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takenbyjohnr07 -> Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 12:26:48 PM)

When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. i told her to a Munch. She said what is a Munch. i said it's a social group for people who like to get together and eat. i've never slipped again :)



AquaticSub -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 12:28:49 PM)

Sometimes. It's usually annoying but it does happen to me. Probably because we are completely out with enough people that it's frustrating to have to shift back and forth.



justnewsub -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 12:42:40 PM)

yeah...hee hee after a really good beating, my ass was pretty sore and as i sat down i winced... instantly i was asked what was wrong?

"ummmm, i've been sitting too much lately and my ass was getting too sore..." [:D]

they bought it... hee hee



cherrypez -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 2:26:08 PM)

Nope my parents are both deceased.



TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 2:30:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07
When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night.


You are not really 47, are you?  You can't be...  At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch?  What is she going to do, ground you?  Send you to bed without ice cream? 

Taggard



Suleiman -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 2:31:55 PM)

Can't slip. I was never in the closet. I don't have a career to protect, and if my family can't deal, F! them. I am who I am - which is how I was raised to be. By and large, it hasn't been a problem, except for when I need help packing and moving, and some of my more prudish friends wind up being startled by the contents of the toybox. Okay, that wasn't a problem, it was funny as hell, actually, but I was still sorry to have upset them.



cherrypez -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 2:43:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07
When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night.


You are not really 47, are you?  You can't be...  At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch?  What is she going to do, ground you?  Send you to bed without ice cream? 

Taggard

I had an extremely long and intense day at work today---Thanks So much for the laugh Taggard.   Since it's a social group where people go to eat what is to OP going to do when Mom wants to tag along?  



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 2:46:00 PM)

My 11 year old son was in the room with us. 



christine1 -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 3:53:21 PM)

i was at work, spraying finish on some dowels and wondered aloud how they would feel on my tits....a few of the guys heard me and they've all knd of looked at me wierd since then.  i figure i'm just keeping them all on their toes, being the only girl in a shop full of men is a challenge sometimes.



Prinsexx -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 4:18:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. i told her to a Munch. She said what is a Munch. i said it's a social group for people who like to get together and eat. i've never slipped again :)

one of the reasons why I am not in a munch bunch....i might slip and say it's a brunch for masochists



PsyVamp -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 4:27:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07
When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night.


You are not really 47, are you?  You can't be...  At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch?  What is she going to do, ground you?  Send you to bed without ice cream? 

Taggard



Well, I don't talk about the stuff with my mother... mainly because I don't want her following me around..lol
Although, I'll tell you what is funny; She is constantly trying to figure out what role my pet plays in my house.  She has dropped comments, called him my boyfriend, done everything but asked me what he is to me.

Seriously, I don't tell my sister either, but that is because she is super religious and its not worth listening to her sermons.

Lady Jag



thetammyjo -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 4:56:35 PM)

I don't keep what I do a secret so this concept of "slipping" is foreign to me.

I do occasionally ask people if they really want an answer to a very personal and private question like I did my father this afternoon on the phone. I consider that their fair warning before I'm in their faces with my "alternative lifestyle". If they continue they get the truth and they can deal with it as they wish but I won't tolerate their judgmental BS and have cut off people from our lives who do it.



Griswold -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 6:03:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night. i told her to a Munch. She said what is a Munch. i said it's a social group for people who like to get together and eat. i've never slipped again :)


I actually met your Mother at a Munch once.

(She wanted to know why there weren't any Cheetos).



sweetstorm -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 6:11:04 PM)

Most people know I'm kinky or at least a little.... odd.  So any questions dealing with sex, bdsm, or anything personal, I look at them with a raised eyebrow and ask them if they really want to know. I'll tell them if they say yes, but most just say "no, probably not" and drop the subject.

As most of my friends are vanilla but are aware that I'm kinky, it's not a matter of offending them so much as... well, their innocence is just so darned CUTE.  [:D]



AnimusRex -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 6:55:44 PM)

One of the young girls I work with brought Me some papers to look at- without thinking I said "good girl!"

I let her think it was a snarky joke.



fluffyswitch -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 7:47:14 PM)

i study sex/sexuality so i just use that as my cover...



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 7:52:01 PM)

i don't think so, she passed away a while back.



darkpassenger434 -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 7:59:48 PM)

A funny little story related to this. I'm currently overseas and the shitty internet I can scrounge over here sometimes turns on babysitting software. They did it the other day and I found I had to use a proxy just to get on here and check my messages and forums. Anger insued. I was venting a little bit at work about it and I got "I can get on my Myspace. What kind of networking site are you on that gets filtered?". The individuals asking already have suspicions that I'm a deviant so I had to just go with "What you know about me is the tip of the iceberg man.".
-R



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 8:43:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07
When i first started going to the Munches, my mother asked me where i was going that night.


You are not really 47, are you?  You can't be...  At 47, you are worried about your mother finding out you went to a munch?  What is she going to do, ground you?  Send you to bed without ice cream? 

Taggard

Sighs...knowing that you are an intelligient man..I just know, that you know, the answer of why a person would deceive their parents, even at the age of 47 .....but nooooo..you went for the cheap shot!...and if I am giving you too much credit in the intelligience department..let me state it could be as simple as a daughter protecting her elderly parents from unnecessary worry and angst..Now I know you are a big believer in being up front,and honest about who you are and what you do...but sometimes at what cost??..and is this supposed honesty more important than anything else in the scheme of things??Are we such narcissists that our selves are more important than how we may protect others in our lives??As I am sure you have surmised, we are all adults on this site..we all make our own choices on how we CHOOSE to handle our own responsibilities...Tempting



julietsierra -> RE: Have you ever slipped? (1/10/2008 8:58:04 PM)

I just really don't know what the big deal is. I call it a munch all the time. It's just a word! We're the ones who give it some sort of meaning synonymous with "kink."

And yes, I've used the word around my parents - usually in the summer when I'm coming in early from the boat, docking it and saying to them that while I'd love to sit and have a drink with them, I have to get going since I have a munch I need to be at that evening.

Strangely enough, some people DO have conversations with their parents - even at the ripe old age of 48.

But how do I handle it? Pretty simple actually.

Me: I'd love to stick around mom, but I'm meeting some friends at a munch this evening.
Mom: "What's a munch?"
Me: "A munch? It's exactly what it sounds like - a chance for a bunch of friends of mine to get together for a drink or a bite to eat."
Mom: "Why do you call it a munch?"
Me: "uhhhh...cause we munch?"
Mom: "That sounds reasonable."

Oh... my mother also likes the nice little custom we have of putting someone else in charge of keeping things calm at our parties so that the host and/or hostess can take care of other things thereby ensuring that their guests have a nice time. (Dungeon Masters)

And she REALLY respects how we all take care of ourselves (especially since her daughter is, in her mind, a single woman) and how when we plan to meet new people, we keep in contact with others, and how we work together to keep each other safe in a world that seems decidedly not so safe to her anymore (safecalls).

In addition, she appreciates how I, her daughter can go to events with friends and know that someone is always available to walk me to my car, come get me if something happens and how it's been proven time and again that while my friends may be a bit ... eclectic... they're good people and according to my parents, that's good enough for them.

For the life of me, I just do not understand why we feel the need to make everything about the "kink."

To our loved ones, all we're doing out there is being and enjoying good friends. To them, this isn't kinky at all. It's just good common sense.

juliet



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