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toilet training - 1/21/2008 8:47:39 AM   
subcolumbus


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Status: offline 		I have gotta ask- My Master told me this weekend to keep the toilets clean, because i will be licking and cleaning them with my tongue. I am not sure i will be able to do it. advice?
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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 8:54:17 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Advice on how to do it without getting ill?  Advice on how to tell him to shove it? 

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 8:59:54 AM   
subcolumbus


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Status: offline 		I don't think I can do it! has anyone ever run into this situatition? and what did you do?

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:01:27 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He's given you a choice between ingesting e. coli bacteria or toxic chemicals? Tell him you need a signed, notarized letter drawn up by his attorney that states he will pay for all the medical/hospital bills incurred, wages lost, and mental anguish. Oh yes, and if you lose your job due to permanent damage, that he'll cover lost wages and recurring medical care for the rest of your life.

The truth is that he doesn't know what he's asking you, he hasn't done any research at all, and he isn't prepared to accept the responsibilities that may come as a result. Tell him you've withdrawn consent and you aren't sure that you can continue to submit to someone who so obviously doesn't care about your health and safety.

He has a choice between declaring that he's an uncaring monster or an ignorant fool. His turn to deal with what he's caused.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:07:28 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		um, what is his reason for having you do this?

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:10:12 AM   
subcolumbus


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Status: offline 		I am not sure why he wants me to do this, i just feel this is going to far.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:11:01 AM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		why would you even consider obeying this ? Have either of you investigated the health issues?  I would suggest you safeword or run the other way quickly if he has so little disregard for your health and mental wellbeing

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:14:38 AM   
subantionette


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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

why would you even consider obeying this ? Have either of you investigated the health issues?  I would suggest you safeword or run the other way quickly if he has so little disregard for your health and mental wellbeing


Well said MissHarlet I would never do anything like this, and if you are with  a man who cares so little about you health and well being i would leave. Just take the things that were mine and leave, its grose and nasty not to mention highly unsafe

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:16:41 AM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		As a Dominant we have a responsibility to protect our submissives.. and that includes their health.

The other side of that is... if you develop health issues .... we cant play with broken toys.... so we have to make sure you dont "break" <smile>

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:16:57 AM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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Status: offline 		if its going too far for you(and it would be for me), just say no

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:19:18 AM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		What part of the toilet will you be licking? The rim of the seat wouldn't be a huge deal for me. The bowl would be an issue for me.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:20:39 AM   
TenchiRyokoMuyo


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Status: offline 		I'm pretty much for everything...but scat is one of those hard limits. It's unsanitary, disgusting, and frankly, who would want to stick their nose near that? Now...if it was a brand new toilet. Specifically used for BDSM play, it could be fun for watersports...but it would have to be used for nothing but that. And cleaned with orange-citrus juices, to keep it clean, and non-toxic.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:28:10 AM   
gentlemandom55


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Status: offline 		See below. Hope it helps. I am not endorsing doing this in any way - just thought this may be useful.

ABC News: Myth: Toilet Seats Are the Dirtiest Thing in the Bathroom
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Health/story?id=1213831

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:29:30 AM   
beargonewild


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subcolumbus, I would seriously question why your Master would make such a request of you? Iagree wholeheartedly on what MissHarlet stated, a Dom has a responsibility to protect their subs. At the same time we also have to have take responsibility for our own safety also. A large part of me is hoping that his request isn't going to be carried out but is just a form of a mental mindfuck.

Personally, if my owner had told me the same thing and was serious about it. I would question his motives and seriously question the fact of his actual commitment to protect and cherish his property, namely me being his sub/slave. That is when I would contemplate either asking to be released or just walking away.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:30:46 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		I don't care what the dirtiest thing in the bathroom is... I'm not licking anything there that is not human (not including waste products).

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:41:23 AM   
SassySarijane


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Status: offline 		I agree with Bear.

This would be a dealbreaker for me if it were actually expected. Too many health concerns and flags going up. He's not coming across as a Master who has a care for his property, rather only for himself, his wants, his amusements, even at the potential risk healthwise of those serving him. Not very responsible. Just my thoughts based on what's given.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:42:41 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		Granted you're not endorsing anything here, though what I keep thinking is no matter how well one cleans and sanitzes a toilet, there still is residual chemical cleaners that remains. Many are quite toxic if consumed even indirectly.

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:48:39 AM   
piercedntattooed


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Status: offline 		this would definitely be going too far for me
i would have to reconsider the relationship if He was still persistant after you express your feelings and concerns about this

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 9:55:25 AM   
Justme696


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Status: offline 		my god, and we want to be taken serious? licking the toilet   sigh   

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RE: toilet training - 1/21/2008 10:16:06 AM   
bipolarber


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Status: offline 		I'm thinking this is a mindfuck on his part... maybe he just wants you to be especially thurough on the bathroom cleaning? Anyway, I hope so.

Scat and urine and stale water from the tank, and traces of noxious cleaners... Sorry, but it would be a hard limit for me. Same reason I never got into rimming, unless I was allowed to clean my partner out via several enemas and a shower, to my satisfaction.

One of the first rules as a sub: you are ultimately responsible for your own health and well being.

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