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beeble -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 4:51:33 AM)
I guess I've been lucky -- I've never had any inappropriate E-mail from anyone here, apart from obvious spam scams. I've had occasional not-entirely-appropriate contact on IRC but nobody's persisted after being told that I'm already owned.

beeble -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 4:52:43 AM)
quote: Hergirl0824 wrote: because i identify as Bisexual, i have actually had male Doms and male subs use the old line that my Mistress "doesn't have the right equipment" to keep me satisfied..i just laugh and respond that She does indeed, all of it bought and paid for and it doesn't wear out... Ms Diane's equipment wears out! [;)]

LadyLupineNYC -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 5:21:09 AM)
My boy gets these emails every now and again as well despite the fact that his is really not on all that much. He gets both male and female ‘poachers’. The males tend to write something like ‘you need a real man’ (kinda like what I get from male doms) and the females often seem to be cam girls looking for money. Every now and again someone is more aggressive. Generally I don’t even know about them unless I have signed into his account-he just doesn’t see it as worth his time (or mine) as he has no interest and would never consider anyone else. I can only remember him responding once to such an advance : Some dome once wrote home something like” Are you worthy to serve me Me? Try and prove it by ….” He responded with something like “My profile clearly states that I am owned and by writing to me you show that you are ignorant. It is you who are unworthy of me.” Interestingly enough, right around the time he and I got back together, he went to a local munch. He met an Domme/sub couple who were ‘interested’ in him. Even after he and I were back together she would write him, send him photos of her boots, and generally seemed rather insulted that he was not similarly interested. He just wanted to be friends…she eventually went off in a huff and he never felt totally comfortable going back to the munch.

possessedone -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 5:31:30 AM)
i don't get those kind of emails......i am the lucky one

sweetstorm -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 6:37:10 AM)
When I was a collared sub and stated thus on my profile, I got a lot of mail from Doms telling me that it was so obvious that He wasn't treating me right or I wouldn't be on here, so they would tell me how wonderful they would treat me and how my collar would be studded with diamonds if I were theirs.[sm=lol.gif] I never let it bother me. I had what I wanted and I knew how long it took for me to find the right One. I just politely let them know that He treated me like a princess and He was all I needed, thanks. The ones who were not polite... DELETE. As a side note of a comment on not-so-cool Doms, I know of a Dom who flirts with other subs and tries to get them away from their current Masters as a notch in his belt so to speak. Then, if he gets them away for his own, he won't keep them and he'll treat them horribly, knowing that their loyalty is fleeting with whatever strikes their fancy. "Charming" doesn't necessarily equal a good Dominant.

julietsierra -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:00:56 AM)
Wow... While I do get e-mails from dominants searching for someone for themselves, for some reason, I have never EVER been inundated with e-mails, much less e-mails that are so bold as to push me to leave who I serve in order to serve them. so I simply say: "Thank you for the compliment of your interest. However, I am the collared slave of Sir Robert. I wish you well in finding the person you're looking for." In all the years I've been online (approximated 10), when I've in essence said "thank you but no thank you" I've never had more than 3 or 4 return letters in a harrassing tone. In fact, the ONLY person that's ever done something like this over and over and over again is someone we actually know in person and he simply forgets who he's contacting. He gets the response of "lol.. It's me again. I'll pass along to Sir Robert your greetings. See you at the next munch." And I simply move on. juliet

asubmissiveheart -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:07:36 AM)
Was it that bad that Angel felt he had to leave this site?

Decimus -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:16:01 AM)
I have to admit I am quite lucky that I do not get any emails similar to this! Darn I must not be attractive to poachers, oh well, Aerith is the one for me and if I did get letters from poachers she would give me free reign to mock and belittle them for their stupidity and arrogance.

KatyLied -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:16:49 AM)
I wonder if there are other things going on if getting these sort of messages are so disturbing. Perhaps some insecurity about the relationship or fear from outside pressure? Maybe the reaction to the messages is more important than the messages themselves.

Leatherist -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:18:41 AM)
I've dealt with a few real life "poachers". They found that it was not nearly as fun to poach as deal with a face to face confrontation with an annoyed 220 pound top in thier face- up close and personal. They tended not to repeat the offense.

Leatherist -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:26:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied I wonder if there are other things going on if getting these sort of messages are so disturbing. Perhaps some insecurity about the relationship or fear from outside pressure? Maybe the reaction to the messages is more important than the messages themselves. No. It's a reaction to being disrespected by assholes.

KatyLied -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:29:01 AM)
quote: No. It's a reaction to being disrespected by assholes. It's silly people on-line. Is it really that important if they are disrespectful? When I was collared I would get messages such as "keep me in mind if it doesn't work out." I didn't feel disrespected. I thought it was funny that they were so stupid.

Leatherist -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:30:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: No. It's a reaction to being disrespected by assholes. It's silly people on-line. Is it really that important if they are disrespectful? When I was collared I would get messages such as "keep me in mind if it doesn't work out." I didn't feel disrespected. I thought it was funny that they were so stupid. Try getting ones that call your guy a loser and unworthy of you-see how amusing it is then.

catize -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:32:27 AM)
My response to poachers…… “I am only an egg.”

KatyLied -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 7:46:12 AM)
quote: Try getting ones that call your guy a loser and unworthy of you-see how amusing it is then. I don't get freaked out over what stupid people on-line say to me. It just isn't important in my life. The key words = stupid people.

OldBastardly1 -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 8:11:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Try getting ones that call your guy a loser and unworthy of you-see how amusing it is then. I don't get freaked out over what stupid people on-line say to me. It just isn't important in my life. The key words = stupid people. I agree Katy. We get a good chuckle from reading them.

juliaoceania -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 8:16:50 AM)
I was not complaining, I was stating how we deal with the issue. If others find his way has benefit to them, they can adopt it, if not.. well they can take what they need and leave the rest. As with many of my posts, this was just giving information about how I like to handle things, nothing more

NakedGirlScout -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 8:21:09 AM)
I don't often agree, but I'm with KatyLied on this one. If it's THAT disturbing to get random idiotic unsolicited email while hanging out on a world-wide free anonymous kinky meet-up site, the person strongly affected in this way would probably be better off not hanging out in such a place.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 8:32:03 AM)
TO DO LIST: 1.get collared 2.get appraoched by a--hole "Dom" 3.get pissed 4. listen to people tell me how to respond to being pissed....

juliaoceania -> RE: Poachers... (12/29/2007 8:33:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Try getting ones that call your guy a loser and unworthy of you-see how amusing it is then. I don't get freaked out over what stupid people on-line say to me. It just isn't important in my life. The key words = stupid people. I do not get "freaked out", but there are some people that give me the creeps... these are generally people that email me repeatedly. He deals with that because I have been ordered not to block anyone. I am not to block anyone because people who get blocked will take 10,000 accounts to harass you if they get it into their minds that you are trying to "shut them up". We have seen threads from people who were stalked only because they use their block buttons... Because of this my Daddy has told me to respond to every email as he has instructed. He does not want me snarking on doms in email. He demands I be polite to even trolls because I reflect on him. So my responses are not about the people I am giving them to, they are about respecting my Daddy, his wishes, and who he wants me to be... which is polite to poaching dickweeds that are not necessarily being polite to me. We all pick the fights we want in life, and I do not want mine to be in emails with HNGs, my Daddy is wise in my opinion to direct me to handle it the way that we do. It does not trouble me at all (unless they live close by and repeatedly mail me even though I have rejected them politely and decide they want to ignore that because I am local to them... that bothers me for the creep factor, and those are the only ones Sinergy deals with)

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