KindLadyGrey
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Emotionally, philosophically, and socially, I would be perfectly happy to date a trans-girl, pre or post op, assuming our personalities mesh well. I find in practice, however, that the hormonal treatments most trans individuals must go through really confuse the chemistry of the situation. A lot about being attracted to a person isn't about their equipment or how they look, but about whether I want to touch them, and kiss them, and yes, fuck them. It's chemistry, pheremones, whatever you want to call it. I have yet to meet a trans individual for whom I feel that kind of attraction, although I have certainly forged meaningful emotional connections. It is also possible that my body is reacting to some sort of unconscious social hang up and it has nothing to do with unusual chemistry. Still, I will not rule out meeting and dating trans-individuals, even if nothing ever develops into a serious relationship.
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