Tempestspet -> RE: Poor Grammer and Spelling means what? (11/1/2005 4:14:29 PM)
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I don't have any real hangups about spelling or puncuation, until it's hard to read and understand.... then I simply pass it by, and don't worry about it in the least. I have better things to do than fight to understand it. And it's not like whatever was in the "very hard, or impossible to read" post is going to have a profound effect on my life anyways...so why let it bug me? I think that profiles should absolutely be a reflection of each person, and what and who they are looking for. If a person is not concerned about spelling and puncuation, they aren't going to spend a lot of time worrying about it. Nor are they likely to be very worried about finding a mate who has a ton of hangups about spelling and puncuation. Now someone who is absolutely neurotic about spelling and puncuation isn't ,by the opposite of my previous example, going to be looking for a mate that doesn't share their views about spelling and puncuation. What I find funny is that I have scene a bunch of threads about this same topic talked to death about something and someone they don't seek. If you go to read a profile and find as bunch of errors that just absolutely hit every pet peeev you have... why not close it, shrug your shoulders, and move on to the next one? Why do you care, since this person isn't your type anyways, and make a big deal out of it? I don't think the puncuation, spelling and all the rest says anything more or less about a person, than it says about the person that feels compelled to continually make a big deal out of it. Draw attention, and complain about it. Other than perhaps a self esteem problem. Here's the disclaimer: Any mention of "you" or any personal sounding term.... is purely coincidence. Everything written here is said and intended in generic form. If you"you" feel compelled to take any of this personally.... you may just want to reflect on that for a minute, and wonder why that might be. Tempest's pet jennifer
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