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How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 6:16:38 PM

VMistressV

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So how would one make sex uncomfortable or painful for thier male sumissive but not uncomfortable for the female dom? Im thinking listerine pocket packs stuck to his penis then covered with a condom. Or mayhaps a studded condom turned inside out. Maybe just a too tight cock ring?
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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 6:49:10 PM

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quote:

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So how would one make sex uncomfortable or painful for thier male sumissive but not uncomfortable for the female dom? Im thinking listerine pocket packs stuck to his penis then covered with a condom. Or mayhaps a studded condom turned inside out. Maybe just a too tight cock ring?
Gimmie some advice here.

Try some Vicks vapor rub in the condom!

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 7:55:58 PM

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Please, no comments about putting sandpaper inside condom, thank you very much.

;-)

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 7:59:49 PM

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Icy hot..on a qtip... stick it in the hole..get it in good.. wrap with condom.. he will remember you for a few days after when he pees also.. each time.. no harm done..

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 8:09:00 PM

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Icy hot..on a qtip... stick it in the hole

I do not have informed knowledge about the matter but I have read a couple of times about how the urethera is susceptible to permanent scars from what seems to be harmless SM fun (putting tobasco inside urethera).

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Sea

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 8:23:23 PM

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My motivation is basically sex as a form of discipline or cbt.
It would be fine with me if it were possible for him to orgasm after a while.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 9:09:28 PM

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if you google figging I think there are specific instructions on the application of ginger to the genitals.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 9:10:12 PM

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50 clothes pins on his balls / a plug up his ass /the use of a humbler / needles / paracord for cock n ball bondage /figging aka ginger root up the ass . That should get you started ..

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 9:12:44 PM

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vicks vapor rub would probably degrade the condom and then it certaintly would affect the mistress.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 9:19:47 PM

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I know a Domme who if her male slave begs for sex before milking time , she hands him a pot scrubbing spounge with the brillo thingie on one side and make him use the brillow green thingie side ..

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/9/2008 10:40:09 PM

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owie! awesome

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 1:10:24 AM

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V > the best part about helping with your request , i shall not feel a thing ,yet get the pleasure of helping .I always found it kinda funny when a former Mistress i was with exclaimed i got some fun new tricks , Do not worry it shall not hurt me "meaning her " one lil bit .I knew i would be in a interesting time .
Enjoy , smiles ..

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 6:45:06 AM

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Icy hot..on a qtip... stick it in the hole

I do not have informed knowledge about the matter but I have read a couple of times about how the urethera is susceptible to permanent scars from what seems to be harmless SM fun (putting tobasco inside urethera).

Cheers,

Sea

I work in renal transplantation:

Word to the wise -- don't deliberately stick anything unsterile in your urethra or urinary tract. The urethra is a very fragile tract of tissue that is susceptible to strictures caused by scarring -- and yes, irritation by chemical or improper insertions can and will cause that. Even regular catheterizations (patients who are para-quads) cause major urinary tract dilemmas.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 10:55:40 AM

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So how would one make sex uncomfortable or painful for thier male sumissive but not uncomfortable for the female dom? Im thinking listerine pocket packs stuck to his penis then covered with a condom. Or mayhaps a studded condom turned inside out. Maybe just a too tight cock ring?
Gimmie some advice here.

Try some Vicks vapor rub in the condom!

That was my first thought also :) But be sure to back it up with a dish washing soap and a wet washcloth to cut the grease to wash it off him asap.... that stuff heats up big time!

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 11:11:54 AM

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A couple drops of Tobasco Sauce on a plug or dildo gets my attention <g>

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 11:20:29 AM

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How do make sex painful for him?

Don't give him any.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 12:18:47 PM

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i would not recommend mixing chemicals and condoms if you're actually using the condom as birth control/STD protection.
Since i don't think studded condoms are intended to hurt the "receiver", i don't think using one inside-out would have the desired effect.

One suggestion would be to have him wear a strap-on for sex... that way he is taking the "normal" role in intercourse, but receives none of the physical pleasure. If you stuff his own parts into an athletic supporter underneath the strap-on, you can then use any sort of torment that comes to mind on them... abrasive material, heating ointments, electrical gear, etc., and the arousal that will likely result will only increase his suffering (and if nothing else, his frustration, which is of course its own kind of suffering). This can of course be combined with a plug, restraints, etc.

Or are you specifically trying to still use the penis, but have it experience pain instead of pleasure?

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 2:42:28 PM

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You know those plastic rings that are left over when you open a screw-top milk or soda bottle? I mean the ones that have the inside diameter covered with barbed ribs, they snap off the top part to prove the contents haven't been tampered with.

Well, they can be coaxed over the head of a flaccid penis. One just below the corona will bite increasingly hard as the penis becomes tumescent, and one at the base will greatly reduce the ability to lose the erection. As he grows more aroused, the pain increases dramatically. As the spasms that precede an orgasm intensify, the penis will strive for full hardness, which will ratchet up the pain level even more, as the penis' oscillating immalleability drives the barbs deeper. The pain will be such that orgasm will prove impossible.

The first few times, that is. After a few dry runs and near misses, the stimulation will be too much for the pain to counteract, and he will finish, the waves of the ejaculation cresting and receeding through the cutting sensations. If you have a ring at the base, it will be a retrograde ejaculation, depriving him of the full benefit of the orgasm, and leaving him somewhat unfulfilled.

It would be wise to keep a pair of scissors, or a small pair of diagonal cutters handy. I have always eventually manged to get the things off, and I've never had anything last but a ring of pinpoint bruises, but your mileage may vary.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 5:30:08 PM

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How do make sex painful for him?

Don't give him any.

Akasha

my thoughts exactly.
i was frankly not aware intercourse was ever even allowed for male submissives / slaves.

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RE: How to make sex painful for him - 2/10/2008 5:38:01 PM

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You might also consider using some Ora-jel. i'm not sure exactly what effect it might have on the erection, but it will definitely numb it from sensations as far as orgasm is concerned.

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