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Considering how well I know him, there would be little doubt that there was only a pretense of submitting. 

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  Because of that the mind fuck would not have as significant impact as might be expected and I would be focusing more on the topping aspect of the play...  Seeing him in pain would not be a turn on; seeing him enjoy himself would be.

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  It wouldn't ruin the relationship.  There may be some mental and emotional stress that would be resolved in the days following between he and I.

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  Again, just so the slave can stare at her lying limp and broken (or maybe just relaxed) on the bed.

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Not everyone has as competent a dominant as you do and even you would have a "little doubt" that it was only a pretense.  Clearly what you three have is not the norm, nor is Knight.

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  Because of that the mind fuck would not have as significant impact as might be expected and I would be focusing more on the topping aspect of the play...  Seeing him in pain would not be a turn on; seeing him enjoy himself would be.

And if it was pain play?  Or if that impact was more significant?

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  It wouldn't ruin the relationship.  There may be some mental and emotional stress that would be resolved in the days following between he and I.

"it wouldn't ruin the relationship" isn't exactly a good result for a scene and again Knight has the proven ability to get you through that emotional stress and as we all know, that is a common gift.

I stand by what I said, the scene is fucked up and while it might not ruin a relationship, I sure don't see it adding to one. 

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  It isn't whether the scene is good or bad that impacts the relationship.  It is how we respond and support each other despite whether things are good or bad that impacts our relationship

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I think that what you three share is quite uncommon and rather special.

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They appear to be out to prove the other wrong and themselves right at the expense of the relationship.  We don't do that; the relationship comes first and we do what is best for it.

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I think that what you three share is quite uncommon and rather special.

I appreciate that; thank you.

I think what I notice most often is that the people within the relationship tend to be on opposite sides of the issues that come up.  They appear to be out to prove the other wrong and themselves right at the expense of the relationship.  We don't do that; the relationship comes first and we do what is best for it.

I suppose in many ways the three of us have different perspectives because we all three have witnessed significant people in our lives have very meaningful and happy relationships for a long time.  My parents, his parents and Alandra's grandparents are all still married and happy with each other.  These are all people who raised or helped raise us. 

We see ourselves growing old together; sitting on the porch swing enjoying our lives.  Of course, not on a day like today when it is about -30 F outside.  Hopefully, we will live somewhere warmer by then  *g*

My best to you and BSB; hope you have a great weekend.

Knight's Kyra

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ORIGINAL: RoughFN

I'm curious to know what some subs would think of this scenario.

I've always had an interest in running a scene where I get to top a domme (just since I like girls, but feel free to flip around the scenario for a dom submitting, it just wouldn't be to me). The specifics aren't necessarily important, but would probably skew more towards what I normally like - light bondage (enough to restrain her), a good long flogging, and inevitably some sexual activities as well.

Further, the effect I'm going for isn't focused on topping a domme or anything. I'm not out to demonstrate to another top that she's twuely submissive and should bow to my charms or anything. I mean, I'd expect her to play along and be respectful in the scene, but I'm not concerned about whether she's really submitting or just playing along.

I'm much more interested in messing with the slave. I have no interest in doing anything with the slave (nor do I care if it's a guy or a girl), only the domme.

A rough outline would be...

Domme takes her slave into the room and ties her/him to a chair rather securely. I'm thinking a nice wooden chair with arm rests so there's plenty of points to secure his arms, legs, torso, neck to the chair very securely. Maybe secure the chair to the floor, too, to ensure that it won't tip over. The point is that he won't be able to move but will easily be able to watch.

Next, I get to come in, and the domme promptly submits to me while the slave watches. He wouldn't have any prior knowledge of what's going to happen or that I'll be involved, just that he's been tied to a chair and that his lady will be doing something to him next. I'm sure the first thoughts when I come into the room would be, "Oh shit, what's this guy gonna do to me?" but it would quickly become obvious that I'm just there to top his mistress.

We run the scene, clear up and leave. To complete the effect, I'll make sure to leave her lying facedown on the bed as I go and have her not get up or move for at least a few minutes. Again, just so the slave can stare at her lying limp and broken (or maybe just relaxed) on the bed.

After that, she gets up and...well, I don't necessarily care, though I would be curious to know the effect on the slave afterwards.

So how does that sound? I've been really curious to know if the slave would be turned on or shocked. After all, that's his lady and owner that's reduced to acting like...him. What would the after effects be? Ruin the relationship? Mildly unsettling? Nothing at all? Horribly disturbing?

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

Thank you Kyra..  I'll bet you don't miss the weather here one bit either! (I wouldn't!)