Aswad
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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen Indeed. Whilst the IV heroin sounds like a good idea, we can be pretty sure its a temporary happiness, if it counts as happiness at all. It's not temporary, if you do it right. But it doesn't qualify in my book. quote:
Since we're human beings we all have different ideas about that of course. Some that we can agree on, some that most of us can agree on, and some that are peculiar to small groups of us and to the individual. There's pretty broad consensus that most people are looking for contentedness and passivity. Opium for the masses, except we get to reap the fruits of their labour if we play our cards right. Some live and some have lives. The distinction is subtle yet ubiquitous. What a few of us realize (I will be so arrogant as to posit that it's the closest thing to the truth we are getting any time soon), is that happiness is a choice, no more, no less. I lack the words to describe some of the shit that has been going on in my life over the past decade and a half, but I have chosen to be happy. Not content, but happy. And I've chosen to keep shooting for the stars, and to tell chance and fate to sod off and find a victim elsewhere. I can provide an entertaining sideshow, sure, and usually do, but I'm not taking a fall. quote:
And indeed that we really have no business in interfering with others' decisions to prevent them from realising their own happiness. Bingo. You can lead a horse to water, but it's got to drink for itself. So, too, with life. quote:
The great value of the end of the universe - whether its just a notion or will one day be a reality, is that it forces us to realise that we are each of responsible for ourselves and no one else. We cannot save ourselves, still less those we'd like to and there is no "God" coming to the rescue and nothing afterwards either. All we can control is how we choose to deal with it all, and that is a matter of personal preference; heroin, hope or acceptance. I shall have to disagree with the God part and such, but that is immaterial. My faith supports the exact same position: what we do is a choice, and we will face the consequences of our own choices and those of others (that's what karma really expresses); we can own it by being accountable for our actions and making our choices as free people; by discarding the useless fear of death, we can embrace life from a position of strength, rather than weakness; we can persevere, overcome and grow, and we can do it ourselves. As I've commented when other Christians say it's all about forgiveness: Jesus showed the way, he didn't walk it for me... he can't. Absolutely nobody but me gets to live my life or walk my path for me; no man, no priest, and no god. And nobody else will be accountable for, or take credit for, my choices. We don't need an end; without this, there's no beginning. Health, al-Aswad.
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"If God saw what any of us did that night, he didn't seem to mind. From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way. We do." -- Rorschack, Watchmen.
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