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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/11/2008 6:50:27 AM

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Not to mention - your appearance should not have anything to do with how well you serve your Mistress. I had a man contact me telling me he was told he resembled Harrison Ford. My reply -"if you serve me well and I am pleased with you - you could look like the Wookie!"

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Excellent post. My thoughts exactly!

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/11/2008 2:02:25 PM

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" Cut your hair off to normal length first, slave" (my italics)

Thats it!! Sum total!! Now where do i start?
Apart from the fact that i always struggle when someone trys to tell me what is normal. In a cpl of messages ive sent (though not to this person) i have stated that if we did click, and they instructed me to do so i would have no problem whatsoever in cutting my hair, indeed sometime in the future if i ever do enter into a Dom/sub relationship (and the chances are looking slim judging from the responses (or lack of ) from this site) im expecting the command.
Now i know that im a sub and Do enjoy being controlled/told what to do, but am i being slightly touchy to think that, as an opening gambit, this is a little presumptious?
i would love to know what other more experienced people think. Thank you for listening.
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j,

To answer your question; yes it's presumptious.

I think you have gorgeous hair.

Personally, I wouldn't even entertain the idea of altering my appearance BEFORE being in a relationship with someone. Alterations once in a relationship would depend on what.

Just my opinion.
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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/11/2008 2:55:50 PM

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Lady Pact,

Not only do I agree (and already said as much) but I think this boy should be on the receiving end of your whip should he cut that beautiful mane!

Believe Me, if I thought he'd swim the ocean, there would be definite potential.

You'd have to ask about My hair thing. It's become almost legendary.

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/11/2008 5:01:51 PM

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Lady Pact,

Not only do I agree (and already said as much) but I think this boy should be on the receiving end of your whip should he cut that beautiful mane!

Believe Me, if I thought he'd swim the ocean, there would be definite potential.

You'd have to ask about My hair thing. It's become almost legendary.

Lady pact, "you say the sweetest things" pants jason, swimming furiously!!

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/11/2008 9:03:15 PM

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Lady Pact,

Not only do I agree (and already said as much) but I think this boy should be on the receiving end of your whip should he cut that beautiful mane!

Believe Me, if I thought he'd swim the ocean, there would be definite potential.

You'd have to ask about My hair thing. It's become almost legendary.

Lady pact, "you say the sweetest things" pants jason, swimming furiously!!

Depending on perspective, I *do* the sweetest things as well. If I ever got My hands in that mane, I don't think I'd come to My senses for a week!

<fans Herself>

<grabs towel>

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/12/2008 1:10:34 AM

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Hey jason, I was born and bred in Bristol, left it at the age of 11 to come to Australia. I adore long hair ... Master has beautiful curlyish hair below His shoulders ... your straight mane would complete the set! And He's only a year younger than you LOL! I'm older ... chronologically ... but who cares about that? If you are going to be crossing any oceans, how about doing a thorough job and coming to Oz? W/we can talk about the old place while ... Pants hopefully and turns the air conditioning back on! (Hands off LadyPact, much as I like You ... You've already got 1 boy!! Don't be greedy LOL)

Seriously, while it wouldn't be a total dealbreaker, a sub would have to be exceptional in all other aspects if he's bald ... I really don't find that attractive to Me, even though I have met some lovely men who are bald. I like at least SOME hair for a hand-hold ...

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/12/2008 1:58:14 AM

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I don't like the tone of it personally, but it seems to me like she was just saying "This is a requirement first. Comply and write again, or we're not going to work." I don't think that's too presumptuous.

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/12/2008 7:58:14 AM

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Lady Pact,

Not only do I agree (and already said as much) but I think this boy should be on the receiving end of your whip should he cut that beautiful mane!

Believe Me, if I thought he'd swim the ocean, there would be definite potential.

You'd have to ask about My hair thing. It's become almost legendary.

I agree, wholeheartedly. Long hair on a boy *wipes drool off of chin and gets a towel to sit on* Hell, long hair on anyone (Holly's hair is past her butt now ... omg it's wonderful).

However, forget swimming - I want him to have energy when he gets here ... a boat or plane would be a hell of a lot faster and leave him with plenty of energy for what that beautiful mane would inspire

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/12/2008 9:10:19 AM

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I love the hair and sat here... correction MORE than just now, imagined what I would love to do with you and that hair! All over my body...washing me from head to toe with it----oops... I digressed! Sorry!

Seriously, I agree with what most have said. There needs to be compatibility and respect in ANY relationship and especially in this lifestyle.

Ignore those that answer in that manner. They are not worth the respect you seem so willing to give to others.

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/12/2008 12:47:55 PM

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We all get dumb e-mails like this, block, delete and move on.

Your hair is lovely and it would be a pleasure to stroke and play with and....

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RE: Presumptuous?? - 1/12/2008 3:47:25 PM

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Why would you want to be in any type of relationship with someone that found you replusive, thank your lucky stars you found out early - scratch her off the list and say NEXT!

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