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BitaTruble -> RE: Hair-ed Limits... (1/26/2008 12:51:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ForcefuIHands
This is a bit of a random post but after talking to a fellow Dominant about our own choice of hair styling, an interesting subject arose. There's a bit of an unusual hard limit out there, and it deals with hair.
Let me say, I am a fan of short hair on girls. Not that I expect anything as sheared as a buzz cut, but I like to see the shoulders and neck. A good rule would be enough to get a fist full. But, in reflection, every sub has posted an objection to the idea of getting a hair cut. I find this suddenly amusing. There have been less objections to piercings, tattoos, spanking, humiliation, nasty names, and roughly every depraved thing one can imagine. The minute you suggest cutting someone's hair, welcome to a new limit. I suppose a piercing heals, but a bad haircut feels like forever?
I think they should add this to the limits lists, and in curiosity, I want to know if anyone else has stories related to their locks, or the loss thereof. So, question, girls: Would you let a Dominant choose your hairstyle?
Good thread. I didn't think it would have as much depth and substance to it as it does so I'm pleasantly surprised. :)
In the Bible, Samson's hair was associated with strength. Cut it off, lose your power. Quite often there is an assumption made that submissive equals weak, so for many, hair is going to be a sign to ourselves that we are not weak, but, in fact, possess great strength.
My other point is that even when completely nude, hair still gives you some sort of covering .. even if it's very short, it's still something. I don't think the majority are going to be all that comfortable being so nude before the world. There are, of course, exceptions and my guess would be that such a stark nakedness would be more traumatic for a female than a male because it's so unusual to see bald women. Bald women are looked at, exposed and you have nothing to hide behind when you are hairless. There's no protection left.
Now, to be that vulnerable before your own dominant is one thing, but cutting off all your hair means you are naked to the whole world and that's another kettle of fish.
Personally, if Himself wanted to shave my head, it's not an issue. In fact, it's something which I've asked for and been refused and I do have good hair. I just like being naked. ::grins::
Celeste
edited to add: Your hair covers your skull. Your skull protects your brain, the most sensitive of all our body parts. Remove the hair, and you've removed a layer of protection to the most intimate part of yourself .. your mind.
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