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Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/27/2008 9:40:46 PM

Phin

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I thought that the "Best way to get/receive a blowjob (for women)" could use a sister thread. How do you give oral sex?

**caution adult subject matter may appear below this statemen (actually I know it will)

I tease the insides of her thighs with my tongue, lips, teeth, hands. My mouth moves up to the pussy, at first concentrating on the lips, nibbling licking, eventually my tongue finds the clit where it will stay close too for quite a while. I go between licking, and biting, based on reaction. I use 1-3 fingers to massage the G-spot, depending on the person. My free hand will explore the body to find places that bring better reactions.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/27/2008 11:24:33 PM

Gwynvyd

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*fans herself*

Well I am just going to post here what I had on another thread about oral.. because of course the technique has not changed. *smiles*

I find that many people do a poor job at it because they do not truely like what they are doing and often rushing through it. Why do it at all if you do not enjoy it?

I think the line in Dangerous Beauty says it all when she is teaching her daugther to be a courtesan.

Use your fingers lightly...like feathers.
Your tongue, like licking sweets.
Your teeth, with restraint.
Just enough...to keep him wanting more. It's wanting that keeps us alive.

Most go directly for the head ( or glands) of the penis.. I leave that for very last. Licking and sucking all else for what seems to them to be an eternity. Many times looking as if I will take the whole thing in my mouth but swiftly moving my head to the side with a sly wink and an evil chuckle.. it is the wanting and waiting that undoes them as much as the skill.
The sides of the shaft are almost nearly forgoten to most.. but if you swirl your tounge down the shaft as you move your mouth sealed apon it.. it gives a great amount of pleasure. I also have learned to purr like a cat... even in mid feliacio. That usualy sends them over the brink. I find that most have one spot or two that is most sensitive.. either the rim of the glands or the opening of the urethra it's self.. You have to explore as each person is different just as women are different. I adore to tease and torment personaly... but then that is my controling Domme side. I take my pleasure in controling how they recive thiers. I do not see giving a sub oral as a submissive posture at all... at least not how I do it...

as for women..... ( isnt being bi a lovely thing?)

I adore stroking a womans thighs and hips with my hands.. and trailing my hair across her tummy and legs... kissing from the ankles up the legs to the knees.. along the thighs.. hands circling thier body stroking... parting thier legs and looking into her eyes smiling wickedly... nibling and biting gently on the thighs and hips..pressing my breasts against her warmth.
licking where the thighs join, swirling closer and closer.. missing the clit always... lapping up everything... then finaly when she is wiggling and nice and ready circling the clit and giving it the occasional flick... finger fucking her at the same time as I am licking her.. and when she is really close.. ( depending on the woman) sucking her clit into my mouth and flicking and sucking while fingering her, and holding on to her hip with the one free hand. I usualy end up climaxing when she does.. so both of us end up colasping in a tangle.

Gwyn

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 12:03:33 AM

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ok... I typed 3 responces here and everyone of them either sounded like I was calling you a slut, or just made no sence... neither of those will do.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 12:06:35 AM

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Oh for gods sake.

You both know I'm shy. Stop with the red hot talk will ya?

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 12:17:35 AM

Phin

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you aint shy. I dont want to hear it

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 12:18:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

ok... I typed 3 responces here and everyone of them either sounded like I was calling you a slut, or just made no sence... neither of those will do.

*Quirks eyebrow* so you are speachless.. Hmmm...
is that slut in a good way or bad way... and does that make me a slut and you a blonde? *chuckles and winks*

awwwwww Com'on MissMagnolia... ya know ya like it... *winks and nudges ya*

Gwyn

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 12:20:57 AM

Phin

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I would mean it in the good way but it came across real bad...

and no, I am not blonde.

if you want to know the "slutty" comment, I will tell you on the other side

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 5:19:03 AM

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If someone finds that most men do not know how to preform oral sex then I suggest that you find a different class of men and leave the young ones alone.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 6:14:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

If someone finds that most men do not know how to preform oral sex then I suggest that you find a different class of men and leave the young ones alone.

actualy I was talking about people.. be they male or female giving blowjobs to males.. in particular.. but come to think of it... a good lot of vanilla folk have the mind set of " If I lick it, and be done with it for about 5 mins or less if I can get away with it.. that counts as foreplay, and I can stick it in then"

Hence why I do not do lick-n-stick vanilla relationships... soooo unfulfilling.

and that goes for both the young bucks and the old bulls... I hear my vanilla girlfriends gush about how thier boyfriends actualy gave them 10 mins or my gods.. 30 mins of sex.. and I just smile, and get up to go get a drink so I am not rude with laughing.

Gwyn

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 6:17:48 AM

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Gwyn,
One thing you forgot, and from what I hear from many men, a lot of women forget about are the balls. They require attention as well. I always have one hand free to use for lightly tickling them. Then I will use that hand to stroke the cock while sucking and licking the balls. Most guys seem to enjoy that.

jen

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 7:06:22 AM

littlebitxxx

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

If someone finds that most men do not know how to preform oral sex then I suggest that you find a different class of men and leave the young ones alone.

Mwaaa-haaa-haaaa.....that the real twue secret reason behind these threads, big D. To give those poor schmos some ideas as to WTF to do. And the young ones, as you call them, do have their place in this world. What they lack in finesse or technique they make up for with stamina and enthusiasm. A little nudge here and there, a few words or moans in the right place and they catch on right darn quick. Everyone had to learn, even big bad old Domie types.

Lick-n-stick nillas....lol....I like that one. Them's gotta be the 30 minute ones, I'm thinking. Hell, 30 minutes isn't even long enough for re-introductions let alone anything else.

And like Gwyn on the other thread, smilin' wide and walkin' funny on a Monday morning has gotta be the best.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 7:10:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

If someone finds that most men do not know how to preform oral sex then I suggest that you find a different class of men and leave the young ones alone.

Don't put down the expertise of young men vs. older men. It has nothing to do with age.

It has to do with being inspired and the woman communicating well and the man listening. It is as simple as that, really.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 7:14:26 AM

Phin

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I am with red on this one... I learned from a bisexual girl that I dated when I was 18. Now that I think back on it, she was my first kinky experence. But she would take nothing less than perfection as far as oral went, so she made sure I knew how to do it right.

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 7:22:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Phin

I thought that the "Best way to get/receive a blowjob (for women)" could use a sister thread. How do you give oral sex?

**caution adult subject matter may appear below this statemen (actually I know it will)

I tease the insides of her thighs with my tongue, lips, teeth, hands. My mouth moves up to the pussy, at first concentrating on the lips, nibbling licking, eventually my tongue finds the clit where it will stay close too for quite a while. I go between licking, and biting, based on reaction. I use 1-3 fingers to massage the G-spot, depending on the person. My free hand will explore the body to find places that bring better reactions.

I learned by being taught by two lesbians. Who else is better to learn how to please a woman from than another woman? I'm not going to reveal the secrets or details I've learned, but the ones who've received the "Supernova" and the "Apocolypse" know what I can do.

I've been told that they've seen God and that she's pretty!

With me, just make sure you have at least a few hours free and at least an hour for recovery time because when I'm finished, you won't be having coherant thoughts, much less walking out of the room.

Fingers and teeth are a good start, but knowledge and enthusiasm are what seperate the men from the boys!

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 7:29:54 AM

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Three older southern ladies were sitting on a porch, rocking away some afternoon, and sipping their mint juleps........

The first one says placidly, 'Do you know that there are men that will put their mouths on other mens private parts?'

What do you call them? the other two asked increduously?

Homo-sex-uals, was the reply.

The second one not to be outdone chimed, 'Do you know that there are women that will put their mouths on other womens private parts?'

What do you call them? the other two asked increduously?

Les-bi-ans, she allowed.

The third one, intoned , 'Do you know that there are men that will put their mouths on other womens private parts?'

What do you call them? the other two asked increduously?

Fanning herself she said with a catch in her voice, 'Why when I catch my breath, I just call them precious'.....

Georgie Jessell

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 7:44:52 AM

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Aw, c'mon rubberpet....give! You're just mean not to share. ;)

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 8:11:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Three older southern ladies were sitting on a porch, rocking away some afternoon, and sipping their mint juleps........

The first one says placidly, 'Do you know that there are men that will put their mouths on other mens private parts?'

What do you call them? the other two asked increduously?

Homo-sex-uals, was the reply.

The second one not to be outdone chimed, 'Do you know that there are women that will put their mouths on other womens private parts?'

What do you call them? the other two asked increduously?

Les-bi-ans, she allowed.

The third one, intoned , 'Do you know that there are men that will put their mouths on other womens private parts?'

What do you call them? the other two asked increduously?

Fanning herself she said with a catch in her voice, 'Why when I catch my breath, I just call them precious'.....

Georgie Jessell

Thank you Ron.. I love that joke. My gay pal around friend told me that one a few years back...

Gwyn

< Message edited by Gwynvyd -- 1/28/2008 8:14:42 AM >

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 8:13:50 AM

Gwynvyd

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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

Gwyn,
One thing you forgot, and from what I hear from many men, a lot of women forget about are the balls. They require attention as well. I always have one hand free to use for lightly tickling them. Then I will use that hand to stroke the cock while sucking and licking the balls. Most guys seem to enjoy that.

jen

This is very true.. the balls do exist. Some men love to have them fondled, licked, sucked.. you name it..

*chuckles* I still remember a pet of mines look on his face. I do not think in his 47 years of life a woman has ever done certain things with him orally... I thought his head was going to spin off.

Gwyn

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 9:13:13 AM

rubberpet

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ORIGINAL: littlebitxxx

Aw, c'mon rubberpet....give! You're just mean not to share. ;)

Well, I guess I could give you a little info...

It involves a gallon of Crisco, a goat, a duck, two whoopie cushions, a pet rock, a rolled up newspaper, and a stick of gum! LOL

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RE: Best way to give/administer oral sex (for everybody) - 1/28/2008 10:11:37 AM

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I had to jump in and say 'I found Master's g-spot the other day" and boy, was he ever happy and was I ever proud of myself!

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