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CdnExplorer -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 4:01:54 AM)

Of course he's annoyed, the original question was ignored and people with experience replied saying things that boiled down to, "Don't ask a bunch of random strangers here, ask a bunch of random strangers over there". The question wasn't about how to do something, he just wanted to know if what he was doing is safe. He's probably a bit more annoyed given that nobody even replied to his original post. Why do people even reply to a legitimate question if they have nothing to add? The trite, "get lost" responses he was getting were rude, so I don't see how it's fair to accuse him of such. Perhaps he should have bit his tongue, but he was simply responding in kind.



MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 4:39:53 AM)

C'mon, get real.  People don't always reply to my original posts either.  Especially not instantly.  The first answers are usually quick but less  developed than later replies.  And some answers arejust incomprehensible!

But I don't spit the dummy and start abusing strangers because the very first TWO did not give me exactly what I wanted! 

That just sabotages any chance of fuller answers emerging with time and thought. 

Talk about shooting your own thread in the foot.  I didn't read "get lost" into anyone's answer until he threw his tantrum






Maynard -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 6:42:16 AM)

Yes, I agree with MsCfromMelbourne.  I believe that his first mistake was being too impatient.  His second was being rude.




AtlantaMistress -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 7:49:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Maynard

Yes, I agree with MsCfromMelbourne. I believe that his first mistake was being too impatient. His second was being rude.




Third - posting in Ask A Mistress - when has disdain for Dommes, and seems to be getting answers from those who have their own cocks...perhaps based on his attitude, another forum would have been more appropriate, but I am wondering if the blood flow may have been cut off too long to the wrong head [:'(]



RoughFN -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 7:54:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress

Third - posting in Ask A Mistress - when has disdain for Dommes, and seems to be getting answers from those who have their own cocks...perhaps based on his attitude, another forum would have been more appropriate, but I am wondering if the blood flow may have been cut off too long to the wrong head [:'(]


For the record, I would jump all over the guys if they reacted in this way, too.

He got two flip replies and then got pissed. Did he go too far over the top too quickly? Maybe. But I don't know about a jump to "disdain for dommes" as being a reasonable conclusion.

Last statement (in italics) retracted since he did post and say, "...and not the least bit interested in the Dumme attitude anyway", so I guess that conclusion could be drawn.



LadyHathor -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 8:23:06 AM)

Here is My experienced .02 for what its worth--you are sent to books as means of support because they tell more then we can no matter how much experience we have--( I wish MissTress was here, She has even done nailing and is in My opinion damn good about the anatomy of bondage and the penis) never the  less, I have added a link for you that shows the appropriate method of wrapping that is safe AND some of the best stuff to wrap as it can be cut asap if something serious happens---everyone here is correct--an hour at any thing that restricts circulation is deadly, note I didn't say dangerous, I said deady--due to blood clots etc. In the penis, there is the danger from three avenues, blood clot, damage to the urethra, and ball twisting--ball twisting can cause you death in an hour---
 
http://http://www.extremerestraints.com/latex-penis-bondage-strips_268.html
 
Parachute cord that is 3/4 inch is good, make sure you are dusted or lubed first so if something happens it can be slipped or cut off easily. Don't use real rope, too stiff, you can have fun with some very small chaining as well. The key here are a few things:
 
If you start flaccid be wary of the erection as that is where you will have the most danger be it 2 minutes or 2 seconds.
If you want to do it tight, I recommend the bondage tape as it allows for breathing and pulse
She should periodically feel the head, if it feels cold to the touch ( use her cheek or the inner part of her arm)--get it off asap and restrict it to no more than 15 minutes, I recommend starting at a few minutes then the next time add a minute or so--and do NOT do it repeatedly during the day or everyday to allow you time to see what the deal is.
 
and here is a link to the deviants dictionary that provides some safety information:
 
http://http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/bfballtr.htm
 

edited for typos as I am OCD about that---nails too long
 



domahpet -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 8:46:52 AM)

that seemed excellent advice LadyHathor, tho i pesonaly have never done any wrapping or binding except of the breasts.
i sure hope it helped the OP.
wow what a thread! i think almost everyone on it owes everyone else an apology,
or a whipping!
OP, if you dont like dommes or their opinions, why didnt you post this in health and safety?????????



AquaticSub -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 8:58:53 AM)

I really don't think the first two responses were flip at all. He came to an internet forum and asked for advice. One person's advice was to talk to the local community. I don't think that is dismissive - that is their advice. He makes snide comments about being trained overseas. Another person suggests a book that they think will help. He doesn't think it will and makes snide comments. Disagreeing is one thing, being rude when someone when simply offering the advice they thought would help is another.

This is a free community and you get what you pay for. People offered advice they thought would help. That's pretty much all there is to giving advice. If you don't like it, go somewhere else.



LadyHathor -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 9:03:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domahpet

that seemed excellent advice LadyHathor, tho i pesonaly have never done any wrapping or binding except of the breasts.
i sure hope it helped the OP.
wow what a thread! i think almost everyone on it owes everyone else an apology,
or a whipping!
OP, if you dont like dommes or their opinions, why didnt you post this in health and safety?????????


You know, you bring up a very good point----we would expect that we would always be nice here to each other---yet here if we snipe, snap, etc, the worst that can happen is to be moded for a time--but out there in the real world, we would get fired, divorced, shot---I wonder how many times we react ( and I am the same way at times) based on the fact that we feel at the mercy of the world out there and we can't snap back--or someone here reminds us of someone at work, or in our families and its our way of using the site here as a "whipping post"--and the fact that it is hidden--sometimes I wish I wasn't so human either---
 
[&o]



pixelslave -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 9:22:53 AM)

Lady Hathor,
I tried to follow the links you posted, but they didn't seem to be working at this time.  Could you please double check them for us? [&:]
 
Perhaps you just need a sub around to give you a nice manicure to help with your typing or else have had them in your favorites a bit too long and they've since changed? [;)]
 
CBT can be so much fun when done by a knowledgeable Domme! [8D]
 
 - pixel



pixelslave -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 9:32:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PsyVamp
If you want a professional's advice, why not find a kink friendly medical practitioner and ask them?  This way, you know the advice is probably more medically sound than an internet board full of various other people.

And pixel, you really know how to turn a phrase and explain the reasoning of just about anybody, well written and level headed.  *claps*

LJ


Thank you for the very nice compliment Lady Jag.  I am indeed humbled. [&:]
 
Your advice was sound as well, but I suspect far to intimate and personal for the OP. [;)]
 
 - pixel
 



Dnomyar -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 9:35:20 AM)

Holding the trimmer. Come here ladies and hold your claws out.



pixelslave -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 9:39:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

Often the first few posts are not the complete answer, but they DO get the ball rolling.



No pun intended MsC where my emphasis was added?  If it "popped", that could be one result! [;)]
 
 - pixel
 
(sorry, just couldn't help myself [:D][:D][:D])



LaTigresse -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 9:50:51 AM)

What an entertaining read for a Monday![:D]



LadyHathor -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 10:09:15 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pixelslave

Lady Hathor,
I tried to follow the links you posted, but they didn't seem to be working at this time.  Could you please double check them for us? [&:]
 
Perhaps you just need a sub around to give you a nice manicure to help with your typing or else have had them in your favorites a bit too long and they've since changed? [;)]
 
CBT can be so much fun when done by a knowledgeable Domme! [8D]
 
 - pixel



Oh pixel for a slave to type dictated responses---[&o]
 
so lets try this again:
 
http://www.extremerestraints.com/latex-penis-bondage-strips_268.html
 
http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/bfcocktr.htm


these should work this time.



pixelslave -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 11:06:58 AM)

quote:
Oh pixel for a slave to type dictated responses---[&o]


Might not work very well if the dick popped! [;)]
 
Thank you very much Lady Hathor for posting the corrected links.  I think Extreme Restraints sent me some of the bondage strips as a bonus for placing an order, but never got around to trying them out before Majik and I split.  I don't that particular photo was shown with them when they were included or I strongly suspect that part of the package might have been opened first. [:D]
 
The other link appeared to be an excellent resource and I've bookmarked it for future reference; for one of the moments I have more time to read it a bit more thoroughly.  Thank you for taking the time to post the correct links. [8D]
 
 - pixel



Boondoggle -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 10:22:54 PM)

Bad attitude:
quote:

ORIGINAL: masomale70
quote:

ORIGINAL: Maynard
If masomale was my sub I'd be a sadist too :-p

I'm nobody's sub and not the least bit interested in the Dumme attitude anyway. What good are the many years of experience if you can't provide practical information?

Stupid fucking clique bullshit, just like those waste of time munches.

Good attitude:
quote:

ORIGINAL: masomale70
You offered me a book I've already read that doesn't say squat on the subject, followed by duh's about there being nerve endings and blood flow. I know that. Using a veto is why I'm asking the question.
Thank you Beargonewild. The problem is that my comfort level is MORE! She started it and created a monster. I don't ever want it to stop.
You are right Kurtkaboom, this wasn't my first choice for where to ask. My girlfriend is concerned we are going to do damage and I came looking for guidelines.


See, had you gone and posted something along the lines of the second post, stating what you already did know, you might have gotten more useful replies. Instead, you showed everyone you're a gaping asshole goatsea style. To me, this clearly indicates you expect the universe to revolve around you. Get over yourself, or put your silver spoon back in your mouth and run up and down the stairs a lot. Humility isn't submission; in fact, it's often just good manners. Likewise, being arrogant doesn't make one dominant, just a fuckwad.



Najakcharmer -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 10:57:06 PM)

There are folks in here with medical backgrounds who could have been very helpful and specific.  They certainly have in the past. However at this point I doubt any of them are willing to offer an hour of their time to do a detailed technical writeup for someone who refers to us as Dummes and can't keep his temper in check. 

On the Internet, nobody owes you anything.  If you're nice and polite and can keep your tone upbeat and positive even when you don't get an immediate answer to your liking, or even when one or two people in your thread say something annoying, you stand a reasonably good chance of eventually getting the knowledgable people to offer their help.  If you can't....well, you see what happens.  



AtlantaMistress -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/14/2008 11:02:07 PM)

Isn't it obvious this was a matter of Health & Safety, and may have gotten more responses along that lines if it was in that forum instead of 2/3rds of the thread about OPs disappointment with answers and disrespect towards those who this forum is to Ask?

I don't know...after all, I'm just a Dumme Domme [sm=idea.gif]



YourhandMyAss -> RE: OMG! She's going to pop it! (1/15/2008 12:10:34 AM)

Only if you will polish them after trimming them.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Holding the trimmer. Come here ladies and hold your claws out.



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