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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.

At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

No, MadRabbitt we are not ALL insane, some of us know that we live on a planet inhabited by other people.

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little?

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

No, MadRabbitt we are not ALL insane, some of us know that we live on a planet inhabited by other people.

Actually, I tend to agree with your viewpoints.

But come on guys...

They were decent questions, not lame ones. It was a good subject for discussion....

Every good topic that can be host to a wide range of different opinions doesn't have to decend into chaos....

Bobgkin isn't around anymore...

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

do you miss him and his O o??

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

do you miss him and his O o??

You always have to appreciate a man who can make you laugh.

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.

At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 

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You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 

Careful, Michael. It's a full moon out tonight.

You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

~ FR ~

let's all take a collective deep breath and let it out slowly..

find your happy place...

and stay the hell there!!!  [sm=paddle.gif]

(feels like dealing with Thing 1 and Thing 2 around these parts some days...  whew)

You are so cute, I could just pinch you!

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

~ FR ~

let's all take a collective deep breath and let it out slowly..

find your happy place...

and stay the hell there!!!  [sm=paddle.gif]

(feels like dealing with Thing 1 and Thing 2 around these parts some days...  whew)

You are so cute, I could just pinch you!

go ahead then...  [;)]

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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ORIGINAL: liketophoto

I'm not into scat.

Then I would certainly watch out for the poo slinging' pup running around here <s>
Welcome to the fight-fest. Take a seat, the fight will resume soon [;)]

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

~ FR ~

let's all take a collective deep breath and let it out slowly..

find your happy place...

and stay the hell there!!!  [sm=paddle.gif]

(feels like dealing with Thing 1 and Thing 2 around these parts some days...  whew)

You are so cute, I could just pinch you!

go ahead then...  [;)]

I meant bite, but I did not want to be too forward. [;)]

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 

Careful, Michael. It's a full moon out tonight.

You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

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ORIGINAL: Rover

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ORIGINAL: subtee

To continue in generalities, there is never enough given to a Dom? There is never enough service for a sub? Where is the futility? Not worth the effort then?

Curious...

This is why I don't think in terms of "giving" or "investing" in a relationship.  That invites quantification, comparison, and discontent.
 
The futility exists in the fact that it's impossible for anyone to give their "all" to any one thing, including their partner and relationship.  None of us is so one dimensional that one person gets "everything" at the expense of family, friends, work, ourselves, etc. 
 
Better that I should share what I have; the good, the bad, my family, my friends, my job, myself, etc.  My partner (or potential partner) can be satisfied with that or not.  But either way, I have nothing more to offer.
 
John

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ORIGINAL: christine1
hey!  what the hell is wrong with scant amazon outfits and dragging men off for mating?  geez, can't have fun anywhere...

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.

At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Any dominant who expects every waking moment of every day to be devoted to them has some serious ego problems.

Living every day devoted to him doesn't mean not having a life.  For me it means all that I do is in his honor.