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Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 10:03:27 AM   
SubWanted08


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Status: offline 		I met a sub of mine that I no longer have that would tremble everytime I would touch her. Her breathing would grow short. I even thought she would come out of her skin and run away. Is this normal?
I know she was abducted and prisoned for 3 years to only have a baby by that man at a young age. Could this of attributed to the problem?
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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 10:06:39 AM   
sweetstorm


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Status: offline 		You'd really have to ask HER if you wanted a serious answer to this question, I would think.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 10:09:15 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		The trembling could also be an excitement reaction and not necessarily a negative one. Most of us associate trembling and the like with a negative thing, but like with dogs, it can be from excess excitement as much as it can be from fear. Anticipation, nerves, arousal... these can all have the same physical manifestation. Without knowing how she actually felt, you cant really know which it was.
I had always worried that Angel's trembling when we played was from fear of repeated abuse. Actually, it was a cmbination of the cold which he is hypersensative to and body positions that caused his muscles to tremor even though he didnt even realize they were. Fox has had similiar reactions from playtime, and even from as little as looking at pictures. So, unless you know more about her feelings when its actually going on, theres no way to tell. You cant diagnose a reaction just from the reaction, you need to know more of the inner workings.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 10:27:56 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		I tremble at the mere thought of Darcy, let alone at his touch.  And I have never been abducted nor abused.
It doesn't have to be a reason, other than the control you might have over another causing a positive tremble.
 
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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 11:46:40 AM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		It takes someone special to make me tremble, but when I do it's because I am excited, nervous, (and usually) in love. (or at least lust!)

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 12:01:28 PM   
SubWanted08


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all the replies thus far. I wish I knew of this resource when she was in the area. I think I could of found pleasures unknown versus confused feelings. I feel I only tapped the surface of a true submissive. I am still searching for that and maybe I can find again soon.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 12:50:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		You, to me
Are sweet as roses in the morning
You, to me
Are soft as summer in that dawning love we share
That something rare

The sidewalks and the street
The concrete and the clay beneath my feet
Begin to crumble
But love will never die
You know we'll see the mountains crumble
Before we say goodbye
My love and I will be
In love eternally
That's the way
That's the way love was meant to be

All around
I see the purple shades of evening
On the ground
The shadow's fallen, once again you're in my arms
So tenderly

The sidewalks and the street
The concrete and the clay beneath my feet
Begin to crumble
But love will never die
You know we'll see the mountains crumble
Before we say goodbye
My love and I will be
In love eternally
That's the way
That's the way love was meant to be

The sidewalks and the street
The concrete and the clay beneath my feet
Begin to crumble
But love will never die
You know we'll see the mountains crumble
Before we say goodbye
My love and I will be
In love eternally
That's the way
That's the way love was meant to be

That's the way
That's the way love was meant to be


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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 12:52:08 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		You are so sensative.............sniff sniff

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 12:55:43 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Ron; What's up with all the poetry lately? You been getting some or what?

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 1:00:09 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		i would say ask her directly what is behind the reaction to your touch.     i have been known to tremble out of fear (hot), lust (hotter) or a combination of the two (hottest).

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 1:00:59 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		nice Ron.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 1:02:54 PM   
SubWanted08


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Status: offline 		I am new here and I think the vanilla cone is what you get till they approve your profile or something. It sure wasn't my choice.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 1:09:25 PM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Check Rons signiture line above.  It directs you to the posting icons.  The more you post, the different icons and listing you get.
 
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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 1:42:23 PM   
SubWanted08


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Status: offline 		Got it. Thanks

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 8:26:51 PM   
LaMspeach


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Status: offline 		Yup, What thedark said. I tremble ( not to mentions other things) while thinking about Master, just froming hearing his voice, when he touchs me.

For me it would feel odd not to tremble and get all excited from a mere thought of him or his touch.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/7/2008 9:54:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I shake and get in a cold sweat from adenalin.  It's not necessarily emotional, I actually didn't notice it until it was pointed out to me.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/8/2008 12:05:26 AM   
kittish


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Status: offline 		Excitement makes me tremble, so, for me at any rate, trembling is a good sign. Genuine fear, on the other hand, makes me go very still, poised to either run or fight.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/8/2008 11:54:52 PM   
XaviersXian


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Status: offline 		greetings to all,

xian has this reaction to a particular Dominant male all the time.  It is far from a negative thing for her;  xian has never known *why* He brings out this reaction in her, but He does, and she loves it.  It is not something she can control at all, and something she wouldn't want to try and control.  It is very special to her.

To get to the bottom of why this is happening to the sub in question, ask her, she may give you a similar answer.

well wishes,

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 12:05:34 AM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		3 years of the experiences she had would have some slight bearing on her behaviour, I'm fairly sure.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 6:21:12 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I sometimes tremble when I want someone.  I have created other reactions in men I have dated.  <g> I particularly enjoy seeing goosebumps rise when they get near me.
Heh..
Kyst

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