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Submissive 24/7 - 8/30/2005 7:32:26 PM

ridergn

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Hi, I live a submissive lifestyle 24/7. My master is my husband, my husband is my master. Is there anyone that would care to chat, share esperiences

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/30/2005 7:34:45 PM

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just of topic, is that a actual living tiger? he is adorable.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/30/2005 7:39:40 PM

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Yes it is real tiger, her name is PJ and she was 18months old No not mine, belongs to some friends

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/30/2005 7:58:56 PM

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she, it is a girl then, she is truly butiful, big cats are magnificent. How large is she now? How long do tigers live by the way, they use some time to get to full sice dont they?

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/30/2005 9:29:40 PM

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Many of us on the board's like to talk and reflect on the lifestyle on a daily basis.

So, just join in.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 12:33:02 AM

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24/7 submissive. Well there, for one, is the first topic, what the hell is 24/7. At first, i thought it was when we moved in together and the D/s dynamic was ever present.
Today, and its 48hrs after having the house to ourselves with no kids, visitors around to interupt our dynamic, and its a horse of a different colour!

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 3:25:09 AM

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i am submissive, 24/7 it is in my nature, do that mean i do BDSM things 24/7 no. submission is part of me, it is not somthing i just do.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 4:50:24 AM

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It is good to hear I am not alone. The BDSM thing forms a very small part of the relationship. The being submissive is a way of life, a state of mind.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 4:51:46 AM

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the same for me, my Dom and i are lovers, and we do all sort of things together, we are not just Dom and sub, but in a way we also are Dom and sub all the time.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 4:52:42 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pandoravampire

24/7 submissive. Well there, for one, is the first topic, what the hell is 24/7. At first, i thought it was when we moved in together and the D/s dynamic was ever present.

For me, it doesn't mean that you're literally in respective Dom/sub role 24/7 but that the D/s or M/s core dynamic of our relationship is available 24/7. It's what the relationship is founded on so if my mood decrees I wanna actively dominate her in the wee hours, that's what I'll do and she'll do as she's told.... Thus, we can still be a vanilla couple for 3 days straight, for example, and still live a core 24/7 M/s relationship. Welll.... maybe not 3 whole days straight....

Focus50.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 5:18:15 AM

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It is really great to find others that are at least similar. I was begining to think that I was alone. The physical (BDSM) aspect is only a small part of what is a commitment. Don't get me wrong the physical aspect can be fun but the whole is a mindset. How do other subs (or doms) feel about punishment?

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 6:44:23 AM

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Punishment... hmm... This is going to sound like i'm bragging or something. Bear with me, i'm really not. I disappointed Him once and i don't ever want to go there again. It was before we were together 24/7 and the feeling of letting Him down was still more than i want to ever experience again. As far as physical punishment goes, i get good girl spankings, lol. He still maintains that if He spanked me for punishment i'd know the difference, but i'm in no hurry to find out.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 7:29:06 AM

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i can get physical punishment, but that is a sad thing one dont want to experience in oposite to play spakings and such that is fun and to pleese him.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 8/31/2005 11:53:07 AM

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This girl is punished by him not paying attention to her and that is one thing she has hadhappen once and it killed her. But she and her Master loves living the 24/7 life and her daughter is ok with it too. He and her like to do board games and she like to show him how well she can cook. So it to me is like having a faamily with the wild things going on when the kid isn't home.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 9/1/2005 7:23:07 PM

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Please help me understand why I want to be submissive and this turns me on so much. I'm new and very sincere in this question. Thanks, C

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 9/1/2005 9:00:32 PM

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What a beautiful house cat! Reminds me of the old joke about the burglar.......... No. Better save that for another time.

Consider yourself very lucky. It seems to be quite rare for a husband and wife to also be comfortable as Dom and Sub. Yes I know there are several of them on here, but that doesn't make it common.

Good luck!

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 9/2/2005 2:39:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

For me, it doesn't mean that you're literally in respective Dom/sub role 24/7 but that the D/s or M/s core dynamic of our relationship is available 24/7. It's what the relationship is founded on so if my mood decrees I wanna actively dominate her in the wee hours, that's what I'll do and she'll do as she's told.... Thus, we can still be a vanilla couple for 3 days straight, for example, and still live a core 24/7 M/s relationship. Welll.... maybe not 3 whole days straight....

I find it interesting that Dom's underestimate the deference shown 24 hrs a day by a submissive. Even when the Dom is in sleep mode, its on the side of the bed that used to be mine, under his favourite quilt, not my feather one, where i sleep naked even when its freezing because he said so in Dom mode once, when i dont turn the light on to read so as not to wake my Sir at night. And this is just when it not D/s??? My Sir also will say that its available, but not always present. I disagree. The very nature of D/s or M/s is that it IS available all the time.
He may not request things of me in sleep/rest mode, but im still submitting, serving drink, food, fetching stuff. Perhaps its pampering thats 24/7 then? lol

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 9/2/2005 5:24:53 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pandoravampire

ORIGINAL: Focus50

For me, it doesn't mean that you're literally in respective Dom/sub role 24/7 but that the D/s or M/s core dynamic of our relationship is available 24/7. It's what the relationship is founded on so if my mood decrees I wanna actively dominate her in the wee hours, that's what I'll do and she'll do as she's told.... Thus, we can still be a vanilla couple for 3 days straight, for example, and still live a core 24/7 M/s relationship. Welll.... maybe not 3 whole days straight....

I find it interesting that Dom's underestimate the deference shown 24 hrs a day by a submissive. Even when the Dom is in sleep mode, its on the side of the bed that used to be mine, under his favourite quilt, not my feather one, where i sleep naked even when its freezing because he said so in Dom mode once, when i dont turn the light on to read so as not to wake my Sir at night. And this is just when it not D/s??? My Sir also will say that its available, but not always present. I disagree. The very nature of D/s or M/s is that it IS available all the time.
He may not request things of me in sleep/rest mode, but im still submitting, serving drink, food, fetching stuff. Perhaps its pampering thats 24/7 then? lol

We're both saying the dynamic is *available* 24/7 yet you seem to disagree with me in the same breath....?

I'm looking out for my girl's best interests, even if she's not literally present - because it goes to the core of our M/s relationship! You don't have to actually instigate a physical D/s dynamic for the relationship to be D/s or M/s. Same as when she's following rules, guidelines or standards I set for her. It all goes to make it 24/7 because I'm always a Dom and she's always a sub, even when we're asleep. But neither of us are in Dom/sub *mode* 24/7, it'd be too draining and ultimately unfulfilling. But the rules and expectations etc are always there....

Still, I don't know I'd say she's submitting by serving a drink or fetching stuff etc because I do that sort of thing for her, too! The clash of nilla manners.... lol

Focus50.

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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 9/2/2005 10:04:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pandoravampire
I find it interesting that Dom's underestimate the deference shown 24 hrs a day by a submissive. Even when the Dom is in sleep mode, its on the side of the bed that used to be mine, under his favourite quilt, not my feather one, where i sleep naked even when its freezing because he said so in Dom mode once, when i dont turn the light on to read so as not to wake my Sir at night. And this is just when it not D/s???
He may not request things of me in sleep/rest mode, but im still submitting, serving drink, food, fetching stuff. Perhaps its pampering thats 24/7 then? lol

This is what I believe a D/s RELATIONSHIP is about. It may not have the adrenaline surges of 24/7D/s "play" but it IS D/s. There were orders given and choices made because of that dynamic, and they live on. It's a real test of dedication, not merely a short exchange session. (I kneel and serve you coffee, you pat my head) When it goes long-term, sometimes to the point of forgetting that what has become habit was once an order and compliance, that's the beauty of it. It shouldn't be taken for granted.

That being said, it's good to refresh that dynamic from time to time. Remind the Dominant of why you do certain things. Sometimes habits can be changed, stretched, or modified as a reminder of their purpose. The dynamic should never be taken for granted, even after a few years. This is why occasional protocol and certain types of address are fun. They can be subtle reminders of where you are and how you got there. Overuse is a bit much, but to bring an action to the forefront and into the verbal arena is good for relationships, and for me, the most important part of a D/s relationship, is the word "relationship."

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(Oh yeah, I've got a "tiger-on-my-lap" picture, too. Two tigers, in fact! You are a lucky girl.)
(See my profile and look at "Additional Photo #2")
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RE: Submissive 24/7 - 9/2/2005 7:11:00 PM

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Hi! I'm also collared to my husband. I love to meet new people and hear their experiences, so if you'd like, e-mail me. It would be interesting to see how you both treat the lifestyle. Thanks.

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