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Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:19:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

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ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

2) are they sane?


You should run if they say "yes".

Something from Psycology class about the craziest people being the ones who think they're sane.  :P
But then you would miss all the fun of playing with a *functional* psychotic... Where is your sense of adventure man? Classes cant teach you everything, strive for the next great adventure, strive I say... (Now where did I put the rest of that Vodka?)



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:21:00 AM)

Ah, adventerous!  That's true, as long as she's the one in the bondage and not able to drag you off into the woods, it could make life interesting.  :P



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:25:28 AM)

But Sex in the woods can be so much fun!



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:30:51 AM)

To everyone:    (Everyone that's been a bit at odds with my view, anyhow.)

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

Yup.  I'm not attracted to slutty girls, but being raped doesn't make a girl slutty.


I'm not saying that a girl who is raped is slutty.  However, I'm also not saying that a girl who is raped can't be slutty.  I'm saying that a girl who is raped isn't slutty for being raped.  I also realize that being raped causes some girls to become more slutty; I'm not saying this can't happen.  Also, I'm not saying that there's something morally wrong with being slutty.

I am saying that, personally, I'm not sexually attracted to slutty girls.  This is not an insult, but what this thread was made to be about!  So I was just providing my opinion in response to the thread.

I am sorry if I offended anyone who's been raped before due to some carelessness on my part.  I do not know how what I've said is offensive to rape victims.

And, yes, I do feel like some flames have been, at least in part, inspired by some not liking my personal sexual perferences.  However, I did think that this community was more accepting of a person's sexual preferrances than has been apparently shown here.

Also, yes, I agree that a particular number isn't the end-all factor of sluttiness, but I think it would be silly to ignore any factor, even small ones.  I would like to point out that a number is not necessarily a literal number but can be a metaphorical reference to the overall manner in which one decides who to sleep with, which is, in essense, what being slutty is to me.



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:32:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr

But Sex in the woods can be so much fun!


Part of me would make a crack about, "What if you accidently got one of you pinned down ontop of a red ant hill and a rabid squirrel attacked?!"  But I just know that, out of everyone in the BDSM community, someone would find that incredibly kinky and describe it so lustfully that it would scar me for life.  :P



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:33:41 AM)

It all depends on what part of the woods you are in (and also, if they like musicals)



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 1:37:31 AM)

For the OP I am concerned if someone is a virgin or near virgin.  At this point in my life, it's rare I want to take on the responsibility of training someone to not only be a good sexual partner for me, let alone awaken their own sexual repertoire.

I am concerned if they have more than a hundred partners because I want to know why they chose that and where their life led them to that path.

I care about the numbers in between, but don't give too much thought other than wanting to know how they developed and the main highlights.

This is all for someone I want a relationship with- if it's just a quickie, then I could care less.

As for ownership, my former owner loved that I was a whore and thoroughly encouraged me to be so, be good at it, and report to him about it,  And by whore I mean someone who actively sought and accepted money in exchange for sex.



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:02:56 AM)

I cant really cast stones here... In high school and until I got married (and divorced) I have pretty much been a slut, I love sex, and I love how different each individual person is. Though, for the record, I never cheated on my now ex-wife. :P For me, sex has always been a new experience, because it is new each time, and with each different person. I could blame it on being molested when I was younger, but honestly, I dont see a problem with safe, consentual sex, no matter how many times it happens.



laurell3 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:09:32 AM)

Just for the record Asher (and I know you aren't saying this, I just want to make sure others understand), I'm not really blaming it on my abuse, I'm saying at the time I made some really poor decisions for myself.  I've been through years of therapy, I can process why I am thinking of doing something much better (although I'm certainly not perfect at it).  I am still sexually active, I still enjoy sex, I still have casual sex under the right circumstances, I just don't do it for the same attention seeking/lack of belief in myself reasons or nearly as often.  I'm not at all criticising people that are sexually active I'm merely challenging CL's beliefs with example.




Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:14:54 AM)

Point taken Laurell... Dont worry, I got ya :P



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:16:11 AM)

I'm not sure which belief you're challenging though.  =/



laurell3 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:21:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

I'm not sure which belief you're challenging though.  =/


Then I'm doing a poor job of it aren't I? [;)]

It's ok CL, be who you are and I will too.



bbwsubnnorcal -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:21:28 AM)

Definition of a Whore: 
 
Pull out 10 "d20" dice.... Roll...
Add them all up (add +4 if you were a DD bra or higher)...
if the number is higher than that....
 
 
 
You are a whore... and a NERD for having "d20" dice in the first place!!!!!   [sm=banana.gif]
 
bbwsub (proud whore AND nerd)
 
**okay, not really a whore but it sounded good when i wrote it**[:D]

 



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:24:30 AM)

Y know, instead of using 10 D20s you could use 2 D100s or 4 D50s or... Damnit nevermind, my inner nerd is trying to escape again... back, back you beast



venusinblu -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:29:41 AM)

this question is rather like asking two thousand people, 'do you like chocolate?' .. you're going to get a different experience about chocolate from everyone. 

Personally, i feel there is no such thing as a whore, that was invented by the bible to cover women who might actually like sex .... (Heaven forbid! [8|]) ..



CuriousLord -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:30:41 AM)

Ah, but you see, if you do that, then the minimum and average both drop.  'cause instead of being from 10 to 200, it goes from either 2 or 4 to 200, respectively.  :P  So people who have had between 2 or 4 and 9 partners before are no longer in the safe zone!

The sad part is that I've never played DnD. I just found the rules online and started reading them, memorizing half the spells and abilities for fun..



Sirsinini -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 2:38:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

Recently at work we were killing time and a question came out about the number of lovers a person had before meeting them. Basically , the question involved how many sex partners can one have before you might consider them easy .

Can the same question be asked of those who consider them sub or slave? While sex is not always a desire of domination, would there be a number or a concern to anyone if their dom or sub had say 5 owners or 20 partners before you came into the picture. If there is a number, what is that number and does it matter whether your a dom or sub at all ? Many are encouraged out here to have previous experence , but is there a limit to the quanity of experiences you want the other to have before being involved ?
thank you


This is only my experience...  I have not read the thread, just the OP....
1.  a bdsm whore is one who is controlled by the dom/me, as a slave to do their bidding sexually, with whom ever they choose  (been there, done that)
2. a girl is claimed/owned by a dom who sees her as his private whore and never shared 
3.  what I read described is a "ho" .....  JMHO
 
We all read things differently ...... *shrugs

Sir's property 
 



littlebitxxx -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 3:28:36 AM)

<fr>
Slut, whore, pussy, easy, roundheels, peanut-butter knees (that one's from high school), loose, fast, hussy, banger, cougar, maneater, cockbabe...........call it whatever you want. 
I happen to call it a high and healthy sex drive.



lateralist1 -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 4:17:44 AM)

Very interesting.
Laurell 3 been there done that got the T shirt except for the therapy.
CuriousLord
How would you ever really know about someone's past history? You only know what someone is prepared to tell you and if they know you are closed minded then I doubt they would tell you or even have anything to do with you.
So you may very well have just lost any hope of finding a sub/slave on this site.
I doubt many really inexperienced women come into BDSM. I may of course be wrong.
How do any couple know if they are sexually compatable without actually haveing sex?
People have sex for very different reasons.
I think it's always a good idea to talk about the reasons before you have sex.



Asherdelampyr -> RE: Do you care if your slave is a whore? (1/20/2008 5:07:16 AM)

I just like sex.... How could I blame anyone else for sharing my interests? :P



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