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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:52:14 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.


At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."



Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:52:32 PM   
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No, MadRabbitt we are not ALL insane, some of us know that we live on a planet inhabited by other people.


Actually, I tend to agree with your viewpoints.

But come on guys...

They were decent questions, not lame ones. It was a good subject for discussion....

Every good topic that can be host to a wide range of different opinions doesn't have to decend into chaos....

Bobgkin isn't around anymore...





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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:53:10 PM   
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..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little?


Interesting set of questions.

When I take something off of SJ's plate so he doesn't have to worry about it, so he is free to pay attention to more pressing issues, he is at his most appreciative.  It means more to him when I think of ways to help rather than wait to be told to do x,y or z. 

Only SJ can define what is too much and what is too little.  On occasion, I have offered help which he has declined.  On a couple of occasions, he made the decision that it would take away from my other obligations for me to actually do the service I had offered.  That's his call and his alone.  It is paramount in our dynamic for me to have his permission before undertaking any service.

By paying attention to what is going on in his life and how he is being affected, I can then make educated suggestions of how I might be able to help. My focus is on him and his needs.  I don't think there could be too many miles or too much time spent showing him I care.  He reads it every time he looks into my eyes.

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:54:13 PM   
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No, MadRabbitt we are not ALL insane, some of us know that we live on a planet inhabited by other people.


Actually, I tend to agree with your viewpoints.

But come on guys...

They were decent questions, not lame ones. It was a good subject for discussion....

Every good topic that can be host to a wide range of different opinions doesn't have to decend into chaos....

Bobgkin isn't around anymore...






do you miss him and his O o??

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:54:25 PM   
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Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 


Careful, Michael. It's a full moon out tonight.

You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:55:41 PM   
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do you miss him and his O o??


You always have to appreciate a man who can make you laugh.

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:56:42 PM   
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do you miss him and his O o??


You always have to appreciate a man who can make you laugh.


I do. That is the sexiest thing, brains and humor. Lethal combo. (not him, but you know what I mean, LOL)

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:57:20 PM   
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Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.


At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."



Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 


um...actually, I just finished my fucking rag....;)

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:57:28 PM   
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You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.


Is this a secret submissive fantasy that you are having? It sounds like one of the  reoccuring  fantasies I used to have... but it got old and I switched to being hogtied while my Daddy made me watch Jerry Springer telling me over and over again that he is going to make me be a guest... elements of humiliation, but tasteful nonetheless...


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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:57:46 PM   
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Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 


Careful, Michael. It's a full moon out tonight.

You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.


Rabbit,  I have a rather long history of taming Amazons and Dommes as I demonstrated the other day to a stunned audience...

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:58:02 PM   
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~ FR ~

let's all take a collective deep breath and let it out slowly..

find your happy place...

and stay the hell there!!! 

(feels like dealing with Thing 1 and Thing 2 around these parts some days...  whew)


You are so cute, I could just pinch you!


go ahead then... 

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:59:16 PM   
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~ FR ~

let's all take a collective deep breath and let it out slowly..

find your happy place...

and stay the hell there!!! 

(feels like dealing with Thing 1 and Thing 2 around these parts some days...  whew)


You are so cute, I could just pinch you!


go ahead then... 


I meant bite, but I did not want to be too forward.

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:59:23 PM   
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Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 


Just for the record, I am not. 

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 8:59:57 PM   
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I'm not into scat.

Then I would certainly watch out for the poo slinging' pup running around here <s>
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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 9:00:50 PM   
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~ FR ~

let's all take a collective deep breath and let it out slowly..

find your happy place...

and stay the hell there!!! 

(feels like dealing with Thing 1 and Thing 2 around these parts some days...  whew)


You are so cute, I could just pinch you!


go ahead then... 


I meant bite, but I did not want to be too forward.


What's too forward among redheads?    

Yeah, I couldn't think of anything either.  (wicked giggles)

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 9:04:06 PM   
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Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 


Careful, Michael. It's a full moon out tonight.

You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.


hey!  what the hell is wrong with scant amazon outfits and dragging men off for mating?  geez, can't have fun anywhere...

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 9:04:36 PM   
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To continue in generalities, there is never enough given to a Dom? There is never enough service for a sub? Where is the futility? Not worth the effort then?

Curious...



This is why I don't think in terms of "giving" or "investing" in a relationship.  That invites quantification, comparison, and discontent.
 
The futility exists in the fact that it's impossible for anyone to give their "all" to any one thing, including their partner and relationship.  None of us is so one dimensional that one person gets "everything" at the expense of family, friends, work, ourselves, etc. 
 
Better that I should share what I have; the good, the bad, my family, my friends, my job, myself, etc.  My partner (or potential partner) can be satisfied with that or not.  But either way, I have nothing more to offer.
 
John


Still reading this thread, but as usual Rover expresses how
I feel on this issue.
 
You share what I have: the good, the bad, and the ugly.
I have nothing else to offer and I am too old to have to dance around or knock
myself out to gain someone else's affections/or to KEEP them.

There are many submissives's who can drain you dry with their neediness!

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 9:11:10 PM   
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hey!  what the hell is wrong with scant amazon outfits and dragging men off for mating?  geez, can't have fun anywhere...


Heheheh......indeed!

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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 9:14:08 PM   
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Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.


At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."



Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 


Are we on the rag?  Is that seriously how you address a woman's thoughts that don't jive with yours? All I'm saying is that you have taken pains to express how happy the two of you are even when it isn't a propros...might be considered that romantic hyperbole, which is fine except when you want to label others' "full of shit."


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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 9:15:02 PM   
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Any dominant who expects every waking moment of every day to be devoted to them has some serious ego problems.


Living every day devoted to him doesn't mean not having a life.  For me it means all that I do is in his honor.  

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