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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/30/2008 7:10:32 AM

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I'm a very imaginative and a visual person because I draw/paint, so phone sex or just having my Daddy type out what he wants to do to me turns me on. But even better is Skype. I get to see him and hear him at once. :D

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 6:43:38 PM

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I've never been interested at all in phone sex. I've never really understood the point of it. No, I'm not talking about 900 numbers. I'm talking about with someone who's not getting paid. Such as a submissive/lover/partner, whatever you wish to call it.

What does it do for you (If anything), and why?

Now here is a question that I can actually speak fluidly about! Thank you for posting it. Here is our story.

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Master is my soul mate as I am his. We have a very deep and meaningful connection and have not shared this depth of love with another. We are currently seperated by 1100 miles, and have only a few days every month or so to physically be together.

I am a very words oriented individual, you can literally fill me, or kill me with your words. Being that we are so far from each other, our time is mostly spent otp. We share our excitement, our worries, our disappointments, our joys, and yes our orgasms on the phone. Although it is not ideal, it is necessary to fulfil a need that we both have.

So.. my view on phone sex right now is it is WONDERFUL! Keep it cumming my FB!

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 7:13:19 PM

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Hmmmm...when his voice gets that deep tone, unexpectedly, when talking about everyday things...I get goosebumps and instantly distracted and moist in the nether regions...there are times I have to ask him to quit the deep voice because I can't concentrate on the conversation...just his tone. I so enjoy my one-sided surprise phone sex moments!

In general, when the goal is phone sex, it's either hot as hell....or I'm a giggling fool...either way it's enjoyable! ;)

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 7:18:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: TenchiRyokoMuyo

I've never been interested at all in phone sex. I've never really understood the point of it. No, I'm not talking about 900 numbers. I'm talking about with someone who's not getting paid. Such as a submissive/lover/partner, whatever you wish to call it.

What does it do for you (If anything), and why?

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 7:22:19 PM

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I intend to cash in on this...I've invented a phone handset in the shape of a dildo, that vibrates...for women...and one in the shape of a pussy for men. America was built on innovation...and dammit....we're going to make it so!!!!!

http://www.wired.com/techbiz/media/news/2003/04/58442

there is another site that I can't find right now, that has some kind of text message controlled vibrator..;)

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 9:42:53 PM

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Phone sex makes me very nervous. It seems weird, but I had a bad experience once when I was younger. I went to one of those stupid adult chatrooms where people just cruise for random cyber/phone sex with strangers, and I took the plunge and let someone call me. The whole thing just left me feeling incredibly creeped out. I really do like the concept however, as I am a very words/voice oriented person. I'd definitely be willing to give it a try with the right person.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 9:47:19 PM

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Who wants to fuck a phone in the first place?

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 10:07:24 PM

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Phone sex with someone who turns you on, can be a reasonable second best to having that person beside you. It is no substitute for skin to skin. When skin to skin is not there ... it can work. For me, in this fantasy phone land, i've explored well outside my boundaries in my head. This mental breaking of the personal taboos, has overtime lead to the willingness to explore in the real, skin to skin world. I would never have done it before the end of my marriage, but then i'd never had an orgasm before the end of my marriage. I don't like curries either, but undertand others do. It's a taste you have or not, some aqcuire it. some move on from it and some return to it from time to time. When i'm ovulating (would mount/serve any male living) it's safe, occurs in your own home, ... there's no snoring to deal with and you get to keep the bed clothes. never can replace skin to skin

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many have told me they dont understand why i don't like curries. don't try to understand how my palate works - i've given up - phone sex, takes a willingness, a little openmindedness, imagination, but sometimes it just wont' happen for some people. Like curries.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 1/31/2008 11:45:13 PM

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If done with a sensual person that has a sexy voice and creativity, it can take you over the edge.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 12:06:04 AM

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Nah, it makes me laugh and I can't possibly take it seriously.

And I don't like curry either.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 5:50:22 AM

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not into phone sex at all--not even with a trusted partner---I know what works face to face/ or belly to belly {wink} but putting all that into words while trying to stay excited....naaa, not for me

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 5:59:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: TenchiRyokoMuyo

I've never been interested at all in phone sex. I've never really understood the point of it. No, I'm not talking about 900 numbers. I'm talking about with someone who's not getting paid. Such as a submissive/lover/partner, whatever you wish to call it.

What does it do for you (If anything), and why?

I imagine there's an art to it. Funny, if you cannot imagine it on a non professional level, imagine how bad it must be on one of those 900 numbers.

See also:

>I happened to see this movie in a multiplex with my Irish Catholic grandmother in Ames, Iowa. During the scene in question, which was gauzily filmed in hues of golden candlelight, I shifted uncomfortably and tried not to look to my left. I could see that Grandma was turning to look at me, and back to the movie again. "Is that what you young people do nowadays?" she finally asked in a loud whisper. "I have never heard of such a thing."

Ha, if you only knew. Like the movie itself, that phone sex scene was cheesy and predictable. But it also pissed me off, because as I sat there watching it, I was filled with a sinking feeling. "My God, it's really come to this," I thought. "Phone sex has become such an accepted part of our mating dance that Hollywood feels it can represent it as a standard feature of courtship."

There's an argument that phone sex takes a certain amount of creative imagination, a willing suspension of disbelief, and can ultimately be a turn-on in and of itself. For those verbally inclined, it can be challenging to see if you can express yourself without having to rely on the same old dirty talk stories again and again. Finally, it's disease-free, 100% effective in birth control, and cheap ... if it's a local call, that is. The male character's thoughts presumably ran something along the lines of "OK, I can't have Uma's curves in person, but I can jack off to her deep, sexy voice." (We don't know what Janeane was thinkingtypically, Hollywood presented her fantasy as inaccessible.)

But really, how much of a turn-on is it to talk into a hard piece of plastic while listening to some disembodied voice? Phone sex takes the place of real intimacy."<

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 6:06:55 AM

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What does it do for you (If anything), and why?

It only works with Val on the line.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 6:55:14 AM

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Im extremely aural (heh) and the sound of his voice does it for me, very quickly, so I love it. but I love to use google talk, apart from voice talk they also have voicemail, its cheaper, actually the sound quality is great too oh and as a bonus, its free, ...just love those whimpers and mooans . It wont ever replace skin on skin, lips to ear but it has kept me from goin crazy, and made me crazy many times.
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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 7:02:56 AM

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Calling a 900 # may in fact turn some one on because they are anonymous or have to pay. Itimacy issues abound with that scenario, or lack of intimacy. Calling a special friend of loved one to share an orgasm sure beats cheating on them. The other person may only listen...........

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 10:45:49 AM

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The "ONLY" time I ever somewhat enjoyed it was several years ago when I was on an out-of-town job for two weeks and was able to connect with my then-current subbie-slutgirl via phone... and yes, a few times some honestly HOT phone-sex crept into our conversations... that was nice, at the time.

As a general rule however, for the majority of my life I have never really cared much for it. Emailing nasty stories back and forth, (sometimes with pictures or links to vids included) or of course the REAL DEAL are both light years "a head" (pun intended) of the phone sex thing... I don't even want to try it with someone I've never played with, let alone not met in real life.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 10:56:58 AM

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It really fucks with the cashflow when you got them couple thousand a month long distance charges outta nowhere.

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You can get anytime, anywhere, long distance plans lol

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 11:41:06 AM

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Nothing, but it's great for 400 pound bitches with sexy voices.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 11:54:47 AM

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Tench,

it is mearly a step in the progression of getting to r/t.

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RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? - 2/1/2008 1:10:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: TenchiRyokoMuyo

I've never been interested at all in phone sex. I've never really understood the point of it. No, I'm not talking about 900 numbers. I'm talking about with someone who's not getting paid. Such as a submissive/lover/partner, whatever you wish to call it.

What does it do for you (If anything), and why?

Nothing!

I need to feel Mistress's body, I need to feel Her touch and Her kiss, and I need to smell Her perfume.

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