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Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 2:13:58 AM   
kittyinpink


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Status: offline 		I'm curious how many Doms have set Honorifics (Sir, Master, Ma'am, etc) that they tell their sub to use, and how many just let their sub develop an Honorific for them.

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 3:35:00 AM   
julietsierra


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Status: offline 		I was told I initially couldn't call him "Master."

As it was explained to me: Master is WHAT I am, in the same way someone is a plumber or a teacher or a lawyer. You don't go around calling someone Hey, Plumber!" My name is R______. If you'd like to call me Sir, you may do that.

And so I did.

As time went on, I asked him again about that whole "Master" thing...

He said "Master is what I am...call me what I am to you." I really thought that'd be "Master."  However, Sir is who he is to me, it's who he's always been and flipping the switch just seems redundant. Both of us know he's my Master and will always be my Master. When talking about him with friends, I use his name. When addressing him, I've tried to use his name, but "Sir" is always what comes out.

juliet

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 4:41:41 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Im called Hey You.

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 4:52:15 AM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Im called Hey You.


That works for me. I'm STILL trying to figure out how to SAY your name!!

juliet

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:19:40 AM   
ProlificNeeds


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Status: offline 		"Sir" is the prefered honorific in certain contexts. Though I am always welcome and encouraged to use his name, provided that honorific is now used at a certain minimum. It can also be discreetly used in public without anyone getting their panties in a knot.

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:26:24 AM   
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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:28:48 AM   
RCdc


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quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Im called Hey You.


That works for me. I'm STILL trying to figure out how to SAY your name!!

juliet


You could always just try 'ray'.
 
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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:31:40 AM   
julietsierra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Im called Hey You.


That works for me. I'm STILL trying to figure out how to SAY your name!!

juliet


You could always just try 'ray'.
 
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yea, but that would be easy...I'm still trying the phonetics of Dn together.  Jus think of it as "tongue exercises."
 
juliet

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:33:49 AM   
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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:36:25 AM   
RedMagic1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Im called Hey You.


That works for me. I'm STILL trying to figure out how to SAY your name!!

juliet

Start with the last letter and go left.

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:42:39 AM   
PrizedPosession


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Status: offline 		Daddy/Sir/Master, i call Him all of them because He likes variety lol. He has a bunch of names for me too but i stick to Master when i am in trouble, Sir day to day and Daddy when being intimate.
-bobcat
But thats just me.


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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:57:04 AM   
Evility


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Status: offline 		What has always puzzled me is when a submissive refers to her dominant as "my Sir". I hate to be a grammarphobe but I cringe everytime I see that.  

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 5:57:15 AM   
ItalianSMistress


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Status: offline 		I assume you want Dommes to answer too (as you said Ma'am in your examples)
 
I dont like anyone calling Me Mistress, unless, that is what I am to them, and I even state so in My profile, I wont even answer to Mistress
I go by Governess, as My "title", or Ma'am is fine to show respect
At times, with lesbian slaves, I have been called Syr, which is fine too

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:05:52 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Im called Hey You.


That works for me. I'm STILL trying to figure out how to SAY your name!!

juliet

Start with the last letter and go left.



well fuck me running.  i NEVER would have gotten that!!!!

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:09:56 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evility

What has always puzzled me is when a submissive refers to her dominant as "my Sir". I hate to be a grammarphobe but I cringe everytime I see that.  


i can understand that.  i say "my Daddy" sometimes, "my Sir" othertimes.  some people jsut get bent outta shape at seeing "my Daddy", ok i can understand that.  but i dont call him Master, except in very specific circumstances....and so that feels strange and awkward to me.

he isnt my husband, or my boyfriend....and "my Dominant" sounds so formal, which we are definitely not.  (insert memory of us laughing yesterday as i teased him for leaving his socks on) 

so he's Daddy or Sir at most times....  Evil Bastard sometimes too.

kitten

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:28:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well, as others, we do have a lot of names for each other, but, when we first started playing, He requested I call Him Master.
But, every time we were together, I called Him Honey, followed quickly by Master. Hence, He has become my 'HoneyMaster'. (among other things)

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:30:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: adoracat

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Im called Hey You.


That works for me. I'm STILL trying to figure out how to SAY your name!!

juliet

Start with the last letter and go left.



well fuck me running.  i NEVER would have gotten that!!!!

kitten, laughin at herself


Runs after kitten, waving a dildo... HEY!  You forgot this...

I never would have gotten it either!!! Thank YOU!

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:35:34 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

quote:

ORIGINAL: adoracat

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Start with the last letter and go left.



well fuck me running.  i NEVER would have gotten that!!!!

kitten, laughin at herself


Runs after kitten, waving a dildo... HEY!  You forgot this...

I never would have gotten it either!!! Thank YOU!


nooooooo i'm still too damn sore from Daddy being here yesterday!!!!  *laughs*

kitten, flopping on the floor and laughing more

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:35:50 AM   
RCdc


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ORIGINAL: adoracat
well fuck me running. 


This is Darcy

Well that's certainly put an interesting mental picture in my head

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RE: Set Honorifics? - 2/1/2008 6:38:45 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: adoracat
well fuck me running. 


This is Darcy

Well that's certainly put an interesting mental picture in my head


*giggling*   yeah....i've heard that a few times! 

kitten, laughing and blushing at the same time

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