SirJohnMandevill -> RE: What attracts U/u to a BBW or any sub/slave (1/17/2008 4:49:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Pulpsmack What attracts me to any female is her looks, personality, and intelligence (in chronological order although not in order of importance) As for the subset of BBW... it is just as easy as a fitness model, provided she is the genuine article. How many women here and elsewhere list themselves as BBWs? How many have clue as to what it means? Being morbidly obese with a nasty defensive temperment to match might make you a "BBW" if "Boorish Bitchy Whale" suffices. A BBW has a beautiful face (NO EXCEPTIONS). She would be beautiful north of the neck whether fat or skinny, not beautiful because she is big. The second component is a proportioned body. Big means many things, but not all of them are beautiful. Big breasts, big hips, broader shoulders etc all make for a very attractive physique, whereas shapless and round does not so much. Finally, the personality comes in play. I have found BBWs to be very sweet or saucy and have a great sense of humor. That is a part of what exudes sexiness, not this shitty projection of hostility to cover this vast ocean of insecurity. That would be the ideal BBW to me, and they are as attractive and desired as any other woman. I believe a BBW may have 2 out of 3 (all the physical and terrible personality, or beautiful body/face without the other) but too many assert themselves as BBWs and rarely have one of those three qualities, which really irritates me. I think it takes away from those who have earned the title and has cheapened it into an overbroad category of "overweight/larger-sized" people that has nothing to do with the original meaning of the term. Couldn't have said it better, Pulpsmack! It just has happened that most of the subs in whom I've had some level of interest have been larger women. That's not what attracted me; it was the qualities you mentioned in your opening sentence. Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)
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