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juliaoceania -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:02:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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Make up your mind, julia. You either find my posts amusing or hostile. You cannot have it both ways.


Um...Amusingly Hostile? <eg>


Laughing at that!




ravennfyre -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:02:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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Finally, a voice of sanity and reason in a sea of overblown romanticism. I don't know what is going on tonight; there are multiple threads that are making me gag.

These questions are not even answerable. All they are is fodder for waxing rhapsodically about how nothing is enough for my Master..I will give until my bones are utter dust...etc. etc.

Maybe its a full moon?

edited to say no offense to you MoGa, it is the preponderance of annoying threads tonight.


I wonder why you are so hostile toward people who have romantic and tender feelings for their significant other. It is just bizzare. So people do not have the feelings about their relationship as you think they should, if that is all it takes to make you ill in this world, you must be nauseous most of the time.

I put zero emotional attachment into how others feel about their relationships, nor how they describe them.. it just doesn't matter to me because I am busy with my own love life I guess



Actually, I am perfectly healthy and not nauseous most of the time, because aside from the few people who bizarrely need to proclaim to others (perhaps to convince themselves) how great their relationships are, I hang out around with happily married, happily coupled friends who never act so obnoxious.

And julia? Your incessant use of the term "hostile" to describe anything I say that disagrees with your holier than thou posts is getting a bit tired.

If you can post syrupy crap, I can post that it makes me sick. Deal?


I had to laugh when I read this part simply because anytime, and I really mean ANYTIME I say something good about a relationship I'm in, the shit will inevitably hit the fan....I don't know what it is about that, but I've learned to just keep my happiness to myself...;)

oh... and  BTW, pretty photo, sexyred...




juliaoceania -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:04:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Why would I snark on you in email? It is a public forum, not private. I have more interesting discussions in private emails.


Just didn't want you to feel you should have to monitor yourself from addressing my vapidness privately where you will not be moderated for it...since that seems to concern you.




SimplyMichael -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:04:41 PM)

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.




pupofMoGa -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:06:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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I believe that you need to go get some therapy


Wow, someone sure struck a nerve.



KatyLied,
When you take a single sentence out of context, then yes it looks as though a nerve was struck. Did you read the rest of what he wrote? Or for that matter, what was written for him to feel defensive of me? Not that I can't hold my own, but it is nice to know he cares enough to come to my defense.


KatyLied,
If you are to coment on my posts, at least take the time to READ the WHOLE thread before saying anything so you dont have to go back and trip over your own feet. By taking my single sentance, it can be easily taken out of context as Mistress mentioned.  And please read what i am responding to also before passing judgement on what i have posted. Because if you do not know the WHOLE story, you will NEVER be able to understand my postings until you look at the situation as a whole.

<drags KatyLied's post outside and burys it with the rest of my bones>




juliaoceania -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:07:52 PM)

Actually sexyred's post wasn't aimed at me and I never thought it was... so as for my thin skin... perhaps I do have it, but not in this case.




MistressOfGa -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:10:05 PM)

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(I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all)


<Spits coffee on monitor> LMAO! Oh how I love being a Dominant. I can never ever be wrong [:D]
Thanks Michael for lightening up the thread <s>




SimplyMichael -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:10:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Actually sexyred's post wasn't aimed at me and I never thought it was... so as for my thin skin... perhaps I do have it, but not in this case.


Uh, okay....




juliaoceania -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:13:15 PM)

As cm turns[:D]

It really isn't a big deal.




Daddysredhead -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:13:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little?


Ron once answered this question to a new girl on the block with "Let the Dom snuff you, little girl.  I realize it's a one shot deal, but pretty damn convincing to me."  [:D]

I love Ron...




catize -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:14:42 PM)

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 AND loses three hours in the process 

Is that where your idea of time dropping started?
( Please take this in thelight-hearted manner I intended!)




sexyred1 -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:14:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.


Thank you SimplyMichael, that is what I meant and julia takes offense but does not own up to it, prefering to say she is "amused" which we all know, she is not.

I am tired of people thinking I am hostile, when I am honest in my expressions. And, to ward off anyone who is thinking, oh she must be jealous or some such crap, no, in fact I am not.

I have had my share of relationships, until very recently and I am sure I will again. And I am very happy for anyone who has found their special counterpart in this life. I am the first person to wish anyone congratulations when they find someone. I am the first person to bask in my friend's happiness. They are not annoying about it or exclusionary.

But you are right, it is not love that I am annoyed by, I love love, it is the one-overblown hyperbole that runs rampant here that always, always ends up in one-upmanship. That I detest.

.




MistressOfGa -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:15:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little?


Ron once answered this question to a new girl on the block with "Let the Dom snuff you, little girl.  I realize it's a one shot deal, but pretty damn convincing to me."  [:D]

I love Ron...


Ok, I'm from the south, what does "snuff you" mean? Or is it a typo...did you mean to write "Sniff you?" lol! I like Ron too <s>




Daddysredhead -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:18:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little?


Ron once answered this question to a new girl on the block with "Let the Dom snuff you, little girl.  I realize it's a one shot deal, but pretty damn convincing to me."  [:D]

I love Ron...


Ok, I'm from the south, what does "snuff you" mean? Or is it a typo...did you mean to write "Sniff you?" lol! I like Ron too <s>


Hi, MoGa!  Been a while, sweet lady.  =)

No, I meant "snuff" like to snuff out a candle - like the mafia "snuffs" their rivals.  (does them in, kills them, etc)

Typical Ron...  bless his wicked little mind.  [8D]




sexyred1 -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:18:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Actually sexyred's post wasn't aimed at me and I never thought it was... so as for my thin skin... perhaps I do have it, but not in this case.


A. How do you know it was not aimed at you? You were one of the posters on the thread. My reply was in reply to someone else, but the sentiment was globalized.

B. If you never thought my post was aimed at you, why did you take such offense and go postal?





subtee -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:21:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.


At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."




MistressOfGa -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:21:11 PM)

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I had to laugh when I read this part simply because anytime, and I really mean ANYTIME I say something good about a relationship I'm in, the shit will inevitably hit the fan....I don't know what it is about that, but I've learned to just keep my happiness to myself...;)


Ravennfyre,
Don't ever hide your happiness here for fear of the poo slinging. I wrote a book once, in another life..called Stains On The Wall, which I penned under the name of Hoo Flung Poo. That is how I see everything here, one person's stain is another person's happiness :)




sexyred1 -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:21:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ravennfyre

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

[I had to laugh when I read this part simply because anytime, and I really mean ANYTIME I say something good about a relationship I'm in, the shit will inevitably hit the fan....I don't know what it is about that, but I've learned to just keep my happiness to myself...;)

oh... and  BTW, pretty photo, sexyred...



Thanks for the photo comment and I hope after you read my final posts later, you will see that I am indeed happy for anyone who finds happiness in this world. There are so many couples on CM for example, long time couples who are blissfully happy. I adore them. They share their happiness but it is the way they do it, never about one-upmanship, never exclusionary and never not grounded in reality.

That was my point, so you never have to keep your happiness to yourself, please do not feel that way.




MistressOfGa -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:23:03 PM)

Hi, MoGa!  Been a while, sweet lady.  =)

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No, I meant "snuff" like to snuff out a candle - like the mafia "snuffs" their rivals.  (does them in, kills them, etc)

Typical Ron...  bless his wicked little mind.  [8D]


LOL! Boy do I feel stupid! <s> Hi ya DRH! Yep long time no see, good to be back :) Thanks for the explain...lol! I like sniff better lolol




ravennfyre -> RE: How Far... (1/28/2008 8:24:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

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I had to laugh when I read this part simply because anytime, and I really mean ANYTIME I say something good about a relationship I'm in, the shit will inevitably hit the fan....I don't know what it is about that, but I've learned to just keep my happiness to myself...;)


Ravennfyre,
Don't ever hide your happiness here for fear of the poo slinging. I wrote a book once, in another life..called Stains On The Wall, which I penned under the name of Hoo Flung Poo. That is how I see everything here, one person's stain is another person's happiness :)


lol... I don't mean that I keep my happiness to myself HERE... I keep it to myself EVERYWHERE...;)




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