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ORIGINAL: petdave

i would not recommend mixing chemicals and condoms if you're actually using the condom as birth control/STD protection. 
Since i don't think studded condoms are intended to hurt the "receiver", i don't think using one inside-out would have the desired effect.

One suggestion would be to have him wear a strap-on for sex... that way he is taking the "normal" role in intercourse, but receives none of the physical pleasure. If you stuff his own parts into an athletic supporter underneath the strap-on, you can then use any sort of torment that comes to mind on them... abrasive material, heating ointments, electrical gear, etc., and the arousal that will likely result will only increase his suffering (and if nothing else, his frustration, which is of course its own kind of suffering). This can of course be combined with a plug, restraints, etc.

Or are you specifically trying to still use the penis, but have it experience pain instead of pleasure?

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ORIGINAL: HandSolo

You know those plastic rings that are left over when you open a screw-top milk or soda bottle? I mean the ones that have the inside diameter covered with barbed ribs, they snap off the top part to prove the contents haven't been tampered with.

Well, they can be coaxed over the head of a flaccid penis. One just below the corona will bite increasingly hard as the penis becomes tumescent, and one at the base will greatly reduce the ability to lose the erection. As he grows more aroused, the pain increases dramatically. As the spasms that precede an orgasm intensify, the penis will strive for full hardness, which will ratchet up the pain level even more, as the penis' oscillating immalleability drives the barbs deeper. The pain will be such that orgasm will prove impossible.

The first few times, that is. After a few dry runs and near misses, the stimulation will be too much for the pain to counteract, and he will finish, the waves of the ejaculation cresting and receeding through the cutting sensations. If you have a ring at the base, it will be a retrograde ejaculation, depriving him of the full benefit of the orgasm, and leaving him somewhat unfulfilled.

It would be wise to keep a pair of scissors, or a small pair of diagonal cutters handy. I have always eventually manged to get the things off, and I've never had anything last but a ring of pinpoint bruises, but your mileage may vary.

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ORIGINAL: NakedHouseboySlv

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


How do make sex painful for him?

Don't give him any.

Akasha

my thoughts exactly.
i was frankly not aware intercourse was ever even allowed for male submissives / slaves.

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ORIGINAL: VMistressV

So how would one make sex uncomfortable or painful for thier male sumissive but not uncomfortable for the female dom? Im thinking listerine pocket packs stuck to his penis then covered with a condom. Or mayhaps a studded condom turned inside out. Maybe just a too tight cock ring?
Gimmie some advice here.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


How do make sex painful for him?

Don't give him any.

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: SubJordanTyler

Along the lines of the IcyHot idea..............coat a buttplug with it and shove it up his ass.  The pain from that will make sure he doesn't enjoy the sex with his Mistress for sure.