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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 9:07:08 AM

freyjasdottir

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I sometimes go into uncontrollable trembling after being with someone very special to me. Never had it happen before but its not a bad thing though it really freaked him out the first few times.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 3:31:51 PM

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From my experiences I almost always tremble when my Master goes to touch me. At first its anticipation and nerves, not being used to physical contact is the reason my body goes into tremble meltdown. Right to the point where its going into my limbs and spine. But i think it's wise to ask her why she trembles, that 3year ordeal that she went through might be attributed to something. Despite how loving or caring you are with her perhaps its a subconscious thing for her if she doesnt notice she's doing it? Some women are more naturally attuned to touch and the anticipation of touch, you either get excited or scared and a healthy mix of both. But i'd talk to her just to make sure it isnt pure terror as to why she's flinching.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 4:20:33 PM

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I tremble at the mere thought of what my perspective Dom would do to me when I met Him.

I tremble when he comes online and tells me what hes going to do to me. I am pretty sure its a normal reaction. If i didnt tremble or get nervous i would be worried somethings wrong with me.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 8:15:56 PM

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yeah i would definitely ask first, especially if you're dealing with an abuse survivor like that. it may be an automatic response, it may be ingrained fear, it may be pure lust...but to make sure that everyone is happy definitely talk about it first...

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/9/2008 9:46:09 PM

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Tremble? Usually means I forgot to eat....again. Oh! You meant in the intimate, bdsm, sexual sort of way? If I ain't trembling, means I'm not done yet. The tremors usually come after the great play. Never heard of 'em coming before.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/25/2008 3:04:49 PM

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Most subs I know tremble when they are most excited. If giving someone the power to do absolutely anything to you makes you tremble, it's a sign of mental health. It should make that person nervous/excited. She might have been a bit more nervous than average due to her past, but it would just mean she needed more opportunity to build trust, and proof that she wouldn't be permanently harmed.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/25/2008 3:07:04 PM

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By the way, I think the vanilla cone means how many times you've posted.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/25/2008 3:55:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: rc4otkVA

Most subs I know tremble when they are most excited. If giving someone the power to do absolutely anything to you makes you tremble, it's a sign of mental health. It should make that person nervous/excited. She might have been a bit more nervous than average due to her past, but it would just mean she needed more opportunity to build trust, and proof that she wouldn't be permanently harmed.

I'd be interested to know where you obtained this information, or the thought processes behind it.

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/25/2008 5:53:43 PM

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wow... I thought all women trembled when they were with someone who absolutely turned them on.
I gotta say there had been times with my former, that all he would do was say "slave" and I would tremble... and start getting very moist... just the anticipation of what was going to come next... and the mystery of that, like others have said here...

I always tremble after an awesome orgasm ;) (oops, TMI?) lol

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RE: Trembling Sub - 1/25/2008 6:33:01 PM

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