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ORIGINAL: MissAidan

As the other person in question here, I believe I should put in my two cents.  In my experience, when someone identifies themselves as a slave, it is more appropriate for a Dom/me to speak with their Dom/me in the begening.  Especially when the Dom/me outside the relationship has been approached about working with said slave.  Should one or more parties in the relationship have issue with this, they should simply communicate the problem as they see it to the person outside their relationship, as the person outside of it may not know that they operate differently.

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ORIGINAL: wh1speringw1nds

Hello.  i am kind of new to these forums.  But have a question about respect that i would like opinions on.

First off, just to set things straight before the questions are asked;  Sir(meaning the One i am in communication and decision time with) asked me to restart my profile; so that He could stay in contact easier with me.

Since it is in "decision stage", He said for me to leave the profile as it was with no changes yet.  So i did so.  Ok, that explains the start.

Yesterday, i received a message from a Dom in Ky; asking me of my likes and dislikes, etc.

i very politely told Him the situation as explained above.

This morning, i get a message in return from the same Ky Dom; very rude and nasty.

Saying that since i already had a Master, why hadnt i stated that in my profile?  And then He proceeded to say, "And you consider THAT respect for a Dom?"   End of message.

So i proceeded to TRY to politely inform Him that it was because Sir and i are still in "decision stage", and that it was by Sirs request that the profile stay as is, temporarily.  And that is why i call Him Sir, and not Master.

i went to send the message, and the Dom in Ky has blocked me; without hearing any explanation whatsoever.

So am i being disrespectful to Doms, or was He to me?

ps...i have always tried to be polite and honest to all that i speak with.

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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

wh1speringw1nds Hello and welcome.... I'd like to tell you that just because you are an "s" type does NOT mean you are EVERYBODIES "s" type....not until you talk with and you decide to submit to that special someone....You seriously don't owe anyone anything. Of course theres common courtesy and politeness... but as far as having to treat every "D" type that contacts you as if they were already in authority over you...NO...no way....

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

It sounds like the same old thing that has been around forever. It happens more often than not. If you all want, your Master can tell her to contact you to talk about a discreet threesome that her Dom will never know about since it appears she is talking to your Master without her's knowing. That puts it on the level that your guy will not play with her alone. If you don't want to go behind her Master's back, you can make small talk with her a while when she contacts you and say no thanks. 

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

If she is in a Domme mode why should she reply to you. You belong to another person. The correspondence should be between your Master and her.