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kitttty -> It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 8:16:30 PM)
Master finally has told me to take my birth control pills so that he can cum in my cunt and fuck me without a condom. of course i want to please him this way, but i am loathe to take the pills. god, how i don't want to. this is pretty tough for me. i am so worried about how i will displease him by gaining weight.

MaamJay -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 8:21:04 PM)
Talk to Him about your fears of gaining weight. Is this your only issue with taking birth control pills? Have you gained weight on the pill in the past? Do you have the STD side of it sorted ie do you know it is safe for Him to do that to you unprotected? Safe for both you and He? If the STD side is OK ... talk to your Dr about the weight gain issue, with any relevant past history. There may be a more appropriate dosage or style of pill which will minimise this chance, or there are alternative contraceptive measures that could be discussed. One thing that won't help is just sweating on it! Good luck! Maam Jay aka violet[A]

kinkypuppy2 -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 8:52:37 PM)
If you are slave you do what you are told.

DominaRapport -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 8:53:33 PM)
If you're gaining weight on BP you may not be taking one best suited to your body-chemistry. I've never gained weight but tri-cyclin did cause depression, I'm currently using Yasmin and have had no problems. Speak with your doctor about making sure you're taking a pill best suited to you.

sexyred1 -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 8:59:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kinkypuppy2 If you are slave you do what you are told. Right. Even if it is unhealthy for her. yeah, ok. Love the sweeping generalizations.

robertolapiedra -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 9:37:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty Master finally has told me to take my birth control pills so that he can cum in my cunt and fuck me without a condom. of course i want to please him this way, but i am loathe to take the pills. god, how i don't want to. this is pretty tough for me. i am so worried about how i will displease him by gaining weight. Hello kitttty. That may be called a "limit"? He wants no condoms and you want no pills? There are other solutions, look them up. RL. Edit: typo

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 10:02:48 PM)
If that's your main concern and you've already eliminated the problem of disease, there's tons of other options besides the pill which are quite effective and have very different particular chemistries which might work much better for your body and lifestyle. If your master hasn't forbidden you try them, I would suggest you bring them up as options and see where that goes.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 10:16:12 PM)
Do some research not all pills nowadays cause weight gain.

AquaticSub -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 10:38:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty Master finally has told me to take my birth control pills so that he can cum in my cunt and fuck me without a condom. of course i want to please him this way, but i am loathe to take the pills. god, how i don't want to. this is pretty tough for me. i am so worried about how i will displease him by gaining weight. He ordered you to take the pills, so I assume he was responsible and did research on the side effects of said pills. Since gaining weight is a relatively common side effect, I would assume he is already aware and therefore, you would not displease him in the slightest by any weight gain due to the pills - you are only following his orders after all. If you have already taken the pills and know that you gain weight when on birth control, surely he has already talked to you about this. It would be the same as if he ordered you to large amounts of beer and got annoyed because you become intoxicated. BTW - just because I have to say it... get yourselves tested. And perhaps talk about other means of birth control. The pills aren't the only answer.

takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 11:08:08 PM)
Why are you with someone you feel will leave you if you gain weight?

HeavansKeeper -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/27/2008 11:20:17 PM)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birth_control I would suggest IUD Vasectomy Diaphram Also, I'm pretty sure there's a male "pill" As a slave owner I require absolute obedience to orders. Because she is freed from thinking, I need to be doubley responsible. Is he fully aware of all elements of his order?

schoenekitty -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 2:51:31 AM)
I can totally understand your concern, and there are other options. Maybe talk to your gynecologist about other forma of birth control and see which would be the least likely to cause weight gain. You might also want to think about the nuva ring (I know if I were on the pill I would already be pregnant because I ALWAYS forget to take them and forget to take them at the same time). The ring is awesome because you just stuff it up your vagina and forget about it for 3 weeks, pull it out, and a week later insert a new one. Also, it starts working within a week (unlike the month it takes for the pill to start working) So that would be something to consider. Unless you already have kids good luck with an IUD- most doctors won't presribe them unless you already have kids (I know mine wouldn't). However- it's worth a shot. Definately discuss your concerns with your master and your gyno and see what type of arrangement can be reached.

venusinblu -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 2:56:43 AM)
My Master is dead against my taking birth control pills because of the health implications of oral birth control; however there are other choices out there. Perhaps you should discuss your weight gain concerns with your Master and give him the chance to consider what other methods may be viable. If he doesn't know about the possible weight gain issues he may not have factored that into his decision. Educate him (gently) and see what he thinks then.

BiteGirl -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 3:37:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: schoenekitty Unless you already have kids good luck with an IUD- most doctors won't presribe them unless you already have kids (I know mine wouldn't). However- it's worth a shot. Definately discuss your concerns with your master and your gyno and see what type of arrangement can be reached. Why is that? Does it do something funny to your body chem? Also, I'd talk to him about your concerns and decide wheather I wanted to be with someone if he thought your health was insignificant when it came to his pleasure. Also, if you two have not already had it done, get tested.

lronitulstahp -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 3:51:30 AM)
quote: If you are slave you do what you are told you CAN'T be serious...even if the title of this thread is one of the biggest understatements in BDSM...you cannot be serious....if the OP was " Master wants me to knowingly catch an STD", would your answer be the same? [:@]

schoenekitty -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 4:11:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BiteGirl quote: ORIGINAL: schoenekitty Unless you already have kids good luck with an IUD- most doctors won't presribe them unless you already have kids (I know mine wouldn't). However- it's worth a shot. Definately discuss your concerns with your master and your gyno and see what type of arrangement can be reached. Why is that? Does it do something funny to your body chem? Also, I'd talk to him about your concerns and decide wheather I wanted to be with someone if he thought your health was insignificant when it came to his pleasure. Also, if you two have not already had it done, get tested. Oh I forgot to mention that they would also like you to be married or at least be in a VERY serious relationship (like a longer length of time). They want you to be married/in a serious relationship because if you get some certain STDs it could ruin your chance of EVER having kids- which is also probably why they like you to already have kids- if you already have them, not being able to may not seem like such a loss.

antipode -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 4:45:16 AM)
No reason for you to put chemicals in your body that you don't want to. I do note you state he would be unhappy if you gained weight - what about you? Tell him to be a responsible male, if he wants to fuck without a condom, he needs to get a vasectomy. Best thing I ever did.

SailingBum -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 4:53:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty Master finally has told me to take my birth control pills so that he can cum in my cunt and fuck me without a condom. of course i want to please him this way, but i am loathe to take the pills. god, how i don't want to. this is pretty tough for me. i am so worried about how i will displease him by gaining weight. I am going to assume that they have been checked for STD and they have been in the relationship for quite some time. With the millions of ppl using the pill one would have to think they could find a pill that has little or no side affects. This is no brainer for me. Hush up and do as your told. BadOne

schoenekitty -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 4:57:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: kitttty Master finally has told me to take my birth control pills so that he can cum in my cunt and fuck me without a condom. of course i want to please him this way, but i am loathe to take the pills. god, how i don't want to. this is pretty tough for me. i am so worried about how i will displease him by gaining weight. I am going to assume that they have been checked for STD and they have been in the relationship for quite some time. With the millions of ppl using the pill one would have to think they could find a pill that has little or no side affects. This is no brainer for me. Hush up and do as your told. BadOne Ha wouldn't that be great... but unfortunately most (if not all) versions of the pill have a TON of side effects (much like most medications out there). These include things like blood clots, strokes, and whatnot.... If only I hadn't thrown out the paperwork from my most recent prescription (but I'm terrified of knowing what could actually happen to me [8D])

onefatkangaroo -> RE: It's hard to obey some things. (1/28/2008 5:00:26 AM)
Well, the chemicals are really bad, perhaps you two could work out an alternative there are several other options, I like the foam spermacide its effective and kinda fun to use...[:)]

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