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HalloweenWhite -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/1/2008 5:42:45 AM)
From the age they started to take -themselves- seriously and gained the experience they needed to qualify themselves as a master. Who am I to say who is too young to be a master?.

Justme696 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/1/2008 5:53:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Griswold quote: ORIGINAL: MistressCamille quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: ORIGINAL: MisterStrongWill Well this where people who do not understand the terminology correctly. Dominate? MASTER! you can be a dominate but not a MASTER. Master would imply either ownership of, or, at the pinicale of training. Like a master slave. There is no DOMINATE dominant or to dominate (master slave????? ihhhh my god...) Thank you! Dominate is a verb while Dominant is a noun. (That may be true, but a good cigar is a smoke). we still can safe the world...and not accept it ;P

Dnomyar -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/1/2008 7:00:45 AM)
I tried to safe the world once. Someone bonked me on the head and said you should have had a V8.

Vanatru -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/1/2008 7:02:05 AM)
I haven't read every single post, so this may just be echoing someone else, but I find it's not so much age that's important as is cultural reference. At 41, I'm going to have a bit different life experience, lingo, and outlook to those further and further in age from myself (especially younger). It's not impossible.... there's obviously going to be some subculutures that would be similar enough (I have a strong attraction to the Amish, other than the religious part). So, for me, age isn't a really huge consideration, but it'd mean we'd most likely have less common ground. It's been shown to me over and over, you can be 40, 50, 60, and older and still be totally immature. LOL So, age does NOT particularly mean maturity or wisdom. Wisdom is acquired by observation, questioning, and perseverance; it doesn't happen by osmosis. I could also understand, because of the cultural reference, someone much younger than me would prefer someone more their own age. They would view, and have different definitions of: maturity, wisdom, responsibility, etc.

PrincessEllie -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/1/2008 6:30:04 PM)
My Dom is younger than me, but he's also a decade more mature. Like others have said, some are just more mature than others, even if they lack experience. I think even the oldest people have their immature moments and really, as long as a Dom/me works for you, what does it matter how old they are?

Dnomyar -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/2/2008 4:47:03 AM)
PrincessEllie an 18 year old sub works for me.

Justme696 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/2/2008 6:17:04 AM)
quote: can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? yes problem solved , I adjusted the question :P

Lynnxz -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/2/2008 6:53:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? yes problem solved , I adjusted the question :P I think you just won the thread.

KaineD -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/2/2008 7:39:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? I find it hard to understand how one so young could have the understanding, wisdom and life experiance which is needed to be a Master. From what age do you take them serious? Thanks for your answers. Age has very little to do with experience and wisdom. And judging from your post, you seem to lack both. No offense. I just think it's very immature to judge other people based on age when they're adults. The BDSM lifestyle is a very individual thing I feel, and no one person should tell another that they're wrong as long as they're following the rules of safe, sane, and consensual.

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 6:14:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KaineD quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? I find it hard to understand how one so young could have the understanding, wisdom and life experiance which is needed to be a Master. From what age do you take them serious? Thanks for your answers. quote: Age has very little to do with experience and wisdom. And judging from your post, you seem to lack both. No offense. I just think it's very immature to judge other people based on age when they're adults. The BDSM lifestyle is a very individual thing I feel, and no one person should tell another that they're wrong as long as they're following the rules of safe, sane, and consensual. It's so hard to read properly is it? WHERE did I judge them? By simply asking one question about it, doesn't mean I judge them. Good communication is hard I know. But don't put words in My mouth which I didn't say. It's a matter between two people, if they are happy? Im happy. I'm the last one to judge people who are happy. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT` grumblz at the quote or not to quote

SimplyMichael -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 7:26:29 AM)
How can a 21 year old POSSIBLY be a master...sorry but the phrasing of the question is clearly condescending and if you can't see that then you lack clarity. Look at LA, she is what, 27? She would make a better dominant than most here, certainly better than have been until quite recently and I am almost twice her age. Sure, some are arrogant ignorant nitwits but based on the threads here, that doesn't seem limited to youth. Besides, what a 22 year old girl looks for and what an older more mature woman seeks are often two very different things. Bottom line, there is a place for everyone.

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 7:59:54 AM)
17 pages later, and NOW you fix the problem. I will expect much quicker solutions in the future, or else. If "possibly" had been part of the original post, I might have approached this a bit differently. It Is possible for a 21 year old to be a Master (in my view), but it would be a rare event, for the reasons I've already stated in previous posts.

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 8:04:19 AM)
Micheal, I think what Justme was getting at, and I'll rephrase it, "Is is possible for a 21 year old to be a Master"? I would have to say it is.

Justme696 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 10:02:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Look at LA, she is what, 27? She would make a better dominant than most here, certainly better than have been until quite recently and I am almost twice her age. Perhaps she would be, but it is still an opinion. With out using her name more, as you said yourself...there is some one for every one. BTw curious, does it mean if she looks like a good dom to you..would you submit :P (just joking) quote: 17 pages later, and NOW you fix the problem. I will expect much quicker solutions in the future, or else. good solutions which satisfy all..take time. But I try to be faster Master ;)

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 10:11:29 AM)
Don't keep me waiting. I need answers, and I need them Now. Any answer will do.

Justme696 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 10:13:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterWilliam55 Don't keep me waiting. I need answers, and I need them Now. Any answer will do. o.k.

Dnomyar -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 10:14:35 AM)
MasterWilliams the answer is blowing in the wind.

MasterWilliam55 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 12:27:43 PM)
Just as I thought. I'll never find them....well, unless Justme comes through.

Justme696 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/4/2008 12:29:12 PM)
I give up, it is weekend for my brains :p well they have weekend all week

Overlord57 -> RE: How can a 21 year old possibly be a Master? (4/6/2008 5:41:02 PM)
Years ago, to become a Master, you first had to be a slave. It was a long, trying expereience. You were a slave in every aspect. It was thought that a Master should have personally experienced any command that he would ever give a slave he would own. He was humiliated as any slave can be, he was whipped, and endured any other punishment he might pass out in his future as Master. They believed if he had personally experienced what he was able to deal his slave, it would tend to make him think more of the slave, then of his anger at the present, and curtail his wrath at the moment. There was no set age to get into training, and there was no set age you became a Master. It was the importance of the slave that mattered. It was thought then, and I believe it still today. To see the slave is to see her Master. For she alone mirrors his experience and abilities. Age has nothing to do with it now. It used to, but not anymore. The lifestyle isn't what it used to be, much has changed. For better or worse, I don't know, I just watch and try not to judge. May all that you are, be true to your heart. Overlord

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