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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.

At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 

Are we on the rag?  Is that seriously how you address a woman's thoughts that don't jive with yours? All I'm saying is that you have taken pains to express how happy the two of you are even when it isn't a propros...might be considered that romantic hyperbole, which is fine except when you want to label others' "full of shit."

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what? 

Careful, Michael. It's a full moon out tonight.

You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

Rabbit,  I have a rather long history of taming Amazons and Dommes as I demonstrated the other day to a stunned audience...

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: subtee

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Julia,

You are an intelligent woman but your skin is pretty thin and you are quick to take offense when none is intended.  A wide variety of posters tend to set you off but you are the common denominator, think about that for a bit.  You two seem to have a great relationship, savor that and ignore what the rest have to say.

Red only meant (I assume, but my assumptions don't tend to be wrong, being a dom and all) that what she was refering to by "overly romantic" wasn't that people are in love but in the sense of "overly filled with fantasy and hyperbole".  What she calls "overly romantic" I would call "full of shit" but she isn't as crass as I am.

At the same time, some of the posters here might apply this overly romantic label to you and bsb, since you post your bliss everywhere whether or not it is relevant. I admit to happiness for you both and to respecting much of what you say....at the same time, your  posts proclaiming how perfect everything is, how much of a Dom/sub you each are,etc, etc., are often written without regard to the OP...you have such a need to declare your perfectness....it's "overly romantic" or...maybe according to your own barometer, "full of shit."

Damn, are all the CM women on the fucking rag or what?  Subtee, try and find where I talk about how "perfect everything is."  Wonderful, yes, but I don't think I have ever mentioned perfection relating to me or our relationship.  My posts about myself and my relationship are always filled with caveats.  I may have called her "perfect" or something similar but I am sure it was clearly in the context of "perfect for me" as opposed to more perfect than anyone else. 

Are we on the rag?  Is that seriously how you address a woman's thoughts that don't jive with yours? All I'm saying is that you have taken pains to express how happy the two of you are even when it isn't a propros...might be considered that romantic hyperbole, which is fine except when you want to label others' "full of shit."

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

Is this a secret submissive fantasy that you are having?

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little?

Honestly, I try not to worry about whether what I do is enough, whether I will have enough time, whether I show too much or too little.  I am just me and that was enough for him from the very beginning and the same goes for him and Alandra. 

I find that worrying or thinking about these things keeps me from being present in the moment.  I will be the best me that I can today and that will be enough.  It will be enough for me and for the ones I love and who love me. 

Not sure if that answers your questions...

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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You go too far and they will be picking up spears, beating drums, dressing up in scant Amazon outfits made of lion skin, and dragging us off for mating, then sacrifice for the glory of the Moon Goddess.

Is this a secret submissive fantasy that you are having?

Sometimes we just get tired of doing all the work...

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit
Hey...who's beating those drums?

Knock it off

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wow, i can't believe i just wasted a good 5 minutes of my time reading this post and expecting to actually get something from it. is it any wonder why i tend to stay out of the forums in collarme.

moir

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Works for me!

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

..will you go to show your Dominant/submissive that you love/care for them? How many miles is enough? How much time is enough? How much is too much? How much is too little? 

Putting degrees of value on expressions of love is pointless to me. All that matters is that they are expressing sincere feelings in whatever way. If they don't have those sincere feelings, then buying me a car will not be the same as receiving a hug from someone who does.

If you know someone sincerely loves or cares for you, then the questions themselves become jejune. Whether it's 12 hours on a plane or a simple kiss before going to work, the same sincere feeling is being expressed. At that point, assigning values to expressions might even be defeating, because you could start to take for granted or not appreciate the simplest expressions from someone trying to remind how much they love you.

Now...back to your regularly scheduled bickering....

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Why would I snark on you in email? It is a public forum, not private. I have more interesting discussions in private emails.

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

See, I knew we could all find our happy places! 

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All of you are insane...

That may be true, but I don't have MAD in MY name lol! Oh well, I just might resemble that remark

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

See, I knew we could all find our happy places! 

LOL ya want some too??

  bam...bam...bam

(oh what I wouldn't give....heh)

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

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No, MadRabbitt we are not ALL insane, some of us know that we live on a planet inhabited by other people.

Actually, I tend to agree with your viewpoints.

But come on guys...

They were decent questions, not lame ones. It was a good subject for discussion....

Every good topic that can be host to a wide range of different opinions doesn't have to decend into chaos....

Bobgkin isn't around anymore...

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

See, I knew we could all find our happy places! 

LOL ya want some too??

  bam...bam...bam

(oh what I wouldn't give....heh)

hehehe...  any time, OG, any time... 

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

That may be true, but I don't have MAD in MY name lol! Oh well, I just might resemble that remark