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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 10:23:43 PM   
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Hang in there dear and stay strong, keep on believing in yourself,
don't let the assholes damage your self esteem.

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 10:23:59 PM   
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Oh totally babe!! Phin is a cutie pie, but so far away...:)

I cannot even take advantage of the prize. Thanks for the kind words.

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 10:39:15 PM   
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no no no, we will not kill the sexy red one. I'm sorry you lost the job, and I am sorry the guys were idiots. You'll find something bigger and better while the neanderthalls just lumber along in blissfull ignorance. If you were local to me, or I you we'd go out for a manicure pedicure my treat.,

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

...but I really need one. I am talking about a group hug, a word of sympathy, a sweet whisper, a distraction, even some good advice or even some funny sarcasm and I promise I will never ask again, but this is a biggie:

Today I lost my new job that I had for 2 weeks. I was perfect for the market and this company was the most oppressive, hostile work environment I have had the displeasure of being in, plus it was a total boy's club (no offense, since I love boys, but not this neanderthal crew).


Please just kill me now since I have to start interviewing again. Just do it painlessly.


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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 10:54:14 PM   
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**Hugs sexyred** I compleatly understand dearie, and rest assured you can always ask for comfort when you need it!

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 10:54:15 PM   
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It is their loss. Take heart. This is an opportunity at something a lot better.

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 11:01:18 PM   
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sexyred,

Bigger and better things await you. So the little boys were afraid of the big, strong, dazzling woman...too bad on `em. They sound like they enjoy making huge mistakes...so let them have their fun. You just go and do your thing!

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/25/2008 11:04:45 PM   
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quote:

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Please just kill me now since I have to start interviewing again. Just do it painlessly.


Kill you painlessly? WTF? Did you forget where you posted this?

Sadists in da house! Hullo!?!




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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 12:01:01 AM   
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they sound like a bunch of idiotic losers that didnt deserve you. Their loss and your gain, it will all be ok in the end
You are way to good to associate with such morons.
Take care and a big hug from sunny NZ
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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 12:15:28 AM   
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you can ask for a hug everyday if you need it, no shame, we all have bad times.  I'm still have bad days after losing my mother last month and having her funeral on the morning of Christmas Eve. 
I;ve giving and taking hugs lately.  We all have challenges in life.  I heard the expression God doesn't give you more then you can handle and without trying to piss anyone off I say that is horse crap.  We accept the challenges in life and keep moving forward.  I don't believe God has anything to do with it (not trying to start a debate and I won't  respond to anyone that feels I have offended their religious beliefs) - I think its a basic human instinct to survive.  So have a hug.  Watch the horizon and the sun will rise bringing a new day with new opportunities and challenges. 

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 1:04:28 AM   
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Sorry to hear that.. does sound rough.

Good luck with the interview process.. hopefully the next one will work out better.

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 1:17:52 AM   
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aww i'm so sorry hun. i wish you all the luck finding a better job that knows how to appreciate their employees.
-hugs-

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 1:39:44 AM   
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Hello sexyred, now close your eyes and just imagine that someone big soft warm and.. well, er cuddly is giving you a big hug.. Don't let the experience get you down, even though the job searching especially when it comes to offices can be soul-destroying..

Look at it this way, from what I read from your OP they're losing far more out of the deal than you are. I don't know what it is about people in offices.. is it the lighting? The glass they use for the windows? Something they add to the watercooler or coffee machine? Many years ago I sold advertising over the phone in Central London on viewdata and teletext. My boss trained me to sell, I made good money, and he always said "Good sales people care about people, bad sales people care about results."

I wish you all the best, and I guess you know this and don't need me to write it, but I will anyway, that every no and every failure brings you closer and closer to a success.

Fingers crossed. for you..

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 2:41:46 AM   
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i'll gladly give you a hug. i could sure use one right now too i just happen to have the pleasure of experiencing being dropped by someone i thought was a friend. after telling them about some pretty intense stuff. *huuuuugggggsssssssssssssssss*

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 3:43:16 AM   
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the thing that has gotten me through times like youre going through right now is remembering that everything in life has always worked out just as  it was supposed to, its just not always easy to see what is meant to be when youre in a down time like you are.

i am sure there is a door somewhere that will open for you, because of this, and then it will all be all right.

good luck

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 7:21:17 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KnOcala

you can ask for a hug everyday if you need it, no shame, we all have bad times.  I'm still have bad days after losing my mother last month and having her funeral on the morning of Christmas Eve. 
I;ve giving and taking hugs lately.  We all have challenges in life.  I heard the expression God doesn't give you more then you can handle and without trying to piss anyone off I say that is horse crap.  We accept the challenges in life and keep moving forward.  I don't believe God has anything to do with it (not trying to start a debate and I won't  respond to anyone that feels I have offended their religious beliefs) - I think its a basic human instinct to survive.  So have a hug.  Watch the horizon and the sun will rise bringing a new day with new opportunities and challenges. 



No job loss could ever compare with the loss of a mother, but thank you for your kind words.

I thank everyone who posted last night and today; we joke around so much here and I want to say that you all really have helped make me a feel a bit better.

Funny how we always say how you should not let pixels on a screen affect you negatively, but when they are nice words, they really can affect you positively; at least I am taking positive thoughts from them!

Blows kisses to everyone on the thread and hugs right back!!

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 7:44:54 AM   
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Oh sureeeeee.....You just send me random kisses and hugs, like i'm nobody...*sob* *sob* *sob* i thought what we shared last night was special...but....but....but i guess i was wrong...

Not to encourage snarkyness or anything but how come Your best friend's been so quiet?

Yeah, i know....i'm going to hell......But, i figure i gotta do what i can to stay in touch with Ya'll......

*edited to add......On a serious note red, being unemployed the last 2 1/2 months has allowed me to study for this exam that i will take Tuesday (AGGGHHH SOMEONE HELP ME!!!) which i frankly would have put off a few more years if i hadn't gotten fired....And on the positive side, i'm currently applying and interviewing for jobs in His town, so we will be closer together...heh...i say fuck em, get a better higher paying job, and send them some flowers telling them thanks!!!  :P



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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 7:54:17 AM   
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quote:

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Oh sureeeeee.....You just send me random kisses and hugs, like i'm nobody...*sob* *sob* *sob* i thought what we shared last night was special...but....but....but i guess i was wrong...

Not to encourage snarkyness or anything but how come Your best friend's been so quiet?

Yeah, i know....i'm going to hell......But, i figure i gotta do what i can to stay in touch with Ya'll......




My best friend? Hmmmmm....maybe the planet she inhabits imploded in the 9th galaxy from the sun OR she finally became devirginized and is recovering in a sanitarium somewhere with no internet access?

edited to say that Kalista's new nick should be Kalinstigator07, LOL

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 8:25:26 PM   
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It is horrible to loose a job for any reason. I have gone through it twice myself. I hope you the best.

Screw the losers. their loss.

You can get a hug from me anytime.

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 8:49:18 PM   
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Tell them to "make note of it" or you'll sue them.


For?

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RE: I Think You Can Only Ask for This Once a Year on Co... - 1/26/2008 9:39:40 PM   
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So sorry this happened to you, but it may yet be the catalyst to something hugely better.  Hugs and here's to looking back on this and finding out it was the best thing in the long run. Take care and hang in there and don't forget the chocolate!

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