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AAkasha -> Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/4/2008 10:29:38 PM)


I've recently taken a renwed interested in watching men masturbate, especially if it's under pressure, or in bondage or some uncomfortable position, or there's something otherwise diabolical about it.  For a long time I kind of didn't pay much attention to it, but it was something I did a lot many years ago. I'm curious how many other femdoms enjoy watching a man masturbate. Funny, it's one of those things that has NO appeal if it's fairly generic (just random guys, or in porn), but if it's the right man, and the right scenario (set up by me), I can find it really arousing. 

Do you enjoy making a man masturbate while you watch?
Is it only fun if you are doing something sadistic to him?
Do you watch what he is doing, or watch his eyes or expression or something else?

Akasha



chiaThePet -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/4/2008 10:32:27 PM)

Oh for the Love of God, soon to be followed by,

"Why do they always send me pictures of their pathetic little cocks?"

chia* (the pet)



LadyPact -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/4/2008 10:34:17 PM)

My first thought is...... If he were in the right head space, brought on by things I did to him...... Damn, yes, it's hot.



chiaThePet -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/4/2008 10:40:17 PM)

Well, there are those extra special Dominants one might turn on the.......

crap, my webcam fell on the floor and cracked open....nevermind.

chia* (the pet)



PanthersMom -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/4/2008 10:41:13 PM)

always fun to watch, and torture a little along the way, just to make things a little more interesting.  interrupting his concentration, give him a hand, introduce a new sensation, always makes for a fun afternoon!

PM



achildatheart -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/4/2008 10:48:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


I've recently taken a renwed interested in watching men masturbate, especially if it's under pressure, or in bondage or some uncomfortable position, or there's something otherwise diabolical about it.  For a long time I kind of didn't pay much attention to it, but it was something I did a lot many years ago. I'm curious how many other femdoms enjoy watching a man masturbate. Funny, it's one of those things that has NO appeal if it's fairly generic (just random guys, or in porn), but if it's the right man, and the right scenario (set up by me), I can find it really arousing. 

Do you enjoy making a man masturbate while you watch?
Is it only fun if you are doing something sadistic to him?
Do you watch what he is doing, or watch his eyes or expression or something else?

Akasha



I enjoy watching a man masturbate. If its online I watch what he is doing, but if its in person I watch his facial expressions.



SailingBum -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 1:01:00 AM)

I have a different twist.  I stroke my cock and won't allow her to touch me... Drives her to the point of begging me to touch.  I enjoy that lots.

BadOne



canupleaseme -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 4:04:29 AM)

Aakasha I seemed to have developed  a whole new fetish when it comes to watching my boy masturbate especially when in bondage and tease mode.  Sometimes I enjoy it more than having an orgasm myself lol. I could go on and on about every aspect of it but I think I would sound crazy ha ha.  My boy certainly enjoys it when im having a week of right your gonna mastiurbate for me whenever I tell you too and cum where ever I ask you too.  We are having a week like that at the minute I love it [:D]

Edited to add sometimes I watch his face but mostly Im obsessed with watching him ejaculate and wondering what the hell it must feel like [:)]



Windygal -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 5:34:04 AM)

I find that mine likes to watch himself do it, too. Put him in front of a mirror. Also, I tried a spanking while he was doing it, opps gotta work on control next time LOL

Windygal



PsyVamp -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 6:40:58 AM)

Akasha,

I agree, if it is just some random guy - no, watching them has no interest for me.  (Kind of like watching paint dry.)    This wasn't something that I found an interest in until recently also
As far as my experience with my "boys", I've watched one where it was more a curiosity.   The other two it was either a power trip or highly erotic, depending on the type of "play" involved.

I also find it interesting and amusing the different techniques used by each of them

Lady Jag



christine1 -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 6:48:17 AM)

i can't answer the question fully since i'm a sub, but i think watching a man masturbate is one of the great wonders of the world, but then again i think the penis is one of the most gorgeous things i've ever seen.  i like to see the transformation from soft to hard, the sounds, the expressions...i like the whole process and think it is erotic as hell.



LotusSong -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 6:52:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Do you enjoy making a man masturbate while you watch?
Is it only fun if you are doing something sadistic to him?
Do you watch what he is doing, or watch his eyes or expression or something else?



Only when they use their NON-dominant hand  [:D]  Their frustration level is delightful.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 8:29:46 AM)

I love watching men masturbate!  I also love ejaculation contests.  Who can go farthest?  The game potential is enormous!

But, the man has to be someone I know, and in the room with me.  Webcam guys have that degree of remove that makes it just porn, and then I start criticising technique instead of enjoying his reactions.



oreogirl -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 8:35:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: christine1

i can't answer the question fully since i'm a sub, but i think watching a man masturbate is one of the great wonders of the world, but then again i think the penis is one of the most gorgeous things i've ever seen.  i like to see the transformation from soft to hard, the sounds, the expressions...i like the whole process and think it is erotic as hell.


I couldn't have said it better myself.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 8:55:55 AM)

before discovering my kink side, i've met vanilla (married) men who would pay me to sit naked and watch while they masturbated.  i can't say if i enjoyed it or not but it was the safest form of sex i've ever had - LOL



iwearpanties -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 10:12:05 AM)

i guess i should ask so flame me now LOL   .. but seems no one realy wants toosee males doing this?



beeble -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 10:21:39 AM)

quote:

sambamanslilgirl wrote: i've met vanilla (married) men who would pay me to sit naked and watch while they masturbated. i can't say if i enjoyed it or not but it was the safest form of sex i've ever had - LOL

Would have been even safer across a webcam! [:D]



SubJordanTyler -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 10:26:59 AM)

I've always enjoyed masturbating in front of women and all the dominants I've ever been with have had me do it in front of them.  I've done it over webcams as well.  Of course the always make me lick up the cum, as that's part of the submission and humiliation.  I believe some of them truly enjoyed watching me, but I'm sure others just did it as part of the scene.  Guys love to watch women masturbate, so why shouldn't women like to watch guys do it??  Seems pretty normal to me.



Raechard -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 10:27:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: iwearpanties
i guess i should ask so flame me now LOL   .. but seems no one realy wants toosee males doing this?


Seems they like it if it is humiliating yourself but not you having fun doing it.

Can’t say either of which I find particularly fascinating.



Lucylastic -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 10:36:18 AM)

Oh yes, we use tease and denial alot, especially being LD, but watching him is when together makes up for all the cam or phone calls(yeah that offline thing really works).More so when being sadistic in various ways, I listen to his voice, I like it when hes verbal about the sensations along with the groans and moans, but then I love to watch his eyes, his whole body. Grins using his non dominant hand is fun tooo specially with other distractions.
but there has to be that connection, otherwise yep like watching paint dry.
Lucy



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