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RE: A question about slavery - 2/10/2008 8:33:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: whipingherfeet

jusy obey your master he willknow whats good for you obey

please god tell me you are being ironic ....

Nah, it's just his standard. It's all he ever says. That and severe foot beatings are the perfect solution to every problem.

That could explain why he thinks all women should go barefoot, I wondered about that. Of course he also mentions that women should be in chains 24/7. Nice fantasy, but not very realistic.

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RE: A question about slavery - 2/10/2008 8:48:39 PM

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Yes, that's a great post. We argue on here about what "no-limits" means, and it's usually just a matter of time before someone uses the chainsaw example to prove that people truly aren't "no-limits" even when they claim to be.

What everyone forgets is that you can't be a "no-limits" slave without a master. You can't just walk around and say "Hi, I'm a no-limits slave"; in fact, mindless profiles like that are probably what drive most people to assume that "no-limits" is a crock of shit. "No-limits" is a state of mind that a slave develops with a master.

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I believe that, in essence, a "no-limits" slave is one that has the same limits as the Mistress.

In other words, jssubc is My "no-limits" slave. But only because he trusts Me so completely. he knows that I will not do something in front of his UM that destroy's that relationship. he knows that I will not castrate him. he knows that I am not a sadist etc. he has given his limits to Me because of the absolute trust in Me that comes from time spent.

Does that make sense? he doesn't have a safe-word. Any limit of "his" that I wish to push or take away would be in the full knowledge of How I am, Who I am, the Way I work. So he doesn't NEED limits. he doesn't NEED anything to "protect" him. That is many years of trust that have built up between us. Many.

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RE: A question about slavery - 2/10/2008 9:03:42 PM

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Is it?

My desire is always that my slave obey me without hesitation and without fail. My desire is that my slave trust my judgement absolutely. To my mind, such is part and parcel of being Master, of owning and ruling slaves.

But my desire is also to own my slave, not just today, but for the remainder of my days. That desire cannot be gratified if I damage her. Even if she is perfect in obedience, if I cause her harm, I will lose my slave. To my mind, this too is part and parcel of being Master, of owning and ruling slaves.

Limits assure us both that she will be mine for quite some time to come.

Do I want "no limits"? No, not at all. Not even in fantasy.

Greetings,

This is a beautifully expressed sentiment. You nailed my belief and attitude about what I bring to the relationship I am in. Absolute obedience and complete trust in SJ.

We don't live in a fantasy. Our life together is as much about the day to day aspects of living as it is about wiitwd. Were he to turn me into 'damaged goods' it would be of no benefit to him.

well wishes ~ fairer than she

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RE: A question about slavery - 2/11/2008 6:14:33 PM

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hi, this is my first time posting anything, but i have a question.. my Master and i are online for right now but in the near future Wwe will be together 24/7, well, He wants me to be a no limits slave. i understand He owns my heart body and soul, and i would do anything for Him, does that mean. i wont have any limits. i mean none at all? or can a no limit slave have a few hard limits? He is a Sadist, so i understand what is in store for me.. but still.. i need to know if i wont have any limits at all. yes i know i need to talk to Him about this. i have a fear that He may take it to where i cant handle something lol. but i know i will grow to like it slowly. may i have Yyour opinons on this its really important to me. thank Yyou all for Yyour advice or opinons.

I think what you are finding here is a lot of variety on what "no-limits" means. I think many people believe that "no-limits" means that the Master can and will do anything to his slave, but the reality is is that any mentally stable person has limits. To Me "no-limits" means that the slaves limits are those that I have. One of My limits is that I would not do anything that brings permanent harm to My slave. I want My slave to be around a long time so it is in My best interest not to cause her harm or damage. BTW, I am a sadist so for Me bruising and welts are perfectly acceptable, but scarring, mameing, etc. is not. I believe that a slave should know fully well what activities the Master enjoys before she accepts any collar or agrees to any type of play.

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RE: A question about slavery - 2/11/2008 7:54:01 PM

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I have always been told that is you break your toys you can't play with them anymore. Negotiation ensure that everyone comes out safely?

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RE: A question about slavery - 2/11/2008 8:02:02 PM

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I'm just going to bog in with something disgusting, that pops to mind when I see the term "no limits". If you have no limits, does that mean you will eat dog shit if that's his wish? Or wear a bikini in the middle of winter, to the local supermarket? Turn up at your mums Christmas bash wearing a leather leash and collar, thigh high boots and a dildo up your backside? Call all your friends and tell them that you were fucked by 23 guys last night, all at the same time? Would you eat live kittens? Lie on a traintrack until the train runs over you? Because he wanted it?

No limits is a very big term and I'm pretty sure most people don't look at the facts.

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