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RE: How Far... - 1/28/2008 11:56:24 PM

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7 - 9 months for both of us (apart), $4,500+ on my part (so far), $10,000 (approx. to be earned and used) on her part, 8,500mi/13,679km; the Pacific Ocean and most of the US geography, several depressed stalkers left to their own devices, and I'm sure there'll be much more in the future

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RE: How Far... - 1/29/2008 4:57:34 AM

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Walks in with coffee cup and looks at the carnage...

Affairs of the human heart and spirit are, have always been and will always be--in a word volatile. Walk out of your house and look at your neighbors and you will see the same varing degrees of commitment as we have seen mentioned here---nothing changes when one has the "labels" changed to Dominant or submissive---at the end of the day it centers around commitment---and devotion to mate in one situation looks like abuse or lack of will to someone on the outside and conversely, lack of may appear as coldness.

I appear bitter about all I gave in My last gathering, I am, yet that is My issue, I am not here to rain on any parades, nor do I expect sympathy or empathy---it is what it is----yet the joy from others gives Me peripheral hope---though as I personally stated, there just are certain key foundations I will not compromise--I won't do so for sub, love, politics, or money---but that is Me.

Commitment in a relationship does not fit into a cut and dried cube----and yet we as humans try to make it so, try to define a uniform definition---much like art, one persons "trash" is another's "treasure"---there have been some great responses here, and some cute comments--however, we have demonstrated the vulnerability of the human spirit when it comes to affairs of the heart, or the soul, or the psyche, or the body---and quite frankly--bravo for those that do, bravo for those that don't---in the end it is only what is right for Me that is tantamount in My sphere. IMHEO

edited for typos-- gotta cut those nails!

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RE: How Far... - 1/29/2008 6:02:46 AM

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I learned something new from this post. There are a lot of women bobble heads in here.

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RE: How Far... - 1/29/2008 6:11:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I learned something new from this post. There are a lot of women bobble heads in here.

and you have just proved yourself as one as well---

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RE: How Far... - 1/29/2008 7:28:44 AM

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Right now I'm holding off on a major life event (forgive my vagueries) for the sake of keeping my pet. If I feasibly had the option to pack up and move the hundreds of miles separating us, I'd do it in a heartbeat, but life has a tendency to get in the way.

I take comfort in knowing that for the most part, I don't have to go far to show him that I love him. He knows. But at the same time, there's very little I wouldn't do for him.

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RE: How Far... - 1/29/2008 9:34:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I learned something new from this post. There are a lot of women bobble heads in here.

***bobble*bobble*bobble***nods*nods*nods*bobble*bobble*bobble***

Mwahahahahaaaa!

Not.

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RE: How Far... - 1/29/2008 12:35:09 PM

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I invest "me" in a relationship. That investment of me means that I will have other obligations and responsibilities to meet but it also means that when my partner needs me to give them time, I give them time but if, on the other hand, work is keeping them so busy that they are going to be working long hours...and it is a temporary deal...I give them the space they need to do what has to be done. The real world does involve jobs and kids and on and on...it does not mean that you are not thinking of someone or that you have turned your interest to another when your partner is very busy elsewhere or you are or you both are, it just means that you are trying to be your best to do what the adult world requires of you. I try to let them know that I am always available when they are free and that, even if I cannot speak for long, that I appreciated their call and it meant something. Let's face it...there are times throughout a year when business gets busy...holidays for certain sectors of the business world, tax time for almost all of the business world, etc., etc..

I try to let my partner know in other ways that I care about them. I try to let my partner know that their feelings do come under consideration even if, as the dominant, my feelings will override theirs in certain matters. But that is because in my world, I try to build not just a D/s relationship but a romantic one. It is a fine line and I have been known to make mistakes...yes, big shock I know but dominants do make mistakes...but I try to fill my responsibility as an adult and as a dominant and make up for it in the best way or ways I can. When I am at the end of a relationship or nearing the end of a relationship, I try to handle it the same way I do at the beginning and throughout the relationship and give the other person the courtesy and time to say what they feel and think before they walk away...or I do. And I would hope they would give me the same courtesy and caring.

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