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KindLadyGrey -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 12:05:15 PM)

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I like making boys tease themselves. "Play with yourself until I tell you to stop. No cumming without permission." Sometimes they beg, sometimes they don't. Sometimes I have no intention of letting them cum and sometimes I will. Fun!

D/s aside, I have also started to enjoy watching my hubby masturbate. He always has the cutest smile afterward. Of course, he'd rather be having sex, but lately that hasn't been an option.



donaldc -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 2:27:19 PM)

i love it when a Domme watches me masturbate especially if She is constantly telling me to change hands or is doing something deliciously evil to me to divert my attention from the sensations of my masturbation like applying nipple clamps and then wothout warning, take one or both off and then reapply them.  It has been quite awhile since i've had this wonderful experience.  i wish i could find someone to enjoy this and other wonderful pleasures with



sullafelix -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 2:32:32 PM)

Always have enjoyed this scenario so much! To answer your question, though, the particulars of the one that I've been interested in lately is something along the lines of the following:

The submissive male is travelling in the car nude / wearing something easy to take off. The dominant woman parks the car somewhere relatively out of the way, but still "scary" -- the sub  has to get out and masturbate to completion before he's able to get back into the car. Add the dominant taking photographs of it for extra fun :)



MsBearlee -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 2:48:15 PM)

 
OMG  Yes, I love to watch my guy masturbate...one of the many things I miss about not having a guy right now!
 
Sometimes I like to sit back and watch him use my feet...or my foot; I find that very yummy, especially when he obviously enjoys licking my toes off, afterwards.
 
Sometimes I like to lay along side him...my face inches from his hands, and just watch.
 
Other times I like to make him us his 'wrong' hand, as others have mentioned... heh heh heh
 
I watch his eyes, his face, his dick, his balls roiling in their sack, his hands and how they move (I like hands...), how his asshole clenches, and especially how much precum he drips.  All very yummy to me.
 
MsB



TexasMaam -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 3:18:55 PM)

I love to make a man masturbate in front of Me and watch him the entire time.  I love to watch the expressions. 

If he's uncomfortable about his body, I'll see that little wave of poor self esteem cloud his face: you know, the guy who drools over women with big tits in a crowd but whose own body is a far far cry from Mr. Olympia? 

He's not very comfortable when those objectifying eyes are turned on him for a change.  Once he's over the akwardness of just being naked with his little weewee in his hand, he'll blush crimson from throat to ears.  It turns Me on every time.

Then he'll close his eyes, trying to concentrate on some fantasy to keep his dick erect because he doesn't want to lose that little hardon in front of me.

Then, at the same instant, he'll realize I'm watching him, knowing he's fantacizing about someone else, and he'll blush again in embarrassment, feeling as though he's been caught.

Finally, after he deals with those images and responses, he gets turned on by the whole train of thought and starts stroking in earnest as he gets rock hard.

He may, or may not, make eye contact moments before he shoots off, usually dropping his eyes as he cums, because he knows he's just let Me see his daily 'secret' live and up close.

Whether he's bound, blindfolded, in an untenable situation or not rarely makes much difference, unless he's just a cheeky monkey who thinks he's 'all that' and loves it from jump street!

Either way, Makes Me Hot!

; )

TM



DianeB269 -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 3:36:13 PM)

I only watch them masturbate if they pay me....



Diane



Decimus -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 3:41:26 PM)

I had no idea so many dommes or ladies in general enjoyed watching/forcing men to masturbate...its a real shock, although I'm sure for a lot of the dommes it is a form of power and control. Personally I don't like masturbating at all...yeah I know already a non typical male in most people's eyes...I just don't find enjoyment in it, that and its so humiliating, which I am told is why at least some dommes want it to be done.



unforegvn -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 3:44:03 PM)

I enjoy watching them if they are in bondage, seeing how they can manipulate the situation and accomplish their task. 



girlygurl -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 3:45:55 PM)

Watching a man stroke his cock is very HOT! mmmmmm  Maybe it's penis envy [:D]

girly



MsBearlee -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 3:57:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

If he's uncomfortable about his body, I'll see that little wave of poor self esteem cloud his face: you know, the guy who drools over women with big tits in a crowd but whose own body is a far far cry from Mr. Olympia? 


[rant]
 
Yeah, what IS that with guys putting 'Objectification' as a hard limit?  Two things:
 
·         What guy in his right mind doesn’t like laying back and being used, and two
·         Just how many guys do you know who don’t practice a little sexual objectification of their own (if only in their minds)?
 
Is sexual objectification really a bad thing…with someone you care about?   LOL  [/rant]
 
Carry on...I 'beg' your pardon.
 
MsB



abytchgoddess4u -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 4:08:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
I'm curious how many other femdoms enjoy watching a man masturbate. Funny, it's one of those things that has NO appeal if it's fairly generic (just random guys, or in porn), but if it's the right man, and the right scenario (set up by me), I can find it really arousing. 

Do you enjoy making a man masturbate while you watch?
Is it only fun if you are doing something sadistic to him?
Do you watch what he is doing, or watch his eyes or expression or something else?
Akasha


I'm a big fan...especially on the diabolical end. Asking a sub masturbate almost to completion, stopping him, and replacing his chastity device is something I love to do. That also goes for penetration too...[:D]

So, my answers are...

Yes.
No, but it sure adds to it.
I watch everything...but I love making him keep eye contact, no blinking allowed by him. It's amazing how hard it is for them to avoid closing their eyes!
~heehee~[:D]



mimkyodar -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 4:10:20 PM)

Well, i can't say i enjoying watching it - but i enjoy doing it.
That help much? Thought not.



Politesub53 -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 4:35:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

[rant]
 
Yeah, what IS that with guys putting 'Objectification' as a hard limit?  Two things:
 
·         What guy in his right mind doesn’t like laying back and being used

 
MsB


MsB the reason we dont like letting women use us, is to save You from becoming as sleazy as we are [8D] 



MsBearlee -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/5/2008 4:47:47 PM)

 

uh huh
 





ranrich -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/6/2008 7:53:01 AM)

Being forced to masturbate with a tack glove on or forced to masturbate and cum with a time limit but using the off hand(assuming not ambidextrous) could be nice variations on the theme.



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/6/2008 9:18:27 AM)

Do you enjoy making a man masturbate while you watch?  Absolutely.
Is it only fun if you are doing something sadistic to him?  Not necessarily.  I enjoy the humiliation factor of having him do something in front of me that he normally does in private.  Sometimes I also enjoy making humiliating remarks while he is doing this.
Do you watch what he is doing, or watch his eyes or expression or something else? I watch what he is doing, his eyes, and his expression.  But I derive the most enjoyment from watching his expression.
 
Lady Topaz



iwearpanties -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/6/2008 11:45:29 AM)

i will admitt ive had the great pleaseure too be able to this for a few Mistresses in my time many like you loved makeing me do it and some even used humiliation espically since ima panty wearer i soon found out what wetting and wearing my own cumming panties is like.



LadyJeelys -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/6/2008 3:58:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Do you enjoy making a man masturbate while you watch?
Is it only fun if you are doing something sadistic to him?
Do you watch what he is doing, or watch his eyes or expression or something else?

Akasha




Definitely
No, just a little different spice.
Everything



MaamJay -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/7/2008 5:41:14 AM)

Yes I thoroughly enjoy watching, commenting, "helping" ... and hindering LOL! I instruct them that they are not to ask for permission until they are sure that they will be able to cum within 1 minute of receiving said permission (I start counting or looking at My watch!) ... otherwise permission will be rescinded! However, should I say No the first time, they are to continue to stroke ... and beg ... without actually cumming until I say yes. It really puts them on a knife edge of self-control LOL! One of the hottest times was at a New Years Eve D/s party when I bound My sub boy to the swimming pool fence ... then had him rub against the fence (no hands!) till he came. Watching the contortions on his face knowing he so desperately wanted to succeed for Me as well as for him ... with everyone watching ... was awesome! And yes, he succeeded [:D]

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



Lashra -> RE: Watching men masturbate/forcing them to (1/7/2008 6:00:05 AM)

I love to force mine to masturbate while I watch. For some reason he seems a bit embarrassed by it at first, but once he gets into it that embarrassment gives way. I love to watch his movements and particularly his facial expressions. But I have to admit sound is my thing and I love to hear his breathing quicken and that raspy tone of voice that he makes when he begs to cum for me. Yep its all good. [:D]

~Lashra



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