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Aynne -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:00:28 PM)
I am so glad to hear that Badsir, I have had approximately 14 pages of letters since I joined and I think it is a 70/30 split of men that actually read mine. They want poly, they want extreme sadism, they want slavery, on and on, and they all tell me with "them" I would like it. I may be new to the lifestyle, but I am certainly not new to the world of men. Or they open with : You filthy whore, or some such other sentiment. Or demand to be called Master. My Master, when I find him, can say that. Not every dom out there. So, rambling done, no I do not think most men read profiles and for the ones that do, thank you and some of those responses have been amazing, one in particular. Hoping......

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:03:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Baddsir Thanks for the replies, seems a bit of patience is in order on my part lol "i know what i like & i like what i know" Baddsir ive been looking for 10 years now...it will take time. lots of time...to find the right one for you... wether your looking online or offline.

KaineD -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:11:36 PM)
quote: Okay, I perved your profile just cuz. You might get better responses if you took out all the negativity. I'm just saying. Cali Do you think my journal is negative, or my profile in general? I feel like I read alot of negativity in girls' profiles, why can't I have some? Haha! But perhaps you're right. Maybe I should express myself in a different way. Still, I find my search very frustrating.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:16:24 PM)
Your profile in general. Talk about what you have succeeded at doing in real life, not about what you have failed to do in your love life.

domiguy -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:19:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Baddsir I'm sure in my profile it makes no mention of sadism or extremeism yet i keep getting mail from submissives who are looking for such a Master there are others on here who i am sure would be happy to chat about it. I should also add i'm not looking for young (under 30) girls my motto is...I know what i like & i like what i know I wonder if i am wasting my time on here? Definitely wasting yours and our time here....I doubt your claim. But it could be true...So let's just say for debate that it is... You keep getting unsolicited mail from masochistic subs?...You would be the first person (male Dom) to start a thread complaining about the fact that you are getting mail that is not appreciated...Aside from all of the threads bitching about my Nigerian brothers and sisters and "The fakers." Your profile is brief...You are right, it says nothing about wanting to meet a masochistic woman. Hmmmm....Then we have to take the leap that a man dresssed as an archer has some sort of an allure to masochistic females. I have always wondered about this correlation but never aloud or put it to paper...What is it about a man in tights that makes a woman want to endure pain? Fascinating...Simply fascinating. I will be sporting tights in a pic if I ever get my profile together...Does color matter? I know bulls are supposedly inspired by the color of "red." Subs, any thoughts regarding this matter would be appreciated. Perhaps a stunning muleta adorning the Domidong might be in order as the sub is artistically manuevered and ushered towards her utlimate demise. Ole...You beeyatches!

sweetwenchie -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:21:03 PM)
~fast reply~ i perv profiles all the time, and actually do take the time to read what (if anything) is written there. Not all will, and usually you can tell those who do by what they say when (and if) they actually email you. Happens on any site, Cm is no exception.

LadyLynx -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:32:06 PM)
KaineD, just checked out your profile. Not bad. But maybe put a pic up. You don't have to show your face, (like it could be partially in shadow. that can look menacing;) OP, I think a pic that has you looking directlly into the camera would be good. Your current pic kinda reminds me of the Captain Morgan commercials. lol.

lateralist1 -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 1:44:06 PM)
I read profiles. From some you can get a real feel for the person themselves. I have to agree with the others KaineD you do come over as a negative person. However I have empathy with that. I've been so insulted at times because I'm honest about BDSM being my sexuality. I've never thought of CM as a sex site. It's a site for people who are interested in BDSM which is far more far reaching than just sex. or even just kinky sex. However it is very easy to get a stereotypical view especially as so few people seem to post. People seem to put up a profile and then either get few or no replies because of their geographical location or are really hounded by people giving advice in not very nice terms.Ok some ask for it I know but we have to have patience. People get themselves in all kinds of emotional messes or can't find anyone to even talk to about their needs. It seems everyone here thinks we are all sadists or masochists. I doubt that very much. However we sometimes don't know what we need/like until we stumble over it. A bit of advice KaineD (I've put it at the bottom to see if you read this far lol) I would widen your search. Even people with little money can travel and relocate if they really want to.

Dnomyar -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 2:58:34 PM)
Draws a moustache on Aynee and Tygra. Now lets see how many replies you get.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 3:00:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Draws a moustache on Aynee and Tygra. Now lets see how many replies you get. woohoo drag kings....now where is that strappy.

QuietDom -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 3:04:06 PM)
No-one thus far has given the canonical response to such an inquiry: "On the Internet, the answer to ANY question that begins with 'does anyone' is 'Yes.'"

sweetwenchie -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 3:08:42 PM)
That would be too logical, our brains might self implode [8\|]

chellekitty -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 4:02:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Baddsir I should also add i'm not looking for young (under 30) girls your profile doesn't say anything about looking for "girls" over 30...it says you are looking for mature women...it is possible to be a mature woman and be under 30...though rare we are...

AquaticSub -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 4:06:46 PM)
I do! Really I do, I don't message any girls who aren't looking for a male dom/fem sub couple! Not the same situation, but I wanted to let you know that at least some people do read profiles!

roomforyou -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 4:22:16 PM)
for simple folk like the mrs and i ...its a lot more fun reading a profile then writing one ...were still working on our in the hopes someday somewhere someone may read it ...lol dreamers maybe ...but reading profiles is a great way to pass time in the winter ..so in conclusion yes we read profiles ..thank you for your time the dictionary is the only place you can find success come before work

pettingdragons -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 4:37:12 PM)
Nope ..those who cant read...dont those who can read....still dont those looking for something more then a good time....read.... my 2 cents Pamela

MercTech -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 5:05:06 PM)
Humph... A picture or a witty comment on the boards will get me reading a profile. And, if I see someting interesting in the profile, I'll shoot off a message. I gues I didn't get the HNG gene to be blanketing the messages far and wide. Stefan

GreedyTop -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 5:10:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MercTech Humph... A picture or a witty comment on the boards will get me reading a profile. And, if I see someting interesting in the profile, I'll shoot off a message. I gues I didn't get the HNG gene to be blanketing the messages far and wide. Stefan I'm the same way.. a cute / striking picture, a witty or obviously well thought out post grabs my attention and makes me want to know more about the person behind it.

liketophoto -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/3/2008 6:52:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pettingdragons Nope ..those who cant read...dont those who can read....still dont those looking for something more then a good time....read.... my 2 cents Pamela yes...

Aynne -> RE: Does any one actually read profiles? (2/4/2008 6:35:48 AM)
It is Aynne, thanks, and I am assuming you are saying without the picture I would not not get any replies? Ah, but the mind is as intriguing and enchanting as the physical isn't it? For the non shallow types at least. And to have both, lethal combination. ; ) quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Draws a moustache on Aynee and Tygra. Now lets see how many replies you get.

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