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A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/18/2008 6:18:03 PM

MasterHardxdrive

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A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree?

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:40:56 AM

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there is a touch of sex in everything anyone does. Money, power, etc. in vanilla life is to make yourself more attractive to the oppisate sex.

It is said that money is the root of all evil, but sex waters that root.

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:43:18 AM

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greetings masterhardxdrive,

i disagree...i've met people who aren't into bdsm who still exude sexuality.

nevertheless, for me, m/s has definitely watered my sexuality flower...i was already an extremely sexual person, but now i'm an extremely openly sexual person and i'm also much more comfortable and freer in that.

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:43:20 AM

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Maybe a better way to describe it might be there's more intensity in many things we do. However, nah, we aren't all that special. We all do many unintense, unsexual, common, ordinary things as well as the things that are intense/sexual.

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:45:45 AM

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I have actually been told when I worked at haunted houses that I was being too sexual... And I honestly wasnt trying to be! I'm pretty sure its just me though

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:48:50 AM

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well, you do kind of ooze sex and gorgeousness in your photos, so i can understand why they might think that. i think it's the long hair. and the black. and the general gorgeousness.

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:50:17 AM

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Thanks, really, that put a huge grin on my face...
and the only reason I look so good in those pictures is because of my cologne, its true

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 12:59:54 AM

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quote:

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Thanks, really, that put a huge grin on my face...
and the only reason I look so good in those pictures is because of my cologne, its true

ROFL

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:05:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

Thanks, really, that put a huge grin on my face...
and the only reason I look so good in those pictures is because of my cologne, its true

Hmmm... I must not have a scratch n sniff computer screen...
runs off to perv Ashers profile.

perved the profile.... likes the pic showing your belly button

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:08:36 AM

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well, you do kind of ooze sex and gorgeousness in your photos, so i can understand why they might think that. i think it's the long hair. and the black. and the general gorgeousness.

Yeah he is hot, intelligent, witty and seems to be down to earth. I'm not even going into the whole vamp thing and the erotic stories. I have an idea...let's auction him off!

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:12:54 AM

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I am not bidding... he isnt my type....

(no offence meant Asher)

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:13:44 AM

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My bellybutton is my best feature, just ask the lint...
And Laurell, I only seem witty because of the holy "edit" button :P... but if I am going to be auctioned, what are the terms?

Edit to add: Meh, cant win em all :P

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:16:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

I am not bidding... he isnt my type....

(no offence meant Asher)

Phin if you win you can give him away....like a present... Asher you have mail.

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:16:36 AM

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"Excuse me, Lint, why do you hang around in Asher's belly button? And why are you always blue?"

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:17:59 AM

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Phin if you win you can give him away....like a present... Asher you have mail.

If I give him to you do I get out of wearing the tights?

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:19:10 AM

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Can I just ask that we NOT have the words "oozing" and "sex" together in one sentence. My imagination is wild and I get visuals. They aren't nice visuals.

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:19:49 AM

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quote:

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Phin if you win you can give him away....like a present... Asher you have mail.

If I give him to you do I get out of wearing the tights?

uh...I'm not sure what I would do with him, he's a bit young for me...but no...you still have to wear tights and a tiara!

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:19:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive

A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree?

I will say that I look at many things differently now a days... or maybe just recognize some things have a correlation to bdsm and sometimes a sexual connection... such as, the tv show ncis.... the girl in the lab coat wears a collar, or the other day when I was in a furniture store I kept seeing phallic symbols everywhere!!!

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RE: A touch of sex on everything you do - 1/19/2008 1:20:33 AM

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Perks up!! Phin?? In tights?? With a nice pair on heels I hope Phin