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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 2:23:38 PM

DeliberateHand

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It is SO much more intimate than a keyboard and screen. And it was a logical transition from the keyboard many years ago.

The breathing, the tone of what's being said, hearing a slap or reaction to a command. The allure is obvious over the keyboard.

Of course it can't compete with something in-person. But it can stand-in for certain training, and even shared discussions or fantasies.

Personally, I like to discuss fantasies and past. The intimacy it creates is key. The keyboard is so impersonal anymore.

I've chatted with more than one by phone that insisted they could get nothing out of it and had a very good, exposive time. *Smile*

But it will never replace the real thing.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 2:34:15 PM

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I absolutely LOVE phone sex! I had my first orgasm ever while having phone sex with a man across the country. It's the sounds he made, him telling me what to do, that totally got me off. I'm hooked on it as a matter of fact. Since I haven't had real sex in a long time, phone sex works for me.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 4:30:22 PM

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Damn! My phone has real sharp corners, hurts too much.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 5:46:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

It really fucks with the cashflow when you got them couple thousand a month long distance charges outta nowhere.

Ron

does it take that long to cum??????although i must admit multiples stretch more than my bank balance.....

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 8:11:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: batshalom

~fast reply~

I have a love/hate relationship with phone sex. I am terrible at it unless I can get into my own out-there headspace, completely let go, and stop feeling like a dork. When I am guided and I hit that space, whoa. All I can hear is his voice on the other end of the phone, and all I can do is move on automatic pilot, doing things to myself that he tells me to do, focused completely on what he tells me to do (and responding, although don't ask me what I say back - have no idea).

I've "come to" on my knees in the floor, in the tub, on my back porch, in a number of places I only have the vaguest recollections getting to. There is nothing like hearing a breathless and satisfied "good girl" or "you are such a fucking slut - I love it" afterward. No reward could be greater (for me) in that instance.

Initiating phone sex or participating without being in that headspace ... ack. It's like shoving a camel in a tutu and telling it to dance Swan Lake.

I'm in total agreement. Listening to his voice as he demands my compliance is a heady turn on for me, and I end up doing things without even thinking. A good imagination goes a long way for it, and of course being in the mood mentally and physically helps as well. It's not ideal, and if you're not so good in the imagination/creativity department I could understand opting out, but it's nothing to mock or frown upon. There are often situations in life where the closest connection to that person is the phone. And I'll take listening to that hot, sexy "do it" voice any day over just getting virtual bits of ones and zeros turn into readable data (not that I don't like receiving erotic emails

).

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/28/2008 9:50:49 PM

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Absolutely nothing for me...

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 8:07:34 AM

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... the problem is finding compatible, like-minded people ...

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 8:39:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

It really fucks with the cashflow when you got them couple thousand a month long distance charges outta nowhere.

Digital phone service.

Call me if you want to try it out.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 8:41:27 AM

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aboslutely nothing, infact.....i've almost always faked whatever was going on....I hate phone sex

~meticulous~

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 8:55:25 AM

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Actually, my initial BDSM experiences occurred during phone sex. I hadn't even fantasized much about it before then, although I knew quite a bit about it. It did serve as a good introduction, and it can be a lot of fun, but vanilla or not, the real thing is still way more satisfying.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 8:55:27 AM

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Like everyone else, if you are involved with someone, it makes a big difference than someone you just met wanting to wank off.

I can give good phone sex, but very few men can give ME good phone sex; I believe maybe one or two in my life (and ironically those two were not relationships of mine) were able to make it so hot that it worked for me.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 10:38:34 AM

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I don’t find it that exciting. I know everyone says the brain is what makes sex good and all, but I need something physical and warm. If the brain is going to be my sexual stimulator, it better let me lay my cock in the corpus callosum between the hemispheres.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 10:59:47 AM

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I have a thing for American accents, but especially for someone that has a pronounced lisp. I'm not sure why it turns me on, it just does. I once knew an American pharmacist I affectionately called 'daffy', for obvious reasons. He'd be at work in his own lab and he'd call me during a break. On one occasion his assistant had gone out for lunch and it was just him in the lab. He had a new double-doored steel cabinet delivered some days beforehand and I asked if they'd done anything with it... he replied that they hadn't time and it was still empty. It wasn't for long. I had him take his phone into the cabinet and close the doors while I got him to talk nasty to me with that gorgeous daffy lisp. Having informed me he'd made a mess he asked if he could go clean himself up and return to clean up the cupboard. The only problem was that he now couldn't get out of the cupboard and had to wait for his assistant's return before he could get out. Mixing business with pleasure is rarely a good idea and whenever I hear a man with a lisp I'm instantly reminded of that day and my fondness for Daffy.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 11:51:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: meticulousgirl

aboslutely nothing, infact.....i've almost always faked whatever was going on....I hate phone sex

~meticulous~

ROFL@seeing your sig - I'm sure you and Hillary agree...

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 5:46:50 PM

SirJohnMandevill

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ORIGINAL: TenchiRyokoMuyo

I've never been interested at all in phone sex. I've never really understood the point of it. No, I'm not talking about 900 numbers. I'm talking about with someone who's not getting paid. Such as a submissive/lover/partner, whatever you wish to call it.

What does it do for you (If anything), and why?

I think it depends on the circumstances. I don't deliberately call a sub solely to have phone sex, but I've had quite a few conversations where we both just started getting turned on and let it flow from there, culminating in mutual orgasms. You can't force it; it just happens. I also happen to be a sucker for a sultry, sensual female voice, so that may have something to do with it!

Les (who sometimes engages in aural sex)

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 6:14:42 PM

creatrix

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I TOTALLY love phone sex... it's been a long time though... I agree with the others here about the stimulation from hearing his sexy voice telling you what to do, what not to do... toys involved, everything...I have had some very awesome "sessions" with a couple different friends of mine... each of them though, I did have a knowing relationship with them where we did have skin to skin sex but when I was on the road working a lot a few years back... yeah... that was awesome...
My first time experience with phone sex: I thought is was very silly until my "friend" on the other end suggested I blindfold myself to get a better effect... and ever since that I just close my eyes and it feels like that... blindfolded and hearing the commanding voice... ya'meen?

I love text messages filled with 150 characters of explicit turn-ons too... I am a very imaginative person and love the stimulation of the brain... i love to be blindfolded and be told to masturbate... how to do it etc... that is a fantastic turn on for me... Commands from the other room are great too... blindfolded and legs strapped to a bed... Mmmm I am getting carried away now... LOL... I love being so dang kinky!

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 6:17:38 PM

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Not a thing... i hate it... the same with cyber... just too much work...

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 7:03:08 PM

txbound

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

All depends upon who when it comes to phone sex.

So very true. Some people can do it right... others... yeah...

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/29/2008 7:22:02 PM

kallisto

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I, like others are very imaginative. I also have thing for voices. Listening to that person's voice tell me things meant for only me is something to be reckoned with. I think when there are other senses being used beside sight, you have to be totally into it. Of course phone or cyber or texting will never take the place of in person sex, but at times, when there is no other way, they can be a good substitute.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/30/2008 6:24:57 AM

DS4DUMMIES

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I intend to cash in on this...I've invented a phone handset in the shape of a dildo, that vibrates...for women...and one in the shape of a pussy for men. America was built on innovation...and dammit....we're going to make it so!!!!!

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