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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 9:08:23 PM

Bluebird

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One thing I did accidentally one time, which I found very amusing when I realized what happened - I went to a large chain store to pick up supplies for a video we were working on. Not thinking about the contents of my cart, I happily unloaded about 20 pairs of pantyhose and a dozen rolls of duct tape on the conveyer. The young male cashier looked up with a grin and asked "Fun weekend planned?"

You could plan a very embarrassing shopping list for your sub (a list with 2 liter bottles of soda, magnum condoms, and a mega-pack of lube comes to mind) and require her to choose the slowest lane. Depending on her level of embarrassment, it doesn't even need to be so explicit - could just be skimpy panties and require her to go through a male cashier's line. Yes, it does involve a *bit* of use of a non-consenting party, but not like showing off her bits in a public arena.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 9:23:02 PM

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Humiliation idea, although slanted as I am....

Nothing beats going out for a nice little shopping trip at ambiance, or princilla...any type of sexy-y type store that most vanilla would blush simply walking into. Before you besure to take her out for drinks and set the restriction that she's not allowed out of your sight (hence, no bathroom breaks for her).
after a few drinks and a lemonade or two she'll be dying and a really good time to go pick out a nice new set of panties..until you get to the store and she has an accident (granted someone has to clean it up, but after you explain that she's still learning and she turns bright red I think they'll understand)

One of the problems with this is bodily fluids are sometimes considered toxic substances and it's possible a store could be shut down if none of the employees have in in their job description/training. It happened at a bookstore i visited when a toddler couldn't hold it in.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/8/2008 11:04:17 PM

BabyDollVanIsle

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humiliation is easy

sexy, interesting humiliation is a bit harder

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/9/2008 2:00:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: BabyDollVanIsle

humiliation is easy

sexy, interesting humiliation is a bit harder

Alright I'll humiliate you,
and because you are sexy enough of your own...
it's a deal

GoddezzT`

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/9/2008 9:09:53 AM

MissHarlet

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Having male subs buy douche products and enema bags and making sure they go to a female cashier is often enough to make them beg ... especially if they easily blush and are macho looking

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/9/2008 10:08:14 PM

MercTech

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Shades of the "Midnight Shopper" gag. Pick two items to buy together in the wee hours that will lift the eyebrows of the checkout clerk. Large cucumber and larg bottle of K-Y. Large economy size spray can of whipped cream and an enema bag. Long sculpture balloons and a 3lb can of crisco. You get the idea. One of the more harmless embarrassing fratboy gags.

The talk of the lingerie and traveling reminds me of one lady I knew that liked to strip naked and lay down on the front seat. No one could see but the truckers. She would wave at them if they honked the horn.

Want embarrasing.. put the sub in a full coverage zentai suit and take her out dancing. Supposing she is embarrassed by getting huge amounts of attention.

Stefan

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 1:42:48 AM

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2. Send her to an adult toy store, and have her go in and ask the clerk to see several large dildos, saying her Master wanted her to get a certain one.

This I have had to do although it was with butt plugs and I had to be on the phone to Sir at the time, describing them and telling him what I thought of them.

It was a tiny store so I know the assistant could hear me and I live in a small town so boy was I squirming by the time I left.

Also for me being made to be a puppy is incredibly humiliating I absolutely hate it.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 11:07:16 AM

MercTech

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Ok... ran across something that could be really humiliating http://www.ohmibod.com/catalog/shopping_cart.php

Consider the "Boditalk" ... as it will react to any cellphone ring signal, random SMS messages through the day could be a real distraction.

Stefan

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 1:10:00 PM

parttimehotty

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http://www.sub-dom.com/humiliation.htm

Make her go to the store w/your jism on her face.
Make her go to the store wearing your underwear that you've peed in.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 9:26:27 PM

spike19

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Suzykeu

quote:

ORIGINAL: spike19

Humiliation idea, although slanted as I am....

Nothing beats going out for a nice little shopping trip at ambiance, or princilla...any type of sexy-y type store that most vanilla would blush simply walking into. Before you besure to take her out for drinks and set the restriction that she's not allowed out of your sight (hence, no bathroom breaks for her).
after a few drinks and a lemonade or two she'll be dying and a really good time to go pick out a nice new set of panties..until you get to the store and she has an accident (granted someone has to clean it up, but after you explain that she's still learning and she turns bright red I think they'll understand)

One of the problems with this is bodily fluids are sometimes considered toxic substances and it's possible a store could be shut down if none of the employees have in in their job description/training. It happened at a bookstore i visited when a toddler couldn't hold it in.

Wow..that would be really wild to shut a store down for something like that... I can't imagine something like that happening around here... I suppose it depends alot on what town/city/state we live in and what the people are like.

I've spent enough time out in the forest to know that nature is dirty, to think that society would close down a store for what nature wouldn't even blink an eye at really doesn't speak well for society.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 9:29:17 PM

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I used to like making my boy dress completely as a female, make up, bad wig, etc., and dropping him off at the busiest shopping centre I could find. With no money for cabs. He had to walk through the place and walk home.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 9:35:49 PM

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I am a manager at a fast food resturant. Did you ever stop to think that sometimes those people at the window are not only not consenting they are not ADULTS..... The other night I worked at the store and I was the ONLY one over 18... think about that....

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/10/2008 11:42:52 PM

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A little something I have done that plays with embarassment is play with your sub while on the phone. Grope, fondle, insert where ever you like. The catch being that the sub is not allowed to hang up and must continue the conversation. If you're going for a lighter touch do it when she's on the phone with a friend where it wouldn't be a big deal if they figured out that there was fucking going on. If you want to be truly sadistic do it while on the phone with family or a boss. Note that the point here is NOT to get caught, so if your sub can't help being loud or boisterous then this one probably isn't for you.
-R

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 5:07:06 AM

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Three words, to be used in so many fun situations: REMOTE CONTROLLED EGG! Use it to communicate - 1 buzz for yes 2 for no...so much fun, so little time

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 5:49:44 AM

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Are we talking about true humilation here, or humilation that actually is a turn on for her? In either case, you simply have to know what humilates her and what does not.   This is probally why you don't see people posting a lot of ideas on here.

Hell can be as simple as knowing a color she hates, and making her wear clothing in that color.   Take anything that makes her feel awkward, stupid, silly or basically uncomfortable with.   Does not have to be sexual either.

Also, keep in mind why you are humilating her? what can she learn or grow from the experience? Are we talking about humilation for the Fun or it, or with a motive or reason behind it.   Again, your motivations behind whipping out humilation is not something that other people can gauge here.

I Loved LA's response about asking for cake being one of the most humilating experiences.    To tell you the truth, I believe it too.   I myself, have and will humilate somebody by having them beg or keep them up in the air about giving them a yes/no permission to do something or have something.

Actually, it can even more humilating for a sub/slave asking or begging for something in front of other people. Even more so if other people find or see humor in it.   I'm a bit of a smart ass anyways.   Even with my vanilla friends.. whenever somebody asks "to see my lighter" or something else they wish to use. I will hold it up and say "See" and slide it back into my pocket or put it back down. Then again, I was only humilating the willing that opened themselves up for it. So, I actually make or force them to ask me more directly. Amazing enough, people seem to love this, and it's a good laugh too. I really don't have a DOM BDSM off switch, it just shows it self in different levels with different people.

Humilation is a bit of a different animal compared to Degradation. Again, I think LA's asking for some cake is an excellent example of it. Look, does not involve anything sexual.   Think too many people can't remove their minds from the gutter enough to see what humilation is or can be all about.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 9:37:50 AM

stripmymanhood

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Why does the movie, "There's Something About Mary" come to mind with this post.

quote:

ORIGINAL: parttimehotty

http://www.sub-dom.com/humiliation.htm

Make her go to the store w/your jism on her face.
Make her go to the store wearing your underwear that you've peed in.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 9:43:26 AM

stripmymanhood

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A couple of things i've been made to do is buy nylons and ask the salesperson what size would fit me....same thing with other female garments...picture aside, i don't have that much in that department....also being told to buy dildoes and ask what is the largest one available...then purchase said item...i will say...i've always made sure the salesepeople i've dealt with to be of age....to avoid a flame like the one mentioned earlier.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 9:44:39 AM

stripmymanhood

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OMG...this is one i'll be thinking about quite a bit at night!!!

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I used to like making my boy dress completely as a female, make up, bad wig, etc., and dropping him off at the busiest shopping centre I could find. With no money for cabs. He had to walk through the place and walk home.

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 9:46:30 AM

parttimehotty

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stripmymanhood

Why does the movie, "There's Something About Mary" come to mind with this post.

quote:

ORIGINAL: parttimehotty

http://www.sub-dom.com/humiliation.htm

Make her go to the store w/your jism on her face.
Make her go to the store wearing your underwear that you've peed in.

Sorry, never saw that movie but now i feel that i must! lol

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RE: Submissives and slaves, humiliation ideas. - 1/11/2008 9:56:14 AM

fluffyswitch

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ORIGINAL: bdsandm

I am looking for new humiliation ideas during day to day activities, tasks, during a scene, etc... Also some humiliation in public but only she and I know about. She is a public figure and needs to remain humble in some ways. I have a lot of experience with this topid but, honestly, I am here to simply look for new and exciting ideas. Any help would be great.
I have done a search on CM but, nothing great comes up for it. Same old stuff.

thanks for the help ahead of time!

honestly for me, being completely ignored after a play session does it best. i'm not suggesting to ignore aftercare, but for several days afterwards really humbles me. i come from a long line of extremely bad tempered, overly opinionated, loud mouthed individuals so i've sort of gotten used to humilation in one form or another. being completely ignored after taken out in public does it for me too.

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