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MsSaskia -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 2:01:32 PM)

If all the responses you're getting are from pros, that means you've contacted them first.  Are you bothering to read profiles first?  The profile should indicate whether someone is professional.  I find that very few people who contact me bother to read my profile and see that I'm not available for a personal/sexual/casual relationship because I'm 1) a pro and 2) already committed to my two collared submissives.  Don't get your fluffy knickers in a twist because you've gotten all excited about someone as the result of a key word search and a hot photo but haven't bothered to see what they say about themselves.



LaTigresse -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 2:03:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I demand 50kabillion dollars to even talk to you.......hell, this reply just cost you 2kabillion.

Will you accept a 3rd-party, post dated, out of state check?

~stef



Okay, if you accept the pre-recorded, telemarketer phone call as "talking"



LaTigresse -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 2:04:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I demand 50kabillion dollars to even talk to you.......hell, this reply just cost you 2kabillion.

All major credit cards accepted, the bill is in the mail as we type.




OK..........but lunch is on YOU

Jeff


and the check is in the mail.....and I won't cum in your...........nevermind.....who am I kidding..:)


For 50kabillion I might even cook the lunch.



Jeffff -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 2:30:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I demand 50kabillion dollars to even talk to you.......hell, this reply just cost you 2kabillion.

All major credit cards accepted, the bill is in the mail as we type.




OK..........but lunch is on YOU

Jeff


and the check is in the mail.....and I won't cum in your...........nevermind.....who am I kidding..:)


For 50kabillion I might even cook the lunch.



How do I know you can cook?....you might be fake

Jeff



MissSCD -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 2:55:14 PM)

No way.

Regards, MissSCD



LaTigresse -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 3:06:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I demand 50kabillion dollars to even talk to you.......hell, this reply just cost you 2kabillion.

All major credit cards accepted, the bill is in the mail as we type.




OK..........but lunch is on YOU

Jeff


and the check is in the mail.....and I won't cum in your...........nevermind.....who am I kidding..:)


For 50kabillion I might even cook the lunch.



How do I know you can cook?....you might be fake

Jeff


"Trust in meeeeeee"...............(think, the snake in Jungle Book singing to Mowgli)



SissyChrissy2 -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 4:33:38 PM)

Actually no not one claimed to be a pro domme. I do read peoples profiles and take time in sending meesages. Also I haven't always been the first to contact. Lets not jump to assumptions.



PrincessDonna -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 4:37:46 PM)

I am no longer a Pro DOMM but I do ask for "tokens of worship" as part of the interview process because I have found that 6 out of 10 interviews I do a day are from men that arent subs at all but want the female to be the Domm in bed! I will use these these tokens (or cash as some just bring cash in order to avoid having to pick a "token" that I will enjoy)to get more toys etc. so thatit all goes back into we whom are sincere.If you dont feel right about a "tribute" you have the right to ask what it is for and to make the choice weather it is something you choose to do.If not,no biggie I sure no one else will suffer because of your refusal. Good luck with your search and I hope you find what you are looking for.



SissyChrissy2 -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 4:47:55 PM)

It's not that I want to know what it's for i'm just suprised how many ask for it before even having a conversation. If a mistress had spoken to me over a period of time or I was due to meet her then a tribute wouldn't be an issue. It just seems many expect you to give up £50-£100 just to start to know them.



bipolarber -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:01:30 PM)

Do they always demand tribute? No. Not in my expereince, anyway. But most, if not all, do demand fealty. The nice women who've been responding to you might just be looking for some token to prove you are serious. Or they could be pros. Or maybe they just see you as an easy mark. Or maybe they have reasons all their own.... maybe you should talk to them about why they are wanting this?




MissMagnolia -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:07:42 PM)

Yes, yes we do. Every single one of us. Just as "all" subs in frilly knickers send us messages asking if we will force fem them. Be careful of the word "all". [8|]



SissyChrissy2 -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:14:29 PM)

I never said all do i just said all the ones that have replied to me have.



PsyVamp -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:22:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PrincessDonna

 I have found that 6 out of 10 interviews I do a day are from men that arent subs at all but want the female to be the Domm in bed!


*groans*  sounds like a familar song.  If they would just read the profiles instead of seeing the words "dominant woman" and thinking we are what they want, or that we must want them because their profile says submissive and ours says dominant.

edited to add:  There are plenty of people on here looking for only kink in the bedroom, that is fine for them but not for those of us who want something else.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:24:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SissyChrissy2

I never said all do i just said all the ones that have replied to me have.


I refer you to the title you gave to your own thread.



SissyChrissy2 -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:36:14 PM)

It was a question not a statement in annoyance



LotusSong -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:41:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: rubberpet

There are dommes out there who don't ask or require tribute, but they are far and few between. 


.. and usually already committed  to their submissive(s)     (I know.. because I am one of those)



Misstoyou -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 5:43:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SissyChrissy2

It was a question not a statement in annoyance



And the short answer to the question continues to be "no." [:)]



ShaktiSama -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 6:58:17 PM)

I've changed my mind.  From now on, I *am* going to demand tribute up front.

Just call me the BDSM Bank Robber:  "All right.  Put the money in the bag, mister, niiice and slooow--or no one gets hurt."



undergroundsea -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 7:05:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama
Just call me the BDSM Bank Robber:  "All right.  Put the money in the bag, mister, niiice and slooow--or no one gets hurt."


The use of or instead of the more commonly used and was not missed ;-)

Cheers,

Sea



LadyPact -> RE: Do all Dommes require tributes upfront? (1/7/2008 7:27:14 PM)

(Using fast reply.)

I have two issues with this.  The first is the thinly veiled use of the word 'tribute' to mean a cash gift.  As I have said many times in past threads, tribute is not necessarily payment for services rendered.  If you will check the definition, it doesn't mean what many have come to accept as monetary exchange.  Tribute, in fact, is any offering.  In times past, I have asked for a sub to bring Me lilacs when they are in bloom, or a book I have been wanting to read.  Even something as simple as a card with a personal note written inside.  These things are also tribute, so if you want to look at the broader spectrum, then yes, sometimes I have asked for tribute for a first meet.  However, since most people don't see such things as a box of chocolate or flowers on a first meet, very much the same as you would bring a small token gift to a first 'nilla date, I'll let you come to the conclusion on your own.

What I think you're driving at, however, is the question of are there Dommes out there who still engage in casual play, without asking for monetary compensation.  I can assure you that there are, because I am one of them.  It's not especially in vogue, but I still get a real thrill from casual play.  There are still a few of Us around.  It's just a matter of looking for Us when you least espect it.

Edited to replace a m for an n.



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