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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 5:53:54 AM

BadGodLJE

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If you enjoy anal play and sucking your own dick then why the hell do you care how someone else looks at this actions? If YOU know you aren't attracted to men then grow up and stop worrying about how she thinks of it. All you should have to say is, No, I am not gay, I am not attracted to men. If she cannot comprehend this then that is her hang up not yours so get over it and get back to living life in a way that makes sense to you.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 5:58:10 AM

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Agree with the group on this one, your girl friend seems to have her own issues I would gather. I remember being told I was gay because I love to cook and dont watch professional sports. So be who you are and dont sweat it.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 6:08:06 AM

GoddessTeaze

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Thats allot of

malloves69

lucky you!

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 6:16:13 AM

GoddessTeaze

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ORIGINAL: JL9060

My girlfriend thinks that I have gay tendencies but I am not attracted men whatsoever. She says this because I like anal play and I am flexible enough to go down on myself. I tell her that this does not mean that I am gay because I would not do these things with another man because I have no interest in being sexual with men. She seems to think that anyone who knows about this would agree that I must be secretly gay to enjoy these things. I thought that maybe you could give your opinions to help her understand me more.Thanks

Do I smell some gayfobic here..?

sniffs...

Gosh you should educate her,

where the male gspot is..

and why it is you love analplay.

being inlove with a man(or woman),

and wanting to spend the rest of their lifes together..

is called gay..

And NOT when you love to have ya ass played with..

sniffs again..

I hope it will blow over soon

Goodluck

GoddezzT`

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 7:38:04 AM

Padriag

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JL9060

My girlfriend thinks that I have gay tendencies but I am not attracted men whatsoever. She says this because I like anal play and I am flexible enough to go down on myself. I tell her that this does not mean that I am gay because I would not do these things with another man because I have no interest in being sexual with men. She seems to think that anyone who knows about this would agree that I must be secretly gay to enjoy these things. I thought that maybe you could give your opinions to help her understand me more.

Thanks

First... why should either you or she care what a bunch of strangers say?
Second... you're the first guy I've ever heard say he both could and liked to suck his own dick... bit of advice... don't mention that lil tid bit of info in a locker room.
Third... if you enjoy having sex with your girlfriend (or women in general) then you are not gay. You might be bisexual, and that's something really only you can figure out by being honest with yourself.
Fourth... try to be a little understanding regarding your girlfriend's reaction... most guys can't suck their own dick, nor do they want to. It makes you just a wee bit unique and she sounds like she's trying to figure out how she feels about that.
Finally... I think you need to spend a little time considering your own sexuality, does it make you secretly gay... no, but it does raise some questions about your sexual development.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 7:42:32 AM

Padriag

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
I think I can say that most men would love to be able to do that to themselves. (whether they admit it or not)

That makes about as much sense as saying most women, whether they admit it or not, want to be slaves to men.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 8:34:50 AM

sweetstorm

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So you're flexible enough to go down on yourself.... how does self-masturbation make you GAY?

I'm mean, so I'd tell her I had cybersex with a man, I now know she's right and we can't be together anymore because she's a girl.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 8:53:47 AM

faerytattoodgirl

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"I guess what she thinks is weirdest is that I can suck my own dick and have shown her."

HOLY COW..he can suck his own dick!!! HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 8:59:50 AM

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I wanna watch personally.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 9:06:14 AM

darkpassenger434

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I'm not an expert by any means but everything you're saying seems to point to wanting to screw yourself (don't we all) and wanting women to screw you in non-traditional ways. No talk of dudes in there at all.
-R

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 9:30:51 AM

HotFaerieMama

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- Ron Jeremy can suck himself....

oh and your girl needs a brain..seriously...go buy her one

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 9:34:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

"I guess what she thinks is weirdest is that I can suck my own dick and have shown her."

HOLY COW..he can suck his own dick!!! HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!

I'm thinkin' there's still rim jobs that are in the venue of women still.

Ron

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 9:41:02 AM

Mercnbeth

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I love musical theater and enjoy playing and singing show tunes on the piano. I've even done so in public! I've long be 'out' about my desires and have come to embrace my "gay-ness".

On the other issue, it reminds me of the short, old joke that, no matter how many times they've heard it, men always laugh and woman always furrow their brow.

Why do dogs lick their balls?

Because the can.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 9:42:47 AM

Missokyst

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Heh.. no, it doesnt make you gay. Just incredibly lucky.
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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

No. Liking anal play and anal sensations and being limber enough to suck your own penis doesn't make you gay.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 9:59:24 AM

masterlink65

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gay sexuality is not something you choose.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 10:00:58 AM

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Seriously folks, I can't believe a guy who can suck his own dick worries about anything other than doing himself.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 10:08:30 AM

faerytattoodgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Seriously folks, I can't believe a guy who can suck his own dick worries about anything other than doing himself.

I guess now we really know what true puppy play is :) a guy sucking his own dick!
He should be a porn star....and no wonder ron jeremy got famous!!!

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 10:20:51 AM

MistressNoName

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Your girlfriend isn't knowledgeable about what being gay means. Liking anal or being good at yoga doesn't make you gay. If that were true, all women who like anal would then be gay men. Does not compute.

Master Fire

Agreed. Additionally, enjoying anal sex is no prereq to being gay, contrary to popular opinion. Many gay men do not like anal one bit. Maybe your gf should tell them they're not really gay.

MNN

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 10:21:22 AM

DesFIP

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If giving yourself pleasure in one way makes you homosexual, then she must also be a lesbian if she's ever masturbated.

More important than her ignorance and refusal to learn anything about men's sexual pleasure is why you are with someone like that. Because honestly, do you really need to be with someone so limited who refuses to become more educated and who spends her time putting you down?

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/2/2008 10:24:33 AM

Padriag

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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!

You may be happy to know some of us very much enjoy having a lass do it for us.

Blame it on that whole service thing.

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