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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

Wow and before the martini hour--- 
 

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ORIGINAL: christine1

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ORIGINAL: LadyHathor

Wow and before the martini hour--- 
 

there is a martini hour on saturday?  geez, spoil all my fun....

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

KC,
I wrote earlier today in another thread that I am attracted to the kind of sub who is strong and capable of managing his own affairs. Independent and strong. It is a much sweeter conquest to have a strong independent man serving me than one who is so easily taken. I love to work for what I get :)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

OK, bear with me while I try to give this example without getting all mixed up about it. Here is the story:
 
A man and a woman meet at work and begin a friendship. The man is a submissive, but because of his work he keeps that information to himself and he is extremely private about it. He acts in a manner that is consistent with one who is dominant in the work place so no one will guess that he is submissive. The woman on the other hand is a Dominant, he can tell by her words and actions that she is. He wants to tell her that he is submissive and even hopes that she will accept him and possibly want to begin a D/s relationship with him, but he knows that it may endanger his job, so he keeps it to himself as he continues to act confident and sure of himself, making hard core decisions and really hiding his other half, even in the privacy of their friendship, while off work.
 
Time passes. He has developed an attraction for his friend simply because she is dominant. So he starts to manipulate the friendship by using inside knowledge of WIITWD on this woman. She questions every now and then as to his submissiveness but thinks better of it, since he seems so strong and takes the initiative when it comes to business dealings. Yet, she finds herself becoming attracted to this rather domly man. She in fact starts to question her own predilection because of her ever growing feelings for a dominant male. There is just something about him that attracts her and it makes her uncomfortable, because she had never been attracted to a dominant male.
 
More time passes. Months go by and he finally gets up the nerve to ask her out on a "real" date. Although she knows better and she knows he is not what she is looking for, she agrees to a dinner date. He is a gentleman on this date, opening the doors for her, holding her arm as they are seated, ect..all the while his heart is pounding because he thinks that this is a good night to tell her of his own predilection.
 
So much time has passed and he has used his knowledge of what she is to manipulate his way into her heart.
 
Should he tell her now?
 
What would your reaction be if something like this had happened to you?
 
Would you feel relieved to learn that the person you are/were so attracted to is indeed a submissive?

Or would  you be so angry that you would end the friendship right then and there?
 
For the Dominants, you can reverse the situation, exchanging the male for the female roles. (If you want to).
 
This is a made up story, based on something that I read on the forums today. In no way does it reflect me or anyone that I know.

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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

I am not sure I get why anyone would be mad.  She never told him she was dominant, he just guessed it and then let his submissive side out around her.  Sounds like good old fashioned courting.

Taggard

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ORIGINAL: kc692

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

KC,
I wrote earlier today in another thread that I am attracted to the kind of sub who is strong and capable of managing his own affairs. Independent and strong. It is a much sweeter conquest to have a strong independent man serving me than one who is so easily taken. I love to work for what I get :)

I don't mind working just a bit......(not too much, then they are just a sam pain in the ass, rfl).  I do agree with you that it needs to be special!! I have a boy/man that is retired military of 31 years, ran the base near here till retirement, owns a large establishment here and I love to watch him at work, everyone running when he speaks oh so softly to tell them what he wants done.  In private, when he kneels and says, What can I do for you , MiLady.....grrrr, get's the juices flowin!!!!  Some even notice the quiet deference when I am at his business, because he is that dominant in his everyday life, so I agree, that submission is oh so sweet!!!!

BTW, you were right, lol.  The different details make for a whole different answer.  I will tackle that thread later, grinz!!!!!

God I love submissives!

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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ORIGINAL: kc692

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

KC,
I wrote earlier today in another thread that I am attracted to the kind of sub who is strong and capable of managing his own affairs. Independent and strong. It is a much sweeter conquest to have a strong independent man serving me than one who is so easily taken. I love to work for what I get :)

I don't mind working just a bit......(not too much, then they are just a sam pain in the ass, rfl).  I do agree with you that it needs to be special!! I have a boy/man that is retired military of 31 years, ran the base near here till retirement, owns a large establishment here and I love to watch him at work, everyone running when he speaks oh so softly to tell them what he wants done.  In private, when he kneels and says, What can I do for you , MiLady.....grrrr, get's the juices flowin!!!!  Some even notice the quiet deference when I am at his business, because he is that dominant in his everyday life, so I agree, that submission is oh so sweet!!!!

BTW, you were right, lol.  The different details make for a whole different answer.  I will tackle that thread later, grinz!!!!!

My boy is an historian. He reenacts civil war times, complete with costume. I love to hear him talk about how he has to drill (Yell) at the tours that come to the fort. I can imagine him standing there tall, in the sun, his green eyes shining as he yells "ATTENTION!!" So dominant in the work place and such a puppy at my feet. If they only knew... <g>
I love the idea that you have a military man..31 years of telling people what to do..and then to own an establishment, speaking quietly to his staff.
God I love submissives!

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ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Would you feel relieved to learn that the person you are/were so attracted to is indeed a submissive?

Or would  you be so angry that you would end the friendship right then and there?
 

"No harm...no foul."

After all, many of us have to be discrete in the workplace to survive in the workplace.  So, it took a few months of friendship for him to trust her enough to share his secret.  Did she really expect him to "break cover" any sooner?  I should think she'd be flattered that he trusted her with such a huge secret in the first place.

It is hard enough to find suitable, local partners in WIITWD.  I would hope that she would rejoice at the gift that fate had laid at her feet, and not look a gift horse in the mouth.

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Would you feel relieved to learn that the person you are/were so attracted to is indeed a submissive?

Or would  you be so angry that you would end the friendship right then and there?

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Why would I be angry?  I'd be glad.  I'd be angry if someone tried to deceive me.  For someone not to tell me about her submissive tendencies in a professional setting is hardly deceiving me.

One little disclaimer though: if this were someone connected to me through work, I wouldn't touch the situation with a ten-foot pole.

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Would you feel relieved to learn that the person you are/were so attracted to is indeed a submissive?

Or would  you be so angry that you would end the friendship right then and there?