. This works well also at a makeup counter, or dress shop, forcing her to publically acknowlege Your control over her.



Also while at a restaurant order her meals and her drinks, ensuring that the server is looking at you while you are placing the order, and not her.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 7:02:21 PM   
Shawn1066


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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini

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ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

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ORIGINAL: BlackKnight

I had a slave wear lingerie while we were on long trips, and I'd do her at rest-stops, and make her expose herself at drive-threws.'


If you ever come through my drive-thru.  I will call the cops on you.  Aside from my Owner, I will not be a tool for somebody else's amusement.


Stong ethical and moral feelings as well as judgments on other's actions Shawn.
Its not exactly public, its semi public.
 
You might need to eat your words if your owner ever has you be a
"tool for somebody else's amusement."  That wound include a "lifestyle" get together or play at a "dungeon."   Or what about the amusement your "fellow" submissive might find when your owner uses you in front of "him."

Just my thots on judging.

Inini, Sir's devoted property 


It's very public.  Something like that would involve multiple staff members and possibly customers(anybody can seee ut of a drive-thru window in most resturants).  Also, all parties aren't consenting.  Also, my Owner doesn't share and even -if- she did, it'd be if all parties involved were consenting adults.  It would also be for my Owner's amusement, so I'd be serving her.  So no, I wouldn't be "eating my words" at all.  There's a difference between sharing your kink with somebody in privacy and publically forcing it upon the unwilling.

The difference?  The former is fine and the latter is wrong.  Consent is -vital-


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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 7:07:19 PM   
hejira92


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a) Take her out for a meal, have her put a short skirt on so you can see her thighs. Between eating, talk to her, write notes for her...generally get her wet.....once the job is done send her to the toilet to take her knickers off, and bring them to you by handing them to you under the table. Where you go from there is up to you......some more written notes to her etc. Watch out for the hygiene aspect. She may not find this humilating, but she will when you tell her the smell is strong and others in the restaurant will be able to smell - a tad cruel, but humiliation all the same.



Except for the smell and handing the panties OVER the table, sounds like my first date with Master.....

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 12/30/2007 7:30:33 PM   
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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 7:45:10 AM   
whipingherfeet


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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 10:06:24 AM   
charlotte12


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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

4. Take her to a beauty salon; have her sit silently with hands folded, while you chat with the stylist about how her hair should be cut, whether it needs color, and so forth. Ignore the odd looks from the other customers, and make it clear to the stylist that you are selecting this for her. Then have it styled per your whim. This works well also at a makeup counter, or dress shop, forcing her to publically acknowlege Your control over her.



Mmmm.......sounds like something i'd definitely struggle with. (and find delicious at the same time.)  Many of the things i have no problem with Master controlling privately become something much more difficult in public. I like that non of these are forcing kink on anyone else but still forcing the submissive to remember her role in a public setting. Scary and exciting ...at least for me.

charlotte


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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 4:47:52 PM   
BabyDollVanIsle


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Status: offline 		Can i say that i would find the idea of being used sexually at rest stops while wearing lingerie, and then exposing myself at drive ins terribly humiliating.

i must make sure my Dom knows how much i would dislike that.

what a pity he is so conservative and thoughtful. i am sure he will agree it would be a terrible thing to subject me to, and immediately agree to never subject me to such a horrible situation.

*sigh*

some days it is just tough to be a submissive.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 4:50:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		and may i say that i don't consider human nudity and sexual expression such a damaging and distressing sight.

i am sure everyone in the lunch room at the fast food place would be highly entertained to hear the story from 'tom' about what happened to him that day. it would really brighten up the day of all the employees not just whoever was working at the window that day.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 4:52:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BabyDollVanIsle

and may i say that i don't consider human nudity and sexual expression such a damaging and distressing sight.

i am sure everyone in the lunch room at the fast food place would be highly entertained to hear the story from 'tom' about what happened to him that day. it would really brighten up the day of all the employees not just whoever was working at the window that day.


You'd be wrong.

Not everyone enjoys seeing others naked and that isn't a character flaw. While I have no issue with nudity, I have a lot of issues with someone forcing their nudity on me.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 5:17:30 PM   
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Not everyone enjoys seeing others naked and that isn't a character flaw. While I have no issue with nudity, I have a lot of issues with someone forcing their nudity on me.


I am reminded of what happened in our sexual harassment training at a prior job. We were a remote office and fairly tightly knit and got along very well. Still, the home office thought that we just had to go through sexual harassment training so as not to accidentally offend each other.

So there we all were sitting in the meeting and the mean ole' HR lady said, "What if a person has a poster in her cubicle of a scantily clad woman? Is that appropriate for the workplace?"

We all fell into silence debating exactly what to say, wishing we could just leave, secretly (and not so secretly loathing her).

When one of the guys, who is forever my hero because of this chimed up with the simple response, "Is she hot?"

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 5:23:51 PM   
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When one of the guys, who is forever my hero because of this chimed up with the simple response, "Is she hot?"


What did the HR lady say?

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 7:44:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		Humiliation idea, although slanted as I am....

Nothing beats going out for a nice little shopping trip at ambiance, or princilla...any type of sexy-y type store that most vanilla would blush simply walking into. Before you besure to take her out for drinks and set the restriction that she's not allowed out of your sight (hence, no bathroom breaks for her).
after a few drinks and a lemonade or two she'll be dying and a really good time to go pick out a nice new set of panties..until you get to the store and she has an accident (granted someone has to clean it up, but after you explain that she's still learning and she turns bright red I think they'll understand)

If you wanted a step further, go to a drugstore afterwards and make her ask the people behind the counter what type of garnment she'll need to wear so future accidents don't occur (hehe, nothing would beat putting her cute struggling body into diapers in the parking lot of a drugstore)

Ok, I'm twisted, but you can't make (good) lemonaid without twisting a few lemons!

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 7:55:16 PM   
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after a few drinks and a lemonade or two she'll be dying and a really good time to go pick out a nice new set of panties..until you get to the store and she has an accident (granted someone has to clean it up, but after you explain that she's still learning and she turns bright red I think they'll understand)



Being someone who wants to work at or possibly own an adult store someday... eww.

Just because they work there doesn't mean they want to assist in training or touch her fluids. I can't imagine any of the nice people I've talked to while shopping there wanting to do such a thing - I'm pretty sure they would tell you to leave the store and that there is a bathroom she could have used. Sides, Priscella's is a pretty 'nilla place with tons of stuff for bridal showers and only a small section for BDSM. If you are going to do it, take her to a hard-core leather shop.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 8:31:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not aware of any hard-core leather shops..but you have a very valid point.
I had a good friend who ended up working there, and I was about 3 second from handing in an application myself one day...God do I understand...
I've worked with the public to a certain extent...you just never know what they will do or when, where, or how...but they somehow manage amazing and strange things.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 8:43:57 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		There are definately leather shops, if you are lucky enough to find them! I just don't consider Priscella's to be all that scary because it doesn't have much stuff for BDSM but other shops in my town sell hoods, rods for urtheras and other medical play devices and other "scary" toys, along with real handcuffs.

However, I know of one dungeon that also has a small store attached. If you found one of those in the area and called ahead, you might be able to work something out!

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 8:46:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Have her wear a remote control vibrateing egg with no panties on and take her to a restaurant with wooden chairs or benches to sit on that are not padded .. when the waitperson is at the table turn the egg on high it will be heard vibrateing against the wood but the waitperson wont know where the sound is coming from but your sub will.... turn it up and down a few times as you place your order .

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 8:49:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Send your sub into a grocery store shopping for veggies .. a cucumber .. squash of large sizes ... make sure they go thru the check out line and tell the cashier they were told to get the biggest ones they could find.   After they pay and leave .. have them go back in and buy a lubricant and go back thru the same cashiers line and say they forgot something.

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