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KurtKaboom -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 3:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave Please don't put words in my mouth masomale70! He didn't. He commented on the tone of the words you used. I think he was right. Of course he's getting frustrated. He's trying to ask a legitimate question and only getting shit for responses because he dosen't express the twue dynamic. Not like that kind of thing ever happins here. I've had my slaves pleasure me this way. It's an incredeble sinsation, to begin with and exqwisite when the binding comes off. An hour is too long, but parachute cord is a good choice, or leather bootlaces. Don't use anything much thinner than those.

AtlantaMistress -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 3:58:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masomale70 I'm nobody's sub and not the least bit interested in the Dumme attitude anyway. What good are the many years of experience if you can't provide practical information? Stupid fucking clique bullshit, just like those waste of time munches. I'm nobody's sub and not the least bit interested in the Dumme attitude anyway. What good are the many years of experience if you can't provide practical information? Stupid fucking clique bullshit, just like those waste of time munches. odd, isn't it - posting on the Ask a Mistress Forum - wants Domme advice, not attitudes, and when he doesn't like the advice is completely disrespectful??wtf?? Thank you pixelslave for giving him what he was looking for, and I appreciated your respect and defense which I didn't see it as ass kissing - although that in itself is something I know many enjoy so it does not have to be seen as derogatory [:)] Anyway, if you didn't give masonmale this information, he could seriously cause harm to his precious cock, in which case, it would not nearly be so fun to tell him to go fuck himself! [8D]

AquaticSub -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:04:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom quote: ORIGINAL: pixelslave Please don't put words in my mouth masomale70! He didn't. He commented on the tone of the words you used. I think he was right. Of course he's getting frustrated. He's trying to ask a legitimate question and only getting shit for responses because he dosen't express the twue dynamic. Not like that kind of thing ever happins here. I've had my slaves pleasure me this way. It's an incredeble sinsation, to begin with and exqwisite when the binding comes off. An hour is too long, but parachute cord is a good choice, or leather bootlaces. Don't use anything much thinner than those. How on earth is suggesting that he talk to people he can meet in real life as opposed to trusting a bunch of strangers on the internet shit advice? For all he knows, we are twisted fucks who want to give him bad advice so that he loses circulation in his dick and is never able to use it again.

KurtKaboom -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:08:26 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1533676/tm.htm Perhaps he thought he would find more knowlidge in this room. The attatude didn't start with him.

beargonewild -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:20:09 PM)
This is not hanging my lifestyle on you, this is common sense here. As with any form of constricting blood flow to a body part, there is an element of risk to this. As others pointed out, long term blood constriction to the penis will greatly increase the chance of nerve damage as well as tissue damage. This damage can range from temporary to permanent. The deep color change is indicative of blood being severely confined to one area and the tissue is being starved of oxygen. Granted, your girlfriend may enjoy this type of edge play though it still boils down to the fact that you also have a right to put a stop to this if your comfortability level is being ignored. You can take this opinion any way you want, just know that I offer it from one man to another.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:25:21 PM)
Ah, so the real issue is that MEN offer the advice, and it is okay? <sarcasm> I re-read my first post, and fail to see the attitude. I am a heavy edge player, and there is no way in HELL that I would give step by step directions for anything here on the net. I am a very responsible person who has never had a serious "whoops" ever. How are any of you to know that? How is any stranger to know that? I stand beside my original words--RESEARCH, talk to LIVE people and have them teach you. None of this is top secret stuff.

xenboi -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:25:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Maynard Dizzz-Am!!! That's kind of rude. especially coming from someone one who wants something. Exactly what i was thinking!!!

MsSaskia -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:27:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KurtKaboom http://www.collarchat.com/m_1533676/tm.htm Perhaps he thought he would find more knowlidge in this room. The attatude didn't start with him. The "attatude" did start with him. Two people gave him reasonable advice and he complained about it not being enough.

LadyHathor -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:30:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masomale70 I wonder if I would even notice something going wrong before we needed an ER trip. How many others practice this kind of CBT on their males, and what should we be aware of? *...an explosion, then it falls off, be sure she leaves a rip cord.*

beargonewild -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:55:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Ah, so the real issue is that MEN offer the advice, and it is okay? <sarcasm Not, real issue is a two spirit person offering an opinion, plain and simple. Big difference.

masomale70 -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 4:56:06 PM)
You offered me a book I've already read that doesn't say squat on the subject, followed by duh's about there being nerve endings and blood flow. I know that. Using a veto is why I'm asking the question. Thank you Beargonewild. The problem is that my comfort level is MORE! She started it and created a monster. I don't ever want it to stop. You are right Kurtkaboom, this wasn't my first choice for where to ask. My girlfriend is concerned we are going to do damage and I came looking for guidelines.

pixelslave -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 6:04:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Thank you, pixelslave, for the fine ass-kissing. Or was that politeness? Whatever! Gosh I guess you've read my profile Lady Hibiscus as I do greatly enjoy it! I can even kiss ass politely too (without any slobbering), in case that matters! [;)] Regardless of how it's done, if you ask me, when it comes to kissing a Mistress' ass, it's all good! [sm=tongue.gif] - pixel

MamaDomme1 -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 6:33:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masomale70 My girlfriend is concerned we are going to do damage Very probable that you will do some permanent damage if you are to continue for great lengths of time. An hour at a time is too long with it being wrapped that tightly. And yes, it may not pop, but it could turn gangreneous and rot off.

PsyVamp -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 6:42:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masomale70 You offered me a book I've already read that doesn't say squat on the subject, followed by duh's about there being nerve endings and blood flow. I know that. Using a veto is why I'm asking the question. Thank you Beargonewild. The problem is that my comfort level is MORE! She started it and created a monster. I don't ever want it to stop. You are right Kurtkaboom, this wasn't my first choice for where to ask. My girlfriend is concerned we are going to do damage and I came looking for guidelines. If you want a professional's advice, why not find a kink friendly medical practitioner and ask them? This way, you know the advice is probably more medically sound than an internet board full of various other people. And pixel, you really know how to turn a phrase and explain the reasoning of just about anybody, well written and level headed. claps LJ

RoughFN -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 7:35:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Ah, so the real issue is that MEN offer the advice, and it is okay? <sarcasm> I re-read my first post, and fail to see the attitude. I am a heavy edge player, and there is no way in HELL that I would give step by step directions for anything here on the net. I am a very responsible person who has never had a serious "whoops" ever. How are any of you to know that? How is any stranger to know that? I stand beside my original words--RESEARCH, talk to LIVE people and have them teach you. None of this is top secret stuff. (emphasis mine) Hold it. He didn't ask for that. Go re-read the original post. He just said that he's been doing it, wants to know who else has done it to this degree, and wants to know what he should be aware of. He has done it, presumably they know how to do it, they just don't necessarily know what's safe. Stand beside your original words? "RESEARCH"? That's what he was doing! How is the opinion of strangers that he's chatting with on the internet any more or less valid that strangers he's met in real life at a club? They're still strangers. Hell, how is it more valid than a book? If you're a heavy edge player and responsible and have never had a serious whoops, then you sound like the sort of person he's hoping to hear from to get some more information about stuff he should look for. Besides, in all seriousness how do we necessarily know for a fact which books are good and which aren't? I don't see a list of fact checkers and medical references in the books that I have, so how do I know that it wasn't just some crackpot yahoo who wrote down all the worst advice around and the book is going to end up killing me? There's one and only one way that I can think of to find out if a book is any good or not...ask people on the 'net and in person. Ask a lot of them everywhere. If they tend to be in agreement on something, the crowd has a good chance of being right. The crowd's also probably going to band together pretty quick if something's bad and tell everyone else about it, but he's not going to know unless he asks. Pointing him towards books and whatnot is fine and useful and I'm not knocking it, but if you've got so much experience on these matters, then share it with him. He never asked for instructions (AFAIK, maybe it was later on when the tone got snippy and buried in flames), but asked for things to look for. Look at it this way - you're so concerned about him researching things, give him topics to research. "Oh, you should look out for such and such." "If your dick turns blue that's probably (insert scary disease) and very bad." Then he can go out and further research (insert scary disease) at a later point. As is now you're just telling him to go ask the exact same questions elsewhere. And you're right, none of this stuff is top secret, so I fail to see why anyone would be unwilling to share.

ocilla -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 8:14:26 PM)
Well I have an offer....since you are so sincere and obviously such a great guy I will be happy to not tell you but hands on show you exactly how best to do this....have lots of tricks to add to your repetoir and can actually show you on your own anatomy what danger signs to looks for.....but the only way to teach this responsibly is in person. So please do come see me. smiles innocently I would just love to get my hands on you. Since this is so important to you I imagine the 3000 miles to me as opposed to the 3hours to the nearest BDSMers is a bargain.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 8:26:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ocilla Well I have an offer....since you are so sincere and obviously such a great guy I will be happy to not tell you but hands on show you exactly how best to do this....have lots of tricks to add to your repetoir and can actually show you on your own anatomy what danger signs to looks for.....but the only way to teach this responsibly is in person. So please do come see me. smiles innocently I would just love to get my hands on you. Since this is so important to you I imagine the 3000 miles to me as opposed to the 3hours to the nearest BDSMers is a bargain. Use an elastic.... it is a type of rope ya know of which you are good at...and im sure your dying to use one!!!

MsSaskia -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/13/2008 11:52:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RoughFN quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Ah, so the real issue is that MEN offer the advice, and it is okay? <sarcasm> I re-read my first post, and fail to see the attitude. I am a heavy edge player, and there is no way in HELL that I would give step by step directions for anything here on the net. I am a very responsible person who has never had a serious "whoops" ever. How are any of you to know that? How is any stranger to know that? I stand beside my original words--RESEARCH, talk to LIVE people and have them teach you. None of this is top secret stuff. (emphasis mine) Hold it. He didn't ask for that. Go re-read the original post. He just said that he's been doing it, wants to know who else has done it to this degree, and wants to know what he should be aware of. He has done it, presumably they know how to do it, they just don't necessarily know what's safe. Stand beside your original words? "RESEARCH"? That's what he was doing! How is the opinion of strangers that he's chatting with on the internet any more or less valid that strangers he's met in real life at a club? They're still strangers. Hell, how is it more valid than a book? If you're a heavy edge player and responsible and have never had a serious whoops, then you sound like the sort of person he's hoping to hear from to get some more information about stuff he should look for. Besides, in all seriousness how do we necessarily know for a fact which books are good and which aren't? I don't see a list of fact checkers and medical references in the books that I have, so how do I know that it wasn't just some crackpot yahoo who wrote down all the worst advice around and the book is going to end up killing me? There's one and only one way that I can think of to find out if a book is any good or not...ask people on the 'net and in person. Ask a lot of them everywhere. If they tend to be in agreement on something, the crowd has a good chance of being right. The crowd's also probably going to band together pretty quick if something's bad and tell everyone else about it, but he's not going to know unless he asks. Pointing him towards books and whatnot is fine and useful and I'm not knocking it, but if you've got so much experience on these matters, then share it with him. He never asked for instructions (AFAIK, maybe it was later on when the tone got snippy and buried in flames), but asked for things to look for. Look at it this way - you're so concerned about him researching things, give him topics to research. "Oh, you should look out for such and such." "If your dick turns blue that's probably (insert scary disease) and very bad." Then he can go out and further research (insert scary disease) at a later point. As is now you're just telling him to go ask the exact same questions elsewhere. And you're right, none of this stuff is top secret, so I fail to see why anyone would be unwilling to share. Conversely, nobody owes the OP a blessed thing. If he wasn't happy with the type of advice offered, that's unfortunate. Being rude about it is boorish.

MamaDomme1 -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 12:52:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ocilla Well I have an offer....since you are so sincere and obviously such a great guy I will be happy to not tell you but hands on show you exactly how best to do this....have lots of tricks to add to your repetoir and can actually show you on your own anatomy what danger signs to looks for.....but the only way to teach this responsibly is in person. So please do come see me. smiles innocently I would just love to get my hands on you. Since this is so important to you I imagine the 3000 miles to me as opposed to the 3hours to the nearest BDSMers is a bargain. teeheehee-- I would so love to watch that!

MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 3:16:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masomale70 I'm nobody's sub and not the least bit interested in the Dumme attitude anyway. What good are the many years of experience if you can't provide practical information? Stupid fucking clique bullshit, just like those waste of time munches. Wow....cranky pants or what? OPs get a lot of answers in Ask a Mistress. You have to sift through the good, the bad, the bizarre and the totally off-topic. There's a lot of good intentions but no quality control. What do you expect for free? Often the first few posts are not the complete answer, but they DO get the ball rolling. You blew your stack after only TWO replies. How long did you give your thread to develop - 15 minutes? Why would anyone else stick their neck out and tell you about their own CBT experience after watching the way you ripped into the first Mistresses to venture suggestions? I know a bit about CBT, but I sure do not want to help you now. I can see that you really don't like Dominant women. That's OK. The feeling is now mutual. But if you come here wanting something free from us like advice about your dick (and its longevity for this world), hold back on the criticism, OK? You revealed your contempt for Dommes waaaaay too soon. You have seen what happens when you post your queries in other sections - sweet FA.

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