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RE: on patronising subs - 1/21/2008 1:07:24 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Excellent. Now, it's simply a matter of how much sauce to use.

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RE: on patronising subs - 1/21/2008 1:25:22 PM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Candy from Kana

That just sounds kinky



Indeed it does!

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RE: on patronising subs - 1/21/2008 2:03:44 PM   
FRSguy


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Status: offline 		You could be getting those comments for a lot of reasons.  Being young and hot might be provoking some coments like that but it might not be all that bad.  I know that some subs say things that the rest of us might be thinking "gee nice problem to have" or a Dom may be thinking what a simple problem to solve.  In other words I guess it might be that they dont see the seriousness in the problem that you do.  If these people are people that have known you for a while they may feel obligated to comment which I know sounds stupid but if its someone you communicate regularly then it could be a situation of frustration. I remember that once I when I was under a different screen name I had the hots for ya really bad but you had a stuborn streak that I found agrivating.... LOL but in a good way I guess.

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RE: on patronising subs - 1/21/2008 2:33:27 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		softness, I don't know if I have any advice for you aside from what you've probably already been given. I just wanted to acknowledge that I can understand why you are upset by it. There is a male poster that used to frequent these forums alot, maybe he still does but I haven't seen him. Some rotund guy in a cowboy hat. He used to type shit like "little one" and doing a really disgusting cyber "patting the girls on their curls" crap.

The thing is, I saw women going all gaga for his stuff time and time again. Sooooo, men being the easily trained animals they are when it comes to the whole pussy factor.......I am thinking that somewhere along the line they thought that ALL women really dig this stuff and cannot help themselves.


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: on patronising subs - 4/23/2008 11:47:11 AM   
Subana


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Status: offline 		I have nothing to explain to someone that is talking like that to me.Intelligent people and not ignorant know that if I am submissive I am not in generally to everyone, so expecially not to them.

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RE: on patronising subs - 4/23/2008 3:43:05 PM   
Constrictor1


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From: Constrictor1
Status: offline 		softness, I instruct my girl (if in public or lifestyle setting) to respond to aggressive or condescending D typeswith a LOUD declaration that they have a really big sticky booger in their nose that they should deal with. If the behaviour happens online I simply tell her to ignore/block/delete.

Constrictor1

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RE: on patronising subs - 4/23/2008 4:09:45 PM   
Andjew


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Status: offline 		Be assertive and do not complain or whine. I'm not accusing you of either, but you're npt asserting yourself properly if you're patronized.

The key to being assertive is attack the issuem, not the individual. Reread your post and see to it that there is no confusion in what you're arguing. Make sure that a misunderstanding could not occur.

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RE: on patronising subs - 4/23/2008 4:25:15 PM   
CalifChick


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RE: on patronising subs - 4/23/2008 5:53:10 PM   
kiwisub12


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quote:


annoyingly "there are many things submissives are not cut out to do little one".






hehehehehehehehehehehehehe -

he is right you know, for instance, i am not cut out to do laundry, dishes, floors, windows, lawns, carpets, etc , etc.
I am cut out to work full time, take care of a house, finacially support two children, keep a master happy.........

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RE: on patronising subs - 4/23/2008 6:02:32 PM   
Griswold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Subana

I have nothing to explain to someone that is talking like that to me.Intelligent people and not ignorant know that if I am submissive I am not in generally to everyone, so expecially not to them.


I actually don't understand a motherfucking thing you just said....however, I'm going to be thinking about your butt for at least the next 6 weeks.

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RE: on patronising subs - 4/24/2008 8:48:09 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Ahem.... Gris?  I thought my butt was the only butt you ever thought of.  Have I been replaced??    

Cali


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RE: on patronising subs - 4/24/2008 11:07:07 AM   
mhawk


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Status: offline 		i can't really say either way but i personally see nothing wrong with the content of the pics you have.

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