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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/5/2008 9:15:11 PM   
abytchgoddess4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Touchy touchy.

Not  at all...there just seemed to be an implied slight in your comment, as if a woman has less value or is somehow less desirable as she ages.

If that is not the case, why didn't you explain your reasons for your post?

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< Message edited by abytchgoddess4u -- 1/5/2008 9:35:46 PM >

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 12:05:23 AM   
CelticPrince


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by jove, I think so also.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 12:48:46 AM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		I was always funny about age, I had very specific guidlines untill I met my Sir, I am 30 he is 26. The reasons I had were mainly because I have 4 very young um's and anyone too much older I felt may not wish to raise them with me, and I was afraid someone younger may not cope.

Then I met Sir, my um's love him and he is amazing with them and as for he and I, he is my soul mate but it did make me realise that making judgements solely on age was probably not wise because you may well miss out on someone wonderful

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 9:36:24 AM   
LoveAndDS


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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

What is considered a reasonable age difference for a solid D/s relationship?
Indeed there will be the normal "whatever works" inputs, but at core we all operate with a range that we consider appropriate.

Myself being one of the more"elder" of the dominant group have a fairly rigid parameter that will work for a long term relationship, but since so many profiles tend to make age a criteriain their profiles, it a subject for a consensus review.

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For me I've owned 1 younger (26) slave and 2 older (as in twice my age older) subs, and age difference doesn't mean anything.  The most important things are Love, Honesty, and Trust.  With them, anything is possible, and amazing

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 11:20:38 AM   
A159753


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Status: offline 		Mine have run anywhere from 9-16 years younger than me, 9 years younger lasted 16 years, 16 years younger lasted 3

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 11:39:36 AM   
aggressiveblkdom


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Status: offline 		I created a post similar to this awhile ago and the many helpful posters on there definitely helped me to understand more and more that it just comes down to personal choice. Some will be flexible enough to venture outside of what they percieve to be acceptable age limits whereas others will adhere to those limits with a deathgrip. We all will be faced with this choice at some point or another....in my opinion, you just have to weigh the pros and cons based on that individual person.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 2:30:59 PM   
CelticPrince


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success stories come in all different packages so 'good on you"
I read your journal, very nice indeed and I am pleased you finally opened that door.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 2:33:11 PM   
CelticPrince


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I believe alot depends on the flexibility of the individuals on both sides of the slash.
Thanks for your input.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 2:34:45 PM   
CelticPrince


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But nothing on the other side of the spectrum??

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 2:36:47 PM   
CelticPrince


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who can argue with logic such as that.

thanks for your input!

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 8:30:48 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		As i have always stated people have a choice to do what is right or what is easy  you figure out  i am not here to rasie people in lifes simple answers if you do not pay attention to what the world teaches you about why relationships at certain ages work while others one do not  well that on you for not paying attention to lifes teacher  

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 10:02:49 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		I feel that they physiocal attraction for younger people is based on our biology. Someone past the breeding age generally excites less instinctive lust-sex IS programmed as part of reproduction.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/6/2008 10:14:57 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I think I've written enough on here about why I prefer older women that I shouldn't be misunderstood as saying that a woman has less value as she ages.

If you felt slighted by it, that wasn't the intention.

quote:

ORIGINAL: abytchgoddess4u

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Touchy touchy.

Not  at all...there just seemed to be an implied slight in your comment, as if a woman has less value or is somehow less desirable as she ages.

If that is not the case, why didn't you explain your reasons for your post?

Edited for grammar.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/7/2008 7:19:53 AM   
CelticPrince


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What you point out may be true, but how does that impact the original post?

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/7/2008 7:25:25 AM   
A159753


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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/9/2008 6:52:05 AM   
CelticPrince


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I personally have no doubt that you can compete with anyone younger and then do it better.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/9/2008 6:54:32 AM   
CelticPrince


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Damn, we should all be so fortunate, but is this stuff about older males?

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/9/2008 7:37:37 AM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		As so many others have said ... I just cant deal with a Submissive that might be in the age range that my sons might date.... there is something that just has an "ick factor" for me in that. 

I place a lower limit of 50 in my search range as I want someone that has shared life experiences. I want to be able to talk to them at times too.

I have made exceptions down to 45 but I will be 59 in a few days and find this works best for me.

I know that I probably miss out on some very good submissives .. but if they impress me and are interested enough to be persistant I will consider them .. they just usually are not ... so fall by the wayside anyway.

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/10/2008 5:28:23 PM   
CelticPrince


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abig hooray for another lower age lmit setter.

CP

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RE: Age Difference on the Path - 1/10/2008 5:33:44 PM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		lol Thank you .. just chalk it up to an older lady knowing what works for her and not willing to settle for less

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