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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 1:46:46 PM   
nudemaleco21


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Status: offline 		I absolutely love anal play, I dont identify as a gay or bi man.  I do like girls to think i am though it does give them a litle threesome hope (which i would definatley be into).  But honestly get her more involved.  If she can understand that anal is not akin to gay she might start to open up on the idea.  That is exactly how i started i almost drove my girlfriend crazy asking her to finger me and put me in her clothes and bend me over.  Once i finally got her the strap on she fell in love with the power exchange.  After that we would push the envelope and she was moroe excited than I was at the new oppurtunities we had in front of us.  At first she was a little afraid I was gay because of the constant desire to dress in her clothes and take it.  But once she realized it was more about her doing it to me instead of some faceless nameless guy somewhere she dropped all concern and began to love it. I think your girl is just worried that she will invest time and energy on your relationship only for you to "switch teams" and leave her high and dry.  

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 1:50:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldn't care too much about what your girlfriend thinks... your boyfriend's opinion would be much more relevant.
 
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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 1:51:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		lol Rover.. I was going to post that !!! hehe

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 1:52:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am coming around to your way of thinking here, John.

I didn't know him from Adam until he posted this, now the whole fuckin' site thinks he's gay.

*shrugs*
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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:09:53 PM   
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My girlfriend thinks that I have gay tendencies but I am not attracted men whatsoever.  She says this because I like anal play and I am flexible enough to go down on myself. 


Simply tell her you are a carpet bagger and a rare commodity.
Oh how I love a carpet bagger.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:11:14 PM   
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I wouldn't care too much about what your girlfriend thinks... your boyfriend's opinion would be much more relevant.
 
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John: call my doctor for me...........diazepam will do.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:12:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JL9060

My girlfriend thinks that I have gay tendencies but I am not attracted men whatsoever.  She says this because I like anal play and I am flexible enough to go down on myself.  I tell her that this does not mean that I am gay because I would not do these things with another man because I have no interest in being sexual with men.  She seems to think that anyone who knows about this would agree that I must be secretly gay to enjoy these things.  I thought that maybe you could give your opinions to help her understand me more.

Thanks



There are MANY men out there who have cum to know the pleasure that ass play and butt fucking provide.  Is your girlfriend willing to explore anal play/sex with you? 

You've gotten some great advice already, and I hope that you show her the responses. 

And, hey, if i could eat my own pussy, i damn sure would!!  hehe 

I tend to believe that most people are not totally heterosexual nor totally homosexual.  I think Kinsey did some fantastic research.  Check out the Kinsey Scale.  http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html 

Some people are scared to acknowledge that they may have "homosexual tendencies or desires"...and the truth is..that most people have had them..either incidentally or deliberately.  I'm not saying that you have or have had any homosexual tendencies, but it truly isn't that rare.     Imagines many Male Dominants cringing!  lol


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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:14:36 PM   
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No. Liking anal play and anal sensations and being limber enough to suck your own penis doesn't make you gay.


If every one was that flexible, we'ld ALL be doing it!!!

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:23:48 PM   
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And, hey, if i could eat my own pussy, i damn sure would!!  hehe 



  Me too, should we form a club? Who wants pictures?

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:28:38 PM   
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See... now that's my idea of a good way to respond to it!!!!  LOL  Throw her down and grudge fuck her... skull fuck her till she begs for mercy... teach her just what the hell she's missing!  It's a glorious cock, worthy of worship, she should bow before your mighty cock!  Slam her so hard she'll walk funny and grin silly for a week! Was that over the top, I can never tell?





I liked it!!!! I REALLY, REALLY LIKED IT!!!!!

*WIPING DROOL OFF CHIN*

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 2:35:05 PM   
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And, hey, if i could eat my own pussy, i damn sure would!!  hehe 



  Me too, should we form a club? Who wants pictures?

Cali




I do!

Yea and if my tits were big enough, I'd be sucking them too. Oh wait... they are and I do!!!
Does that mean I may like sex with women?? Oh wait, i do like that sometimes!

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 3:31:04 PM   
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It never ceases to amaze me what gets posted on the internet to 'normalize' one's behaviour! 
To the OP: I dips my lid if you can suck your own cock without having your seventh ribs surgically removed (Urban myth is that rock stars have done this)  You're a better man than I Gunda Din!

As for your anal play- (Not my gig) but enquire with your doc (MD) so you can correctly self examine for prostrate tumours.

Lastly- Your problems with your GF are your problems.  You say she is your G/F and give little insight into her reasoning which suggests that you both lack adequate communication.  I have personally had similar past problems regarding my voice, handactions, choice of bright gay clothing brought into question yet it is in Lifestyle that I have been least questioned and readily accepted as a Dominant. Perhaps you could be more introspective before condemming the views of your GF.

My homosexual party type favourite line- "I blame you poo jabbing bastards for stealing my general acceptance as a GAY BATCHELOR!".   (My gay friends love the reactions we get to this)

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:06:44 PM   
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HOLY COW..he can suck his own dick!!! HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!



Sighs...if I could suck My own dick, would I?

I think not...I fear becoming a lover to My own cock would not end well...Oh yes, at first we would hit it off wonderfully, knowing exactly each other's likes and dislikes, and I always would know when he was going to cum....

but I think it would soon become just a sexual thing...I would come home from work headachy and emotional, just wanting to cuddle, and he would be there, hard, throbbing, insisting on "gettin sum"...the selfish brute!!

Then things would deterioriate- he would retaliate for my frigidity by causing an embarrassing scene in public when we were with a woman by refusing to do his job and going limp, claiming he was "too tired" !

No, I think it is best that we remain just friends...I give him a firm brisk handshake each morning, and sometimes spank and choke him (just to let him know whose boss, you understand).
We will always be like ships that pass in the night, wondering what could have been, but knowing we made the right choices.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:10:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

HOLY COW..he can suck his own dick!!! HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!



Sighs...if I could suck My own dick, would I?

I think not...I fear becoming a lover to My own cock would not end well...Oh yes, at first we would hit it off wonderfully, knowing exactly each other's likes and dislikes, and I always would know when he was going to cum....

but I think it would soon become just a sexual thing...I would come home from work headachy and emotional, just wanting to cuddle, and he would be there, hard, throbbing, insisting on "gettin sum"...the selfish brute!!

Then things would deterioriate- he would retaliate for my frigidity by causing an embarrassing scene in public when we were with a woman by refusing to do his job and going limp, claiming he was "too tired" !

No, I think it is best that we remain just friends...I give him a firm brisk handshake each morning, and sometimes spank and choke him (just to let him know whose boss, you understand).
We will always be like ships that pass in the night, wondering what could have been, but knowing we made the right choices.



HILARIOUS!!!

Glad to know we could not be so easily replaced!

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:10:39 PM   
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My girlfriend thinks that I have gay tendencies but I am not attracted men whatsoever.  She says this because I like anal play and I am flexible enough to go down on myself.  I tell her that this does not mean that I am gay because I would not do these things with another man because I have no interest in being sexual with men.  She seems to think that anyone who knows about this would agree that I must be secretly gay to enjoy these things.  I thought that maybe you could give your opinions to help her understand me more.

Thanks



Nah, I can't say I think the ability to go down on yourself and enjoying anal play makes you gay.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:12:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		if you were gay, you wouldn't have a girlfriend.  maybe several decades ago you would "cover" by having a girlfriend, but not in this day and age.  so you're flexible and like anal, big deal. that would make a good portion of the male population if liking anal sex was the criteria!  sounds like she's looking for excuses to find fault with you.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:19:00 PM   
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Second... you're the first guy I've ever heard say he both could and liked to suck his own dick... bit of advice... don't mention that lil tid bit of info in a locker room.
*snip*
Fourth... try to be a little understanding regarding your girlfriend's reaction... most guys can't suck their own dick, nor do they want to.  It makes you just a wee bit unique and she sounds like she's trying to figure out how she feels about that.

Finally... I think you need to spend a little time considering your own sexuality, does it make you secretly gay... no, but it does raise some questions about your sexual development.


I don't know why you think he might want to consider his own sexuality. It could be that I tend to socialize in sexually liberal circles, but I've met at least one man who could suck his own cock and heard of a few more (I believe all, as Master Fire mentioned, did a lot of yoga while they were able to accomplish this). In my experiences, the reactions of other men, upon hearing about it, have been roughly 50-50 about if they would do it if they could.

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:26:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

HOLY COW..he can suck his own dick!!! HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!



Sighs...if I could suck My own dick, would I?

I think not...I fear becoming a lover to My own cock would not end well...Oh yes, at first we would hit it off wonderfully, knowing exactly each other's likes and dislikes, and I always would know when he was going to cum....

but I think it would soon become just a sexual thing...I would come home from work headachy and emotional, just wanting to cuddle, and he would be there, hard, throbbing, insisting on "gettin sum"...the selfish brute!!

Then things would deterioriate- he would retaliate for my frigidity by causing an embarrassing scene in public when we were with a woman by refusing to do his job and going limp, claiming he was "too tired" !

No, I think it is best that we remain just friends...I give him a firm brisk handshake each morning, and sometimes spank and choke him (just to let him know whose boss, you understand).
We will always be like ships that pass in the night, wondering what could have been, but knowing we made the right choices.



*LOL*

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:33:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

HOLY COW..he can suck his own dick!!! HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE????

If men could do that they wouldnt need anyone else to do it!!!



Sighs...if I could suck My own dick, would I?

I think not...I fear becoming a lover to My own cock would not end well...Oh yes, at first we would hit it off wonderfully, knowing exactly each other's likes and dislikes, and I always would know when he was going to cum....

but I think it would soon become just a sexual thing...I would come home from work headachy and emotional, just wanting to cuddle, and he would be there, hard, throbbing, insisting on "gettin sum"...the selfish brute!!

Then things would deterioriate- he would retaliate for my frigidity by causing an embarrassing scene in public when we were with a woman by refusing to do his job and going limp, claiming he was "too tired" !

No, I think it is best that we remain just friends...I give him a firm brisk handshake each morning, and sometimes spank and choke him (just to let him know whose boss, you understand).
We will always be like ships that pass in the night, wondering what could have been, but knowing we made the right choices.



But what happens when the ship sinks???

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RE: Girlfriend thinks I'm gay - 1/3/2008 6:53:09 PM   
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