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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 4:10:26 AM   
HalloweenWhite


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Status: offline 		Im 38 and wouldn't even consider a D/s relationship with anyone younger than 20, I may revise that upwards soon actually, but really, as long as the relationship works for the people in it and it's not between a minor and an adult, and B/both people are happy then I say "To each their own". I don't believe in being judgemental or disaproving just because people aren't living their ives as I do, after-all who says I'm right?.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 5:03:58 AM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		I am 44, soon to be 45 (oh holy crap), and my submissive maid is 24. There are some things that worry me about being so much older than her,  mostly doing with long-term concerns (I don't look my age so much now, but I will some day), but interests and compatibility have never been an issue. We even like the same music, and most of the same movies. Really, the only big issue her liking the NY Giants, and I haven't been able to break that so far.

Based on this recent experience, I worry less about a submissive's age than I used to. I do tend to like younger submissives, although I don't think I could go much younger than I have currently.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 5:17:12 AM   
BossyShoeBitch


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Status: offline 		I have countless men 25 and younger contacting me and while I keep saying I am going to "try" it, I  j u s t  can't, yanno? 
I would feel creepy..

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 6:09:08 AM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		people always have to choose between what ir right and what is easy. doing what is healhty and what is not. People just go live in the now. Through Caughtion to the wind. HOw Stupid is that. I think if you want something long term you have to be picky. I think if you want to have a hump buddy. Then really does not matter. Dynamics of what you want out of a relationship is what you will seek. But not always what you will get. So dose age play a factor
you bet . Ideas concepts are all on different levels  people really young in their twenties are living on therioes and trying to find their way in the world. People in later life have the i have been there done that. Why would want re raise someone not our job. On the othe side why would want someone that has so many stone walls they can not even walk in a green field of grass and flowers and see that richness of life .  So always do what is right  no matter what anyone says or post or has writtne it is our own shoes we must walk in  

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 6:36:41 AM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

I prefer that they not be in diapers.... on either end of the spectrum.
 
John


John,
i am with you on this one completely! LOL!
i am hoping that one day i will run into another "ageless" individual like myself. i put no restrictions on myself based on my age inregards to what i enjoy doing. Most of the time, it is younger men that enjoy the same outdoor adventures that i do and the older ones that i can enjoy discussing philosophy and culture and such. However, there have been a few times that was totally reversed! So... i would say again - out of diapers either way you go!
j

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 8:30:56 AM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		my ex husband was 13 years older than me, and it worked out well for many years.  i do think the age difference is what got us in the end though.....as i got closer to 40, my outlooks on things changed and i was less willing to put up with the same crap i had put up with until then. 

he remained basically the same person he was at 32 when we met-and i grew up....i was a 19 year old child when we met(althought you could not have convinced me of it at that time of course.  i was a woman and knew almost everything there was to know haha)

i still gravitate towards older men, always have.  as i get closer to 50, that may have to change, or it may just change because i meet someone who amazes me.

the one rule i know i will always have is "if it is young enough to have come out of me, there is no way it is going in me". 

i can learn from younger people, and i can and do enjoy their company very much.  but when i look at them, i think of my son and nieces and nephews, and theres just no way i can see that in a romantic or sexual way.



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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:17:00 AM   
CelticPrince


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An excellent point, thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:18:42 AM   
CelticPrince


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Damn, that cover a wide age area!

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:20:52 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		LadyH, well do not be so hard on those old guys, they might last longer.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:23:21 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		chuckles!

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:26:22 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Prinsexx,

thanks for sharing your thoughts, a 27 year spread is unique indeed. Good Fortune to you both.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:28:41 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		darthChylde,

Well I guess yours is a case file for the flexability angle. Thanks.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:34:47 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		MFM,

No indeed, I do not slolicite agreement on my position, just input on the thoughts of others, nor do I suggest an invalidity in the prime position that was noted.

I am puzzled as to the reason for your comment.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:37:59 AM   
CelticPrince


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That is a good generalization, but do you have a personal guideline?

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:39:53 AM   
CelticPrince


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Thanks for your thoughts, it does impact the issue indeed.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:42:27 AM   
CelticPrince


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I am impressed, 30 plus years difference is hugh.

Good Fortune

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:46:57 AM   
SirJohnMandevill


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy
Now, if I contact you and you feel I'm too old, don't worry. I no longer feel slighted by that. If you feel I am too strange, that is probably true. If you feel that maturity means I have to give up my wonderment of the world and stifle my quest for knowledge and wisdom, then I am too young for you. That is important.


Well said, Cowboy. Wish I'd written that; it's me perfectly.

I've talked to many female subs here on CM. Age doesn't matter. Whom I'd have a relationship would depend on the person herself, not her age.

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted -- but hardly Antique -- Kink)

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:47:51 AM   
breatheasone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb

quote:

ORIGINAL: unforegvn

I have a formula that keeps me from playing in the same sandbox as my 'children'  we came up with it when my kids started dating and it works~

{age divided by two add seven}


Good formula.   When I started here, I set my search engine's "minimum age" to 39, because of the same reasons you mentioned. 


Agreed...there is WAY too big an "ick factor" for me when it comes to people close to my childrens ages(26, 23, 22)


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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:49:21 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		EvilGenie,

If you have no contribution that is meaningful, why not just pass the thread by?

You may well have the time to read every thread that comes down the pike but I doubt that the vast majority that read/post here do. Thus; a similar thread, whenever it was posted would be missed by many.

Just for my info, can you tell me when the last similar thread was posted, as some reader might care to read that thread also.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:52:36 AM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Evility,

Thanks for your thoughts.
as to your point, I think we could apply the Standard Diviation Curve to the population.

CP

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