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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/3/2008 6:29:39 PM

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Often times a lot of T's expesially male to female post op, don't want to use their penis's as a sexual organ. Can't speak for all of them, but the one I was a play partner with for a year never wanted their penis to be used as what it was. And she didn't get very hard on the one ocasion we did do the sex with penis thing. I did love the whole breasts and penis thing too though, cause those are one of my fav parts on each gender also.
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would it be extremely crude of me to say that, for me, the favorite parts of a man's body is his penis and the favorite part of a woman's body is her breasts and so when there is a pre-op tgirl that has had some surgery and hormone treatments...umm...sex would be excellent...damn my ex for never letting me have sex with his tgirls...

my 2 cents anyway
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If they take HRT the penis wont work after 1.5-2 years and it shrinks. Faster if they take something other than spironolactone (which is a waste of $ asthis takes a long time for effect)

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/3/2008 7:27:43 PM

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the only problem I had with her was she was a devout man hater when it came to relationships, , men were useless and pathetic and why on earth would any one want to date a man when women were the way to go. I was also involved with a dominant male at the time online only long distance so her insistance I was wasting time on a man when I should have a woman was obnoxious at best, and at worse any one who is devout in their hatred of a group of people simply cause the gender, doesn't fly with me.

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/3/2008 7:38:28 PM

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the only problem I had with her was she was a devout man hater when it came to relationships, , men were useless and pathetic and why on earth would any one want to date a man when women were the way to go. I was also involved with a dominant male at the time online only long distance so her insistance I was wasting time on a man when I should have a woman was obnoxious at best, and at worse any one who is devout in their hatred of a group of people simply cause the gender, doesn't fly with me.

It is likely that they were treated terribly by men for her to feel this way. As most ts are treated poorly. As i had been myself treated poorly by men. So i stopped dating them as there was little point to try and find acceptance. I am surrounded by men so hating them would be pointless. You interact with either sex everyday and to hate one of them is ridiculous.

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/3/2008 8:02:11 PM

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Yup. you do. and I'd be perfectly fine with not likeing men sexually, it's a persons right not to be attracted to a certain gender, but to bash them any chance you got was a problem for me. I can't say if she'd been mistreated or not, it never came up, it could of been because of mistreatment or being transgendered had colored her feelings about males.

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It is likely that they were treated terribly by men for her to feel this way. As most ts are treated poorly. As i had been myself treated poorly by men. So i stopped dating them as there was little point to try and find acceptance. I am surrounded by men so hating them would be pointless. You interact with either sex everyday and to hate one of them is ridiculous.

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/3/2008 8:43:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Often times a lot of T's expesially male to female post op, don't want to use their penis's as a sexual organ. Can't speak for all of them, but the one I was a play partner with for a year never wanted their penis to be used as what it was. And she didn't get very hard on the one ocasion we did do the sex with penis thing. I did love the whole breasts and penis thing too though, cause those are one of my fav parts on each gender also.

I cant speak for other T-girls, but I really have no desire to "use" my penis in the way a man would. I would consider normal, vanilla sex with a woman if its what she wanted, but the idea of it doesnt excite me too much.

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/3/2008 8:49:53 PM

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If they take HRT the penis wont work after 1.5-2 years and it shrinks. Faster if they take something other than spironolactone (which is a waste of $ asthis takes a long time for effect)

I have heard it varies per person, some people retain partial function and others lose the ability to have an erection alltogether. I've taken Spiro before, but never felt it had much of an effect... I'm considering Androcur but have heard its dangerous.

I know having an orchidectomy works and can cause the organ to shrink permanently in time, but have also seen "hard" girls who have had orchi's. Sometimes these things seem all to confusing. I want to stop the testosterone but I dont think I want SRS in the long run. I'll figure it out somehow... trial and error I guess.

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/4/2008 2:16:14 AM

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I've taken Androcur for five years now, plus HRT, alongside stuff for arthritis - I'm still here and healthy (checked by regular blood testing for liver function etc).

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/4/2008 6:48:00 AM

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I've taken Androcur for five years now, plus HRT, alongside stuff for arthritis - I'm still here and healthy (checked by regular blood testing for liver function etc).

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Yes..so have i..50mg...along with small dose 2.5mg prem since 2002 june1

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RE: interest in T-girls - 1/4/2008 7:55:53 AM

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In my 30+ years of gender issues (including 15 years of internet trans/intersexed web chat and support sites) and finding out i was born intersexed. i have NEVER heard of the term cissexual. this must be something you made up.

trisexual, pansexual, asexual, heterosexual, bisexual,lesbian,straight. yes i know i missed some i just cant think right now...watching hockey game

and now cissexual??? oop no u didnt make it up another trans person made it up http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cisgender

they are relatively new terms - coming from a progressive trans-activist background i'm used to using the language. the word has been "coined" recently - but for good reason - and is slowly (slowly, slowly, slowly) making its way at the very least into queer vernacular.

the whole purpose behind the word is that "cisgender" is to "transgender" as "heterosexual" is to "homosexual". to have language that doesn't always leave a trans identity as an abnormal anomaly is necessary in order to recognize trans people as legitimate human beings. so yes, it's a new word and it's just beginning to be recognized, but please don't patronize me for trying to introduce a word from the queer/trans lexicon in to another.

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