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Here's A Story..... - 1/12/2008 5:51:11 AM

MistressOfGa

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OK, bear with me while I try to give this example without getting all mixed up about it. Here is the story:

A man and a woman meet at work and begin a friendship. The man is a submissive, but because of his work he keeps that information to himself and he is extremely private about it. He acts in a manner that is consistent with one who is dominant in the work place so no one will guess that he is submissive. The woman on the other hand is a Dominant, he can tell by her words and actions that she is. He wants to tell her that he is submissive and even hopes that she will accept him and possibly want to begin a D/s relationship with him, but he knows that it may endanger his job, so he keeps it to himself as he continues to act confident and sure of himself, making hard core decisions and really hiding his other half, even in the privacy of their friendship, while off work.

Time passes. He has developed an attraction for his friend simply because she is dominant. So he starts to manipulate the friendship by using inside knowledge of WIITWD on this woman. She questions every now and then as to his submissiveness but thinks better of it, since he seems so strong and takes the initiative when it comes to business dealings. Yet, she finds herself becoming attracted to this rather domly man. She in fact starts to question her own predilection because of her ever growing feelings for a dominant male. There is just something about him that attracts her and it makes her uncomfortable, because she had never been attracted to a dominant male.

More time passes. Months go by and he finally gets up the nerve to ask her out on a "real" date. Although she knows better and she knows he is not what she is looking for, she agrees to a dinner date. He is a gentleman on this date, opening the doors for her, holding her arm as they are seated, ect..all the while his heart is pounding because he thinks that this is a good night to tell her of his own predilection.

So much time has passed and he has used his knowledge of what she is to manipulate his way into her heart.

Should he tell her now?

What would your reaction be if something like this had happened to you?

Would you feel relieved to learn that the person you are/were so attracted to is indeed a submissive?

Or would you be so angry that you would end the friendship right then and there?

For the Dominants, you can reverse the situation, exchanging the male for the female roles. (If you want to).

This is a made up story, based on something that I read on the forums today. In no way does it reflect me or anyone that I know.

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