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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:08:44 PM   
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Well, as long as the important bits are real!

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:10:06 PM   
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A true and developed slave obeys and is happy to comply nomatter the command, finding satisfaction in the doing of something that she did not want to do.       


Well, thats quite an interesting statement.

Here is what I think about it.....

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

The difficulty is that the fantasy of that does not match up with the realities of daily and continious enslavement.


Edited to Add :

I would be careful about pursueing such a lofty ideal because...

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Fantasy never is close to reality longterm.      


PMS, bad moods, differences of opinion, and imperfections tend to get in the way...


< Message edited by MadRabbit -- 1/19/2008 7:19:03 PM >

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:15:54 PM   
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As I see it, some people actually have obligations in life, like work or family that take priority over following every order. Unless of course you are wealthy and can support your harem of slaves, then all is good and 24/7/365 can happen, if you hypnotize all of them into never being in a bad mood, having PMS issues or disagreeing with you.

Otherwise I see no problem for you whatsoever.


Well sure - but when the orders are structured to *include* those obligations, it's entirely possible.

To the OP - it's not *nearly* as rare as you are interpreting it to be.  I know *many* people who live like this.  They're just not always obvious from the outside.

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:20:39 PM   
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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:21:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ImpGrrl

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

As I see it, some people actually have obligations in life, like work or family that take priority over following every order. Unless of course you are wealthy and can support your harem of slaves, then all is good and 24/7/365 can happen, if you hypnotize all of them into never being in a bad mood, having PMS issues or disagreeing with you.

Otherwise I see no problem for you whatsoever.


Well sure - but when the orders are structured to *include* those obligations, it's entirely possible.

To the OP - it's not *nearly* as rare as you are interpreting it to be.  I know *many* people who live like this.  They're just not always obvious from the outside.


....waves to ImpGrrl..seeing as we are visiting the same sites tonight....

So true! Master commands that the kidlet~types are my #1 priority.


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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:23:06 PM   
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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:29:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

I am currently searching for an additional property. In my quest to find another who thinks like my kali thinks, I find many who claim they want 24/7/365. The difficulty is that the fantasy of that does not match up with the realities of daily and continious enslavement.

Many cross my path, few can live an absolute slaves life like my kali has. For many it is okay for a weekend or even longer, but in the end they go back to a part-time sometime BDSM life. They are not right or wrong about their desires, just confused in what really happens in a daily slaves life. Fantasy never is close to reality longterm. A weekend, a play date........ YES........longterm NO.   

It is one thing to think you want total enslavement. It is totally different when you actually live it. I am finding many who want BDSM when it is "good for them and works in their life". The good news is most tops/bottoms ONLY need that. I need more. 

To me total and complete ownership means you do what you are ordered to do. Most of the time you want to obey anyways. However sometimes you do not want to follow orders. It is that defining moment(s) that a true slaves heart surfaces. FEW REALLY HAVE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A true and developed slave obeys and is happy to comply nomatter the command, finding satisfaction in the doing of something that she did not want to do. Yes there some limits, but few.

Who else out there really lives a 24/7/365 total slave life or aspires for that?      


It's because of ideas like this that I would never ever label myself as a slave. 

I can see why it would be hard for a lot of people to meet such expectations.

With luck may you find what you are seeking eventually. I'm sure there is someone out there that will fit your needs and you hers *S*

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 7:57:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Elegant
....waves to ImpGrrl..seeing as we are visiting the same sites tonight....

 
Hiya!  Yes, we're both on the couch in our jammies :)


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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 9:49:34 PM   
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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 9:53:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dogobedience

Congrats, you are one of a few.


I sorta doubt it.  Full time slaves strike me as uncommon, perhaps rare in a sense.. but not like winning-the-lottery rare.

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:05:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have always wanted 24/7/365 and now i have it. It's our way of life, so he has structured it so that everything fits in and is balanced

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:06:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

I am currently searching for an additional property. In my quest to find another who thinks like my kali thinks, I find many who claim they want 24/7/365. The difficulty is that the fantasy of that does not match up with the realities of daily and continious enslavement.

Many cross my path, few can live an absolute slaves life like my kali has. For many it is okay for a weekend or even longer, but in the end they go back to a part-time sometime BDSM life. They are not right or wrong about their desires, just confused in what really happens in a daily slaves life. Fantasy never is close to reality longterm. A weekend, a play date........ YES........longterm NO.   

It is one thing to think you want total enslavement. It is totally different when you actually live it. I am finding many who want BDSM when it is "good for them and works in their life". The good news is most tops/bottoms ONLY need that. I need more. 

To me total and complete ownership means you do what you are ordered to do. Most of the time you want to obey anyways. However sometimes you do not want to follow orders. It is that defining moment(s) that a true slaves heart surfaces. FEW REALLY HAVE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A true and developed slave obeys and is happy to comply nomatter the command, finding satisfaction in the doing of something that she did not want to do. Yes there some limits, but few.

Who else out there really lives a 24/7/365 total slave life or aspires for that?      
While I do not wish to be what my definition of slave would be..I also question the 24/7/365 term to be held as the only way to actually live a D/s or M/s BDSM life...I also resent being thought of as a part time living in fantasy land, confused submissive...and resent that if you do not live the 24/7/365 life that a longterm relationship will not be possible..and then to be referred to as then simply a Top/bottom, if not in this 24/7/365 thing you have subscribed to really gets my ire going..I am happy for you and your kali..but to diminish other relationships as less than....IMO makes you appear to be a bit of a less than ,as a person..to me you are showing your own insecurities by putting down that which you yourself do not live...Tempting

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:09:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

As I see it, some people actually have obligations in life, like work or family that take priority over following every order. Unless of course you are wealthy and can support your harem of slaves, then all is good and 24/7/365 can happen, if you hypnotize all of them into never being in a bad mood, having PMS issues or disagreeing with you.

Otherwise I see no problem for you whatsoever.


LOL! sexyred1, I thought this was rather funny as I was looking at the OP's post but through my own eyes. If a slave of mine had PMS, he would have much of a problem. ;)
And I'd like to see one disagree with me when I have PMS...

To the OP.: I have a live in pet 24/7/365. He isn't a slave though, he is my submissive playmate and there is a big difference. I am looking to add a slave to the mix, as soon as it is logistically possible on my end.

LJ


One of my closest friends says that my moods have a definite cycle that is about 4 weeks long. :)

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:11:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do.  I do as I am told , when I'm told , and we both work outside the home and we both have bad days . On those days I try even harder to please  her, because my eagerness to please her makes her feel better which in turn makes me feel better

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:11:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		To Impgrrl, A a good reply!

I can see that I need to more clearly state my point. To think that I am not fully cognizant of the multitude of dynamics that occure in a relationship between 2 or more people, shows that I have not defined my meaning. That is my falut.

I stand FIRM on a slave needing to obey always however, but yes a proper environment that is conducive toward that end must exist. Otherwise yes, she is somewhat a doormat. I have no desire to own a doormat.  

My property is that, property. For some that is fantastic. For others, not there thing. Nobody is right or wrong. I seek and throughout the years have gotten girls who truly need full control over them. They are few and far between. To want to be totally enslaved in no way deminishes there ability to be what they desire to be, they want and need this also.

The BDSM world has many flavors, mine is TOTAL domination over another who desires that.  

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:12:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience


Who else out there really lives a 24/7/365 total slave life or aspires for that?      
While I do not wish to be what my definition of slave would be..I also question the 24/7/365 term to be held as the only way to actually live a D/s or M/s BDSM life...I also resent being thought of as a part time living in fantasy land, confused submissive...and resent that if you do not live the 24/7/365 life that a longterm relationship will not be possible..and then to be referred to as then simply a Top/bottom, if not in this 24/7/365 thing you have subscribed to really gets my ire going..I am happy for you and your kali..but to diminish other relationships as less than....IMO makes you appear to be a bit of a less than ,as a person..to me you are showing your own insecurities by putting down that which you yourself do not live...Tempting


Well said. I was going to say the original OP was over the top arrogant, but you did nicely.

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:23:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		greetings dogobedience,

i'm a slave. to me, that means all the time, every day, whether i'm sitting at his feet or in front of my desk typing this message or at work or whatever. having the freedom to be who i am all the time is the best feeling in the world. however, there are lots of people who aren't fulfilled by that, and that's fine with me, too.

respectfully,
annabelle.

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/19/2008 10:52:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience


Who else out there really lives a 24/7/365 total slave life or aspires for that?      
While I do not wish to be what my definition of slave would be..I also question the 24/7/365 term to be held as the only way to actually live a D/s or M/s BDSM life...I also resent being thought of as a part time living in fantasy land, confused submissive...and resent that if you do not live the 24/7/365 life that a longterm relationship will not be possible..and then to be referred to as then simply a Top/bottom, if not in this 24/7/365 thing you have subscribed to really gets my ire going..I am happy for you and your kali..but to diminish other relationships as less than....IMO makes you appear to be a bit of a less than ,as a person..to me you are showing your own insecurities by putting down that which you yourself do not live...Tempting


Well said. I was going to say the original OP was over the top arrogant, but you did nicely.
Ach!..that would of been good too..I was just in a more verbose mood..:0)..Tempting

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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/20/2008 1:39:03 AM   
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RE: Do you really want 24/7/365? - 1/20/2008 1:45:33 AM   
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I'm 24/7 ME


Now I know I'm exhausted.

(I just spent nearly a minute staring at this, like, "What's 'ME' stand for again?")

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