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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 11:55:07 AM   
CelticPrince


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Laughs, An Evil old Coot huh?

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:01:29 PM   
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thanks for your thoughts on the matter. I drew my criteria from many years of mentoring and of course my own situations.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:07:50 PM   
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Now that si an interesting equation. So if your 50 then the allowable range placing the sub at 32.= 18 years

then if your 60 the range 37 = 23 years

hhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:11:00 PM   
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Part B seems awfully restrictive!

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:14:26 PM   
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Thanks for your input, yes the dynamics do effect the norm, whatever that may be.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:16:46 PM   
CelticPrince


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viva la differance!

thanks for your thoughts.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:19:21 PM   
CelticPrince


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Indeed there is something to be said for the flexability angle.

thanks for your input.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:22:53 PM   
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Many thanks, your observations move up to the head of the class.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:26:24 PM   
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nope, you read too much into it, I would never apply a consensus to my actions/views.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:27:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		i am 32 and my Wife is 42. Works out great, i wouldn't have it any other way.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:28:41 PM   
CelticPrince


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I shall then send any applicable subs who I mentor to your door>

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:31:52 PM   
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Take heart, for this thread, it is not the age, but other considerations that apply.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:34:18 PM   
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10 plus years is a long time, best get going and welcome to CM

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:36:22 PM   
CelticPrince


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So true, if it works for you / go for it.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:39:50 PM   
CelticPrince


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It certainly appears that you have alot of positives in your relationship.

Thanks for your input.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:41:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Been very interesting reading all of the posts on this thread. i guess i need to stop being so overly sensitive regarding my age and the crude remarks i have gotten from some who have no idea what i have to offer as a submissive woman/lover/caregiver/ etc etc.
*smiles sweetly*

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:43:14 PM   
CelticPrince


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You do know what a samll minority we are // Correct?

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 12:56:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is considered a reasonable age difference for a solid D/s relationship?
Indeed there will be the normal "whatever works" inputs, but at core we all operate with a range that we consider appropriate.

Myself being one of the more"elder" of the dominant group have a fairly rigid parameter that will work for a long term relationship, but since so many profiles tend to make age a criteriain their profiles, it a subject for a consensus review.
CP


CP,
I met pup on CM when he was just 18. I am 30 years older than he is. At first we had no problem with age and then we had some and now it just plain doesnt matter. I collared him just before his 19th birthday and he is going on 21 now. We found that at some conventions he couldn't get into, but that didn't bother either of us, since we only go to enjoy the classes and lectures. When I placed his permanent collar on him, I did it with the confidence of a 27 year old. He loves me  unconditionally and without question. Recently we have been having problems because as he was "growing up" in our relationship, he was getting more confidence about himself to the point of arrogance. I distain that feature in a submissive. I am re-training him using age regression and humiliation. It is working. I have seen an improvement in him rather quickly. Each new day, he thanks me for believing in him enough to take the time to set things right between us again. But I have wandered off topic, I do that on occassion <s>
 
I do not think that there should be an age limit. If I had limited myself to subs who were 40 and above, I would have missed out on the best years of my life. But then again, each person is different. What may be too old for one side of the slash, could be a perfect age for another.
 
If I knew then, what I know now about him, I would do it all over again. He is worth every bit of my training, energy and belief in him. Sometimes he loses sight of the path that we have built together. I don't blame that on his age, I blame it on the real life issues he has. He is in collage and works hard to keep his grades up. I have always told him that "School comes first! Not his Mistress." It works for us. I want him to be the best person in life that he can be and I am proud to have had a hand in developing him.
 
30 years is a huge age difference, but only if we allow it to be. My family knows of our relationship, they know he is my submissive. But after all these years, they have stopped asking "Why", and are now asking "Why Not?" <s>

ETA: My 50th birthday is tomorrow. I don't feel a day over 30 :) 

< Message edited by MistressOfGa -- 1/4/2008 12:58:45 PM >

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 1:01:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thehellcat

Been very interesting reading all of the posts on this thread. i guess i need to stop being so overly sensitive regarding my age and the crude remarks i have gotten from some who have no idea what i have to offer as a submissive woman/lover/caregiver/ etc etc.
*smiles sweetly*

methinks the crude remarkers understand exactly what you have to offer......

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/4/2008 1:02:15 PM   
vield


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Status: offline 		I agree that for me age has little bearing on the possibility of a good connection with either dominant or submissive women.

Any potential partner has positive and negative aspects.

If the person is honest and giving they can bring me joy, Domme or sub..

When I was quite young I often found some potential knky partners sought someone older.

Now that young is totally my attitude but not my body type, I find some potential partners seek someone younger.

I am fine with these facts, this is all supposed to be consensual, so I want people to seek what they need.

There have always been trade offs in choosing partners of whatever age. We are all entitled to seek that which we wish, and to turn down any we do not wish.

I only play with consenting adults of course. There have been times a partner was 20 + years older than me and was a great partner. There have been times a person was 20 + years younger than me and was a great partner.

The way my energy and her energy connects is the most important thing to me.


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As always, your mileage may vary!

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